is sex supposed to hurt? how come the head really hurts whether it goes in or out of me. is it really supposed to be like this?
2007-11-02 11:39:48 · 43 answers · asked by TrACeY T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. the more you do it the more it hurts. better stop before its like a razor blade going in and out
2007-11-02 11:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
My my my don't we get some silly answers on here the jokes should be kept to joke pages these questions need sense and understanding not sarcasm.....The answer is "NO" it shouldn't keep hurting..And the reasons are varied..some people on here have actually given you some good reponses..More important than anything is that you have to be ready for him...this means foreplay and touching between both of you.....try and relax because being tense will make things difficult for you....a lot of women take longer to be fully aroused than others and if your not properly aroused then it will be uncomfortable.....someone also mentioned vaginismus, that is quite a common problem and easily dealt with just speak to your doctor okay, it won't require needles or surgery so don't worry.... this has many causes one of the most common is tensing up and panicking just before commencing making love, lubricants and like someone else said, a glass of champagne to unwind and relax will work wonders together of course with the right kind of foreplay. Finally, tell him to slow down and take things easy you will soon get used to each other and things will be a lot better. good luck and enjoy finding out about each other okay.
2007-11-02 12:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may hurt the first few times he puts it inside you but the pain will soon turn to pleasure and extacy. For now try some lube such as K Y jelly or a nice oil. Also maybe the head is exceptionally large and if so you will appreciate that more and more as time goes on especially when you give him head. My head is huge and my gf loves that aspect esp when she gives me head.
PS diaz276 that's the wrong head dude. Geeeeez!
2007-11-02 11:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to go to the dr. Being intimitate increases blood flow throughout your body. If your head hurts from having sex, there stands a chance that there may be something wrong with a nerve/vessel of some sort......have you ever heard of brain aneurysm? It may not be that, but you could damage something up there. Go get checked and quick!
2007-11-02 11:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the closeness between two people is a beautifull thing that only those two know how beautifull it is with each other. it may hurt if ur a virgin and it will continue to hurt until u get use to it. if ur not a virgin then maybe he should get checked for std's but only if he's not wearring his trench coat and tell me he is. peace T, out.
2007-11-05 08:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts the first couple of time because your body is trying to get used to it. It didnt hurt my first time, but my second time it hurt really bad. Just wear a lubricated condom and maybe get some extra lube.
2007-11-02 11:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it will hurt if you are not aroused ---- and judging by the boys on here most of them would say foreplay huhhhh????? ---- get your partner to take his time ---- sex is not how many times you do it in a night its how many times you are left like a wet rag on the bed --- unable to move lift your arms anything ---- that is satisfaction for the lady --- and there is NOOOOOO pain --- so all you boys out there pleasure your lady first because it will be much much better for you as well --- have fun
2007-11-02 11:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first few times will hurt. Not gonna lie. But luckily it won't forever. Once you get used to having sex, it won't hurt.
2007-11-02 11:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Wondering 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might mean that you need lubercation and/or have sex more often. The more sex you have, the less it is suppose to hurt.
2007-11-02 11:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first time and usually the second or third time it does for most people... but it could also be the guys penis. if he has a larger than normal penis then that could be it and it might take a lil more time to get use to it....... but trust me it will all end up good int he end...
ooo and if you are using condoms you might want to get extra lube or it could be the latex itself that is making this happen.
2007-11-02 11:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first few times you have intercourse, it is going to hurt, yes. If you did not recently lose your virginity and are experiencing pain I would see your gynecologist to rule out STD's or other infections.
2007-11-02 11:41:38 · answer #11 · answered by Marina 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋