Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

I chose not to tell my parents for several reasons. But there are times- when I have such difficulties with my mom that I just want to tell her to make her stop being so crazy with me. So maybe she'd sit and think about me and my feelings for a change. But then she'd go and tell the world, so I don't want that at all. I'll prob keep this with me my entire life. But I just broke down a little bit ago- this being the day it happened, my mom threw another fit about money and the wedding my fiance and I are planning for next year. I've already told her we could save our own money and do it ourselves, only hold it off until the following year. Anyways, there are times I wish I'd blurt it out to her but then again, I don't think she'd quite get it and almost feel she'd end up blaming me anyways. It just hurts not being able to communicate with my own mother. And I don't want to hurt my dad by telling him.it's been quite a few yrs now, and I still have a tough time on Nov.2nd.

2007-11-02 12:43:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is ther age limit?

2007-11-02 12:41:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance betrayed me and I have a hard time trusting him again. He is starting to criticize me all the time and I wonder if he will betray me again. Is it possible to just forgive and forget?

2007-11-02 12:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by Miss C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 12:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by M Malcolm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were a bit drunk when they were taken & she has all the digital photos with her. She said I have to stay for 6 months before she'll hand them back to me. What should I do?

2007-11-02 12:30:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's co-worker is getting married the same day as my college's homecoming game. I can't go to both as they start at the same exact time.

My boyfriend really wants me to go to the wedding, but I don't really know the person (people) getting married. I don't think I've even met them.

My college is doing really well this season. We are ranked in the top 5 this upcoming weekend., and there are only 2 more home games left. It's my senior year. And since I am graduating, it is the last year I get to be in the student section. (which is the best place to be for a college football game) The other home game is the day after Thanksgiving, and at least half of my friends aren't going. All (except one) of my friends are going to the homecoming game.

I've had some friends tell me to pick one; some friends told me to do the other. I decided to see what others might do. Which would you pick?

2007-11-02 12:29:38 · 3 answers · asked by MG 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the way i see domestic volence is ex: a slap in the face or pulling sombody's hair and says your not leaving me or picking on sombody and pushing them to the floor unwated visits without calling name calling ex: ***** asshole mfer and beating a guy or girl down that's how i see domestic volence don't u agree?

2007-11-02 12:27:53 · 16 answers · asked by trex200485 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I am still living with a certain person whom I gave a second chance and here we go again...I don't make enough money substituting so he puts me on the same level as his sister's bum ex husband. But I work hard. Working with highschooler's one day, and then seven year olds the next. Whew! I tip my hat off to teachers. But where we live is expensive and I am being put down, on top of that I am earning my degree and he seems to think that is my excuse to "not work" but sit at computer. I take distance courses so I will be on the computer three times a week at least, and I work! So am I lazy?

2007-11-02 12:25:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 12:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by Candy D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are going to get married but not before I go in but when we do they will be able to live with me where ever Iam stationed would they.

2007-11-02 12:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Kimberly l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend's girlfriend has totally got him whipped and everyone knows it. We're fighting lately because of her. They're constantly arguing. He's changed and I hate it. He told me that he's tired of the fighting and that he doesn't even know why he's with her and that he honestly thinks that he deserves better. He said he's doubting their relationship and he wants to break up. But he decided to give her "one last chance". But they got into this big arguement the other day and today, it's like nothing happened and everything's back to normal. And for Halloween, him and our other friends were supposed to go to my house, but they ended up not going cuhs his girlfriend had to leave, so they all left. And she's changing him so he's rarely happy and it makes me sad to see him like that. I don't want to break them up, but he says he loves her but they fight every other day and he doesn't want to be with her, but they always seem to make up. It's ruining our friendship.

2007-11-02 12:20:36 · 3 answers · asked by Mari 2 in Friends

I hope the kid gives him a bunch of grandkids!

2007-11-02 12:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by new haven chuck 1 in Family

I know this one girl that tells me my younger sister is more "sophisticated" then me, she keeps saying it over and over too! I get kind of offended when she says that, but I could be an over reactive-nitpicky person. Do you think its an insult for someone to say that to your face?

2007-11-02 12:17:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little over a year, he is 22 and im 17, but on christmas i think he plans on asking me to marry him..but sorta just a promise ring. do you think im too young?

2007-11-02 12:16:57 · 25 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Singles & Dating

that they can only perform once or twice a week? It doesn't sound fair, does it, but is that what it's all about?
(Of course, I know that some women hang in there indefinitely for an assortment of reasons.)

2007-11-02 12:13:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are getting married next year and there is no way we can afford an open bar. There will be coffe, tea, soda and a champange toast.
We are only having 60 guests (including my fiance and me) of family (I come from a big family) and close friends, so cutting the guest list also isn't an option.
My questions is, would you rather be a guest at a dry wedding, where you have no option to drink, or would you like the oportunity to purchase your drinks?
I'm asking because people say a cash bar is tacky, and these are our only two options. Neither one of us want to go into debt by getting married- especially on alcohol!

2007-11-02 12:13:44 · 35 answers · asked by butterflyblue1979 3 in Weddings

2007-11-02 12:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Candy D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And I'm already thinking about Suicide! I really don't know why I'm thinking about that! Since my new boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago, my ex broke up with me a week ago, he started to called me A B**** and called my friend that too, and my grades have been dropping, I haven't been myself! My mind is tells me that no one care for me and they were only pretended to be my friend because they felt sorry for me! I hate myself! I don't deserve to be alive! I want to kill myself and die alone without anybody! Please help me with this! I can't even control my depression anymore! DON'T EVEN REPORT THIS! I'm really tired of the violations I have already! PLEASE BE HONEST AND NO STUPID OR PERVERT ANSWERS! I'm really upset and crying right now! Please help me! I will check on this later, so thanks and bye for now!

2007-11-02 12:06:17 · 14 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Friends

Answer truthfully would u go out with an Indian girl, and don't think I'm 1 of those Indians that doesnt take a shower or anythin I actually thing I'm not that bad.

And some guys have liked me before they were jus 2 chiken 2 ask me out.

2007-11-02 12:05:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son got a girl pregnant, he wants to be a part of the baby's life but the girl doesn't want any part of us...what do I do?
I want to help my son be a part of his son's life... but his ex doesn't... we need advice.

2007-11-02 11:55:23 · 6 answers · asked by phoenixlstilwell 2 in Family

A girl once told me that i was really sexy and through that my looks intimadated girls. through that intimadaition is the reason I am single. Is there a chance that this is actually true.

2007-11-02 11:52:50 · 1 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

OK our wedding is this coming June. Well I have picked out 5 bridesmaids and my fience has picked out 3 grooms men. that is an uneven number. Will it look funny? should I take 2 out? how will it work when I'm having them walk down the isle? the 5 i have picked out are all really close to me and 2 of them are flying from a different state, i would feel bad not to have them in the wedding.

Help please.

2007-11-02 11:48:34 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Angie♥ 3 in Weddings

What's the oldest age and youngest age that you think a 20 year old girl should date?

2007-11-02 11:48:33 · 1 answers · asked by Kiirsti O 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering because my husband does not want to hang out with any of his guy pals...ever...unless they play golf.

I like being with my girlfriends sometimes, but he says he is happy being with me. The s*x is incredible and constant...and the conversation and company just as fantastic as it was when we first met--we absolutely adore each other! He is so smart and funny and irresistible to me...but still...

Don't men need the company of other men at all?

2007-11-02 11:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by hope03 5 in Singles & Dating

Now a days it is pretty common that when a girl gets upset with a guy she will just kick him a good kick between the legs. My question is for the women that do this. can you actualy feel his "berries" when your foot makes contact down there?

2007-11-02 11:44:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 32. We have been dating for over 3 yrs. Our sex life is practically nothing. Previously I was willing to go to any extreme to turn him on. Sometimes that worked, and the other times he just expressed no interest. We have talked about this many times and he does not think we have a prob. According to him its all fine, because ultimately we love each other (we have been living together for 2 yrs). He thinks sex is not that important for a relationship. He does not want to see a therapist or even talk about it anymore.
He works late and comes home exhausted. By the time we are done with dinner, he is already half asleep. He is busy with other things on the weekends. We now have sex maybe twice a month and sometime once in two months. He has fallen asleep while watching porn with me, after coming from strip clubs (which I accompany him to) and while making out with me.

Can someone give me some tips on how to get him and keep him interested in me.

2007-11-02 11:44:05 · 27 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

Your secret is safe with me ;-)

2007-11-02 11:42:03 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have in my house tropical fish Glowlight tetras, cardinal tetras, Rummy-nosed tetras and Harlequins and a platy.

Also I have a pond with comets and gold fish.

I think they are very theraputic. Dose anyone else think that? and dose anyone else have fish?

2007-11-02 11:41:54 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is sex supposed to hurt? how come the head really hurts whether it goes in or out of me. is it really supposed to be like this?

2007-11-02 11:39:48 · 43 answers · asked by TrACeY T 2 in Singles & Dating

Child cutody evaluation consisted of Three sessions for me and Three sessions for my husband. I thought we were done. Or at least this is what the doctor said the last time we spoke.
Today the doctor called me from home and asked me if I would call his office on monday and set up another appointment for me to come see him again. Then he asked me how was everything going with our living situation. I said not very good. I told him about my husband going out on saturday night and coming home drunk. He said, Yeah, Just call my office on monday. I wouldnt want to miss out on anymore information that may be beneficial to you.
What do you Ladies think?
Do you think the evaluator is on my husbands side and just out of kindness of his heart giving me another chance to defend myself???

2007-11-02 11:36:11 · 4 answers · asked by Bambi 1 in Marriage & Divorce