I really want to do the right the thing whatever that may be but my feelings are confusining me. There has been this girl that i have known since freshman year and we were once enemies but now friends. the thing is is that i have always liked her, but she has had a boyfriend (who I'm cool with ) who graduated last year. Now we are juniors. I have always wondered if she had liked me because she has bothered me and her friends always ask if I like her. But all i can do is be her friend. I don know what to do. I really like her.
2007-11-02 13:17:53 · 26 answers · asked by Lil G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably does but thought you hated her...or thought that maybe now wasn't the right time. If her boyfriend already graduated, I know I'm being pessimistic, don't count on that relationship lasting too much longer...unless it happens to be true love. Which I sincerely doubt. I never believed in highschool relationships. Some last, most don't. Make sure you stay involved in her life...and when she breaks up with him don't make a move just yet. You'll end up being the rebound guy if she bites, and I'm sure that's the last thing you want. So if she tries to kiss you, as much as you want to, back away. And tell her that you like her too but you're not sure if her feelings are mutual or temporary and you like her too much to allow yourself to be hurt like that. Good luck...i predict...one more month...and a half.
2007-11-02 13:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...there are are a few things you Can do to find out whats best for both of you & perhaps where you & she can go from here...
...you dont say she has or does not have a b/f now...so i'll assume she is probably is seeing someone...but one (1) thing you can do is refer back to her friends...they asked you about her once, now ask them to tell her you like her more than just as a friend & wonder if she'd ever consider being more than just good friends with you...believe me, she'll hear about it & either she'll tell them what to tell you or they will tell you by themselves...or she'll tell you herself...
...the second way (2) is maybe harder...but more sincere...if you are friends you must talk together...tell her sometime that "do you know i've always had a crush on you, even when we were against each other?"...see her reaction or listen to what & how she responds...then if you can tell her you think it's even more so now you & would she consider going out or doing something together...you will know then where you stand...
...you might be hurt...but being hurt is part of the learning curve...you can't find some things like this out unless you're willing to try to go out on a limb & let her know just how you feel towards her...
...or it may be a wonderful relationship that was hiding for too long...
...good luck...
2007-11-02 13:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by ASHLEY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices and only you can make these choices. 1 you can tell her the way you feel and chance the fact that she may end all friend ship with you because it will be uncomfortable for her. You might even find out she feels the same and even get your desire. 2 you can hold it end and never know how she might feel and always have her as your dear Friend forever.... It is something you need to prouder .... and then choice..... Good luck I know it is tough no matter the rout you take... Always hold your head up.......
2007-11-02 13:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by amscrystal76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i guess you could always let her know you like her. It's a very prickly situation. What would worry me most is that you risk losing her as a friend. I think you have to really look at this long and hard... do you think she likes you in that way too? If you do, then you should let her know how you feel. But if you know she's in love with her boyfriend then your safest bet is to just keep being her friend.
2007-11-02 13:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't try to interfere with her current relationship! You're in a bad situation, man. You really have to just wait it out. Depending on the girl and what kind of friendship you have, it may or may not be okay to tell her how you feel. You'll have to be the judge of that. Good luck.
2007-11-02 13:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but just continue to be her friend and also let her know that you have feelings for her if she ever is single again and wants to give you a chance. Good Luck bluebunny
2007-11-02 13:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by BLUEBUNNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well m8y you need to find annuva girl to fall in love with.its a very serious NO NO to mess with annuva guys girl no matter what.maybe you should hang out with some differnt m8s 4 a while.!!!!!!. WISH YOU THE BEST THO DUDE.
2007-11-02 13:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by edge_fff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well put it this way, if I were her boyfriend and found out that you'd been trying to sway her in your direction, I'd basically kill you.
How would you like it if she was with you and he was trying to get her behind your back.
But then again she could be the "one"
Love is like a war....Watch yourself buddy.
2007-11-02 13:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a sophmore, been in this situation a few times. Go for it, but make sure you can take her boyfriend if things don't go too well. That's how I got my current girlfriend, about to go on around 3 months now.
2007-11-02 13:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just go for it! The worst that can happen is that she may feel a little awkward for a day or so, but if she's really your friend, she really won't care. Plus, if you don't try, you'll never know!
2007-11-02 13:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋