should i call someone i really really like to ask if we could meet? what should i do? how to approach? email call or nothing?
2007-11-02 10:39:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask the person to go out with you personally. This is the best thing. If you're shy, you can sms, email or pass a note.
Good luck.
2007-11-02 10:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how well you know this person which I will assume is female since your profile says male.
I guess since she gave you her phone number (you didn't get it like a stalker would did you?) you definitely should call her and try to further the relationship.
If you want to be real smooth you need to find some common interests. The real skill is being able to find common interests and turn them into dating prospects. Such as, if you find a common interest in music, that could lead to a concert date ;) If you both like cooking, take cooking classes together. It can be just about anything... the first common interest I found with my current girlfriend was a love for coffee. We both loved to go to Starbucks all the time so it wasn't long before we started going there together.
Try to find something like that and you will have a great foundation for a relationship.
With no foundation you are taking a huge risk of rejection. Some people can deal with rejection well, others not so well. Its really all about you and what will work best for you.
2007-11-02 10:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by bo75007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more spacific. I mean does this person talk to you on a regualr basis or not? I would deffinitly either call them or whatever you can do to get a hold of them and ask them if they want to hang out. That way you know if they even want to be seen with you lol And then you could get to know eachother and then once you guys have a ground with eachother star getting into the i like you talk. see where that goes but dont rush and scare the person off, you know. Take your time. Your still young.
2007-11-02 10:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by nikki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can call and ask this person to come over for dinner as friends. Tell them you would like to get to know them better. You can ask that person to watch a movie with you, although you can't talk in the movies.
Be friends first and see how it goes after you get to know that person.
2007-11-02 10:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing...if you dont take a chance then guess what...you would have wasted a perfectly good chance...if they gave you their number...give them a call and see where it goes...ask them for a coffee or lunch or something...just to get the ball rolling...even ask them to help you with a problem that you have...just some how...some way...Start the communication
2007-11-02 10:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by boostedblur 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Email would be nice. Start off by being friendly; treat them as a friend.
"Hi, Just thought I'd contact you as I haven't seen you for a while, to ask you if you are free perhaps this week or next, to perhaps meet up with me for coffee and a friendly chat.
If you are interested, please let me know".
2007-11-02 11:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight forward and honest, most people will say yes if you ask them to meet you for coffee or pie, everyone likes pie! (even if they only like you as a friend) And ask them if they feel the same or whatever you want to ask them, like wanna go out . . . ? or Hey, I like you and wondered if we could get together and go to a movie or dinner or ice skating , just be yourself and don't change for someone if they don't like you the way you are, you'll find THE someone for you. Good luck, sweetie, have fun, and be careful !!^_^
2007-11-02 10:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by wombatred26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call! But do something "light" for the first date - like go to lunch, not dinner or to a matinee movie, not one at night. It takes the pressure off both of you. Good luck!!
2007-11-02 10:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Horse Lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends if you're already friends with them. If you're not, get friendly! Become friends slowly and ask in person (in person is better, my opinion) it they'd like to hang out with you, go somewhere together. If you're already friends, I still say to do it in person and do like a confirmation type thing over the phone and chat for a while.
2007-11-02 10:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the person you really really like.
Ask him/her if you guys can get together to hangout.
If it makes you feel better make it group thing.
That way you have an excuse to call him/her.
A movie or the mall is a very good group date scene.
2007-11-02 10:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋