Is being cute and sexy out????

Question

Okay, I am not being stuck on myself but I want to know the truth. I am a very beautiful girl and I attract alot of attention from men and women may I add that I am also sexy. But when it gets down to being in a real relationship, men seem to scat like cattle. Do men think that I am too much to handle? What is it please help?

Answer 1

Hey girl I have the same prob. They are just jelious!
No the real answer to this is that they feel intimidated by us. We are just too beautiful for them..lol no actually for real they are too insecure about themselves and think that if we date them we will find someone better and cheat or leave them b/c they think that we are too good for them. you just have to reassure them that you want someone for their personality and that you want them to want you for the same thing.... God Bless!

Answer 2

Well this may be a two fold question that actually asks you somethings.
1. Are you kinda stuck on yourself? Being cute and sexy will attract people to you, but if there isn't anything other than that you cannot expect more.

2. Do you go 'too far" too quickly with guys? Most guys like to have a girlfriend who is not 'easy". Yes this is 2007, but it is true. Every guy wants to have a great 'special' girl as a girlfriend.

Sorry if this sounds like a criticism. It is not intended to be, rather an honest reason why you might be having trouble.

Answer 3

Let's use someone as an example....ME for instance. I am and have always been TERRIFIED of beautiful women, for several reasons. There is always the fear of rejection, the fear that beautiful women are high maintenance, that beautiful women attract too much attention from other men and the competition is going to be too much and last too long, the fear that the beautiful woman is seeking the "beautiful man", that the "sexiness" of the BW is going to mean infidelity (ever notice how often the unfaithful wife/partner on tv or in the movies is BEAUTIFUL/DESIRABLE?), and of course, there's the mistaken belief that along with beauty goes the other "B" word (the one that rhymes with Rich).
What gets me, though is that my wife is a beautiful woman, and her interest in me gave me enough courage to express an interest in her. Thirty years of marriage later...it worked out....SO... only you can determine whether you're too much to handle, and, being "cursed" with beauty, you'll have the problem of men who only want you for your "sexiness" and for sex or to be "arm candy" to be displayed in front of others ("Look what I've got!").
In the end, you may have to go after the guy that you think fits the profile of the man that you want to have a serious relationship with and let him know that you're interested, breaking down any fears that he may have of your beauty and the popular misconceptions that people have about "beautiful" people in general.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

Most guys today, at least the ones that I've been around for awhile, are about 1 thing with women: hit it and quit it.

They just don't seem to value a real relationship, and marvel at the fact that I've been with my GF for about 8 months.

So in the future, remember that Men don't scat like cattle, boys do.

And yes, there are plenty of fish in the sea, but the ones worth catching are worth waiting for.

Answer 5

Some men...and women, want more than 'good-looks'. It's about what is on the inside. How you talk and act that people look for. (not that you aren't both attractive and have a great personality (i don't know you) ) It's just more people want something more than 'cute n sexy'. And if you are a personable person than maybe it's just the men you choose to date or like. Find one that tells you you're smart BEFORE beautiful. Kind BEFORE sexy.

Hope it helps :-)

Answer 6

No...people that describe themselves as "beautiful" usually aren't because they don't fully understand the meaning of the word. Most guys at one time or another have had women that were very nice to look at, but as we endured being with them over time, we discovered there was nothing else to them but their looks. So, when guys really want to get serious, we tend to choose more wisely than just for superficial looks. That may be why they "scat like cattle". Work on that inner you and you'll be fine. (Ironically, you accomplish this by stepping outside of yourself). Good luck to you.

Answer 7

"may I add that I am also sexy." Maybe they don't like your attitude. "Sexy and cute" isn't everything (a good part though :P). Men want to make out, get laid, that sort of thing with really hot women. They want a relationship with someone they can relate to.

Answer 8

I think that the men you are dating are only going out with you for show. All lads are the same most judge on for looks, but some lads look inside of you than looking at your sexyness. I think you should get to know a klad before you date him you can tell whether he is using you forr show or not.

Answer 9

No.....I don't know. Personality problems maybe I really don't know you and so I got nothing. Maybe the guys that like you feel like they must do everything right in order to get you. They feel like they can't be themselves around you because your so pretty. They think they have to be a perfect gentlemen around you. That happens with a lot of people. The guys are like, WOW i got this really hot gurl, but I can't do anything else or i'll be totally embarassed and she'll dump me.

thats what I think anyway. Tell the guys about yourself. Open up to them and maybe they will to you.

Answer 10

I think you are so up yourself you don't need anyone else. A relationship involves allowing another person into your life. That means you are not necessarily the centre of attention. Can you handle that?