Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

A girl once told me that i was really sexy and through that my looks intimadated girls. through that intimadaition is the reason I am single. Is there a chance that this is actually true.

2007-11-02 13:49:55 · 3 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

During our half year dating, he said he wanted a life with me but also tried to meet other girls from internet. I broke up with him immediately and he felt aweful. He didnt aske me to take him back but he said he was sincerely commited to our relationship, but bcos of the problem of our relationship he was still looking, he was very sorry for what he did and he said he loves me.
I think he is a liar and a player, so I told him Im pregnant and I want him to know whats like to be lied to.
Out of my expectation, he said he would be completely involved if I decide to keep the baby, he also wants to give it another shot for our relationship(he isnt against abortion). He said even our relationship has problems, he thinks its gonna work out. and he will be there as much as I want him.
Now I feel very guilty, I didnt expect him to act like that, b4 he told me he doesnt want a baby now. when I asked him, he said theres a difference between not wanting a baby and wanting to give one up.

2007-11-02 13:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so lonely because i dont have friend.Everybody dislike me.I dont know why they do that to me.It seems i cant find a nice friend.When i was in high school I feel they just like me because Im always giving a blowout with my group mate Its like i have to buy them to be around with me.Even when i was colleges.it seems they always want is money.Keep borrowing money from me.They dont even remember to pay me back If i dont let them barrow from me.I'm scared that they will dislike me and now i am in United states.I tried to find another friend here but it seems people here do not trust each other and they even got scared of me.I guess im asian.I dont know how to have a friend to stay with me for better and for worse..I guess the person likes me is my mother only.
Since im young i have trouble finding a nice friend.My husband is very nice to me.Only i cant find a nice person to be my friend.Please tell me guys how can i have a nice friend.Why its so hard for me to have a friend?

2007-11-02 13:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Arlene A. 1 in Friends

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend, although I have tried dating a little bit when I was 23. I may have gone on 2 or 3 dates total in my entire life. They were ok, but I just felt they weren't for me. I am not a touchy feely kind of person and I am certainly not a romantic. Being in a relationship of that nature just isn't for everyone. I am more into my career and community. People tell me that I will be alone if I never find a suitable lady. Um, I am not "alone" now and I don't have a girlfriend, so why would I be alone when I am older? I have friends and family. In fact, I still live with my family and other adult siblings. Even if I decide to move out one day, I will not be alone. I will always have friends and most likely have family around as well. When I get home from work, 9 times out of 10 I just want to lay down and go to sleep. At the end of the day I don't need to socialize or have someone hang on me. What do you think?

2007-11-02 13:47:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, me and my boyfriend, were confirmed by a dr. 3 weeks ago, that I am pregnant with our first child together. We are both very excited. But the thing is, I (not him) worry about society, since I'm Asian and he's black. My mom is ok with it, and so is his mother. The rest of MY family don't have a problem with him, but, the fact of being pregnant by him, is sort of a problem, the same with his. My best friend is black (well her mom is, her dad is Cuban), she is over the moon, and she told me not to worry about society, just be happy, and don't worry about the stares and comments, but for some reason I can't. Does anyone have any advice about how to get over other people's reactions?

2007-11-02 13:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jen Jen 21 1 in Friends

ok, there is a person in one of my classes. everyone is rude and hateful to her for no reason! it is sick, me and this other girl are the only ones nice to her!!!! please tell me what i should do ( dont say go to counsler) i did that! it dint work.

2007-11-02 13:43:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

boyfriend problems

2007-11-02 13:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is the 2nd time ive asked this Q but da 1st time i didnt but enough info in it... we are both in high skool n he is older than me by a year... so... i went over to his house and we watched scary movies, well it was like 4:50 in da morning n we kissed... it was amazing... i wanted more... but just the thought of it being our first was... AWWWW!!!!
the thing is... we've been going out for almost 5 months... !!! ...
y did he wait so long... wat does the waiting period length mean?

2007-11-02 13:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by Volleyballin'_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 13:32:27 · 3 answers · asked by Alberto M 1 in Singles & Dating

we talk,hold hands, hug.

her friends give me dirty looks and stuff

2007-11-02 13:30:19 · 17 answers · asked by Cody L 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 13:30:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok see i like this girl since second grade but i dont know how to ask her to be my gf so i decided to write a note .but What should i put?im to scared to even talk to her when ever im near her i get freaked out

2007-11-02 13:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has been my good friend for years and it happens we take all the same classes and we spend tons of time together because its just unavioidable.
Stupid people keep going on about us being in a gay relationship and that we are more than friends. Its reeally getting to me because we get this constantly. Its really irritating that people are like this.
What can I do to get over these stupid rumors? LOL its just annoying me!!

2007-11-02 13:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by Chris1990nz 2 in Friends

I'm 13 almost 14 and I have a boyfriend. We've been going out for a couple of months and i was wondering if I should kiss him?? HELP ME!!!

2007-11-02 13:22:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend finally had our 1st kiss... the thing is... it took almost 5 months!!!
WHAT DOES THIS MEAN???

2007-11-02 13:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by Volleyballin'_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this may sound wierd but we sort of have unusual relationship. I love my wife. We have little problems and occasional fights like normal people do but overall, I have to say we have pretty happy lives.
Since we had our son 5 years ago, she we started having sex less and less. But we've been doing it less and less. Now I'm lucky if I get it once a month.
My wife simply says she's not really into it. We still spend alot of time together but come bed time, she goes straight to bed.
I myself am different. I love sex. Before I was married, I was a bit of a player. I remember at one time I was having sex 3 or 4 times a day and often averaging 5 to 9 time a night. Even when we were married, we had sex everyday. No longer the case.
now, knowing how fraustrated I am, she insists i go out and find a girl friend. She mentions it to me regularly. Honest, I thought about it but I couldn't because I still love my wife and wouldn't feel right.
Any advice?

2007-11-02 13:18:38 · 37 answers · asked by Traveler 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to do the right the thing whatever that may be but my feelings are confusining me. There has been this girl that i have known since freshman year and we were once enemies but now friends. the thing is is that i have always liked her, but she has had a boyfriend (who I'm cool with ) who graduated last year. Now we are juniors. I have always wondered if she had liked me because she has bothered me and her friends always ask if I like her. But all i can do is be her friend. I don know what to do. I really like her.

2007-11-02 13:17:53 · 26 answers · asked by Lil G 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend hade sex about 10 times he was my 1st but when where having intercourse i dont fell enything . i read that it hapens sometimes that it takes time for some girls to fel it . is that true? please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-02 13:17:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My family and I just moved out of state, so I'm in a new school.
I'm alittle shy..especially around guys. They don't really talk to me all that much..and when they do..I freeze up, and just say a couple words or something..I really hate that..I don't want them to think I don't like them or don't want to talk to them.
I know some guys like shy girls..but I don't want to be shy anymore..I wanna be able to talk to people and not get so nervous.

I dress nicely, am always clean, smell nice, am smart, and people tell me I'm pretty..and before I leave for school..I feel like I am..but there's also alot fo really pretty girls in my school..and once I get there...I just don't feel all that pretty anymore. I feel like guys would rather choose one of them than me.
I really don't know why..I try not to..but it's not working.
So.....
What should I do?

P.S. I'm already in a couple of clubs, and it's too late for sports for this year.

Thanks =D

2007-11-02 13:15:37 · 19 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well this is a long story, but my dad is a complete idiot. and my mom last year asked for a divorce with him but it hasnt happened yet because my dads lawyer is purposely taking a long time to fill out papers and stuff. well almost every friday my dad goes into my moms room and puts a letter in there to read. last week my dad had a proven letter that my mom was apart of a cult of budhisim (but she seriously is not) she just prays for peace, not even kidding. and my dad thinks its dangerous to me and my brother that she prays? wtf. and then just an hour ago my dad and brother went out to get a movie and left her another note saying that she is abusing our animals and he had like "proof" that the SPCA has proven that my mom is being cruel to my dog and cat. honestly, my dog is a loser and really smelly, gross ugly, etc. so my mom just ignores him. and she loves our cat, but she is allergic to cats so we like to keep her downstairs so my mom doesnt get sick. ........

2007-11-02 13:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

that you're so glad you didn't marry someone you almost married??

I was just thinking that tonight. So I was curious about other people too.

2007-11-02 13:11:33 · 8 answers · asked by Princess Purple 7 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine(17 years old) is concidering running away from home. His girlefriend (16 years old) is also concidering running away with him. The only thing stopping them is whether or not its legal or illegal to run away at 17 and 16 in Ontario, Canada... help is needed, and time is of the essence.

2007-11-02 13:10:43 · 6 answers · asked by Donald D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do not believe in divorce, but I just am so close to ending our 3 yr old marriage. My hubby is always preoccupied with something else. I go to outings by my self because he does not want to go. He doesn't like to talk over our issues. He has a child from a previous marriage and when he comes over he ignores me more. he doesn't include me in some matters...I just want out but I do not want to be selfish because we have a 2 yr old son. I am energetic. I work out 4 times a week and I have a lot of energy and he does too but he uses it on other things( I guess)!!! Should I work at it??

2007-11-02 13:10:10 · 18 answers · asked by metalwife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

For the first dance at our wedding, we're dancing to Bless the Broken Road...we cannot decide on the wedding party dance. What are some popular ones that aren't too lovey dovey?

2007-11-02 13:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings

see i love my boyfriend alot how can i tell my mom that i want to be with him with out her telling me "you cant be with him " ?

2007-11-02 13:02:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone says it and he stares at me weird. And for no reason he came by and gave me a pat on the back not butt. BACK

2007-11-02 13:02:20 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And if so, what does it say?

2007-11-02 12:54:24 · 19 answers · asked by mississippi_girl_9265 2 in Singles & Dating

My long term BF has a bad temper.He is not really physicaly abusive but very verbiley abusive.We he has a blow up he calls me all kinds of names and puts me down.I recently miscaried our 3rd child and it was sad for me.Well today when he had a blow up he told me hes glad i miscared and that if i get pregnant again he hopes that i miscary again.How could someone say that??I dont understand??I was so stuned that he said that.How should i have approched that comment??All i could do was run and hide befor he said something worse!Uggghhh i really hate him now!

2007-11-02 12:52:57 · 26 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Friends

Ok...I just met this guy and can't figure out if he's my second or third cousin and it's driving me nuts! His father is my fathers first cousin. His fathers mother and my father's mother are sisters(our grandmothers)....so what does that make us? (I'm trying to make a family tree but it's getting MUCH more confusing than I thought)!

2007-11-02 12:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by skyelark209 1 in Family

ok here is what happened . Its was halloween and the boy i liked asked me to go trickin or treating with him. so when all of my frieneds went trhome its was me him and my bf. i gave him a hug good bye . then he asker me 4 a kiss on the cheek
then he tried to kiss me on the lip and ended up on the side of my lip and he was like next tim i see you i better get a kiss on the lips. the next day he acted like nothing happend wat should i do

2007-11-02 12:46:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating