Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

my bf and i live together already but we are moving to our own place(we live with his mom). the problem is that, i earn twice as much as he does. we plan to split everything in half of course but how can i make HIM feel like the man?? i mean, he is always broke and i'm the one with money! i cant say i'll support him financially because that's not even right. what can I do?? i need advice on how to make it work in our home with out having problems about money.. i know men are macho's and THEY want to be the one's earning more but what can I do???

2007-11-02 11:35:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 11:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by jenae24_d 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm an attractive woman in her early thirties with a husband and two kids. Even though everyone knows my status, all my colleagues keep hitting on me and tempting me with illicit encounters. It's been hard to resist sometimes and just a week ago I nearly slept wih my gorgeous colleague. Someone tell me why this is and how should I try and stop being tempted.

2007-11-02 11:31:20 · 36 answers · asked by SPMZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious, so dont think of me as stupid or pathetic. what age usually does it stop the nerves or whatever from kicking in?

2007-11-02 11:30:33 · 17 answers · asked by tinkerbell88 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend amd myself went out for halloween and if we saw someone that looked cute in costume him or myself would tak a picture with them. we were drinkng shots of patron and budlites so we were tipsy. So this one girl lookes cute so i told my boyfriend to take a picture with her and he did. the came our blurr so i told him to take another one. He then asked the girl to take her mask off. i dont know why but i got upset. So then i told him when he tried to hug me leave me alone. Ok my bestfriend was also with us and she was ready to go home becuse it was getting last. I didnt want to make a seen in front her so i left it alone. Him he made a as*s out his self . he faked like he was on the phone then when we got home he decided tomove out so i helped him put his stuff in the car and i was dropping him off. then he wanted hs money out my account so i drove 25mins to my bank to give him the money. while in the car hes faking like hes on the phone with someone and where not talking.

2007-11-02 11:26:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 11:26:06 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

earlier he give a lot of pleasure to me by fulfilling my sex needs, nw after 3 years his intrst decreases, v hv nt yet planned fr a baby, n v r living alone. i smtime tld him that i need sex he use to ignore that, i knw he is very very busy in his work but i m suffering,,,,,,, he luvs me a lot n try to make me happy but i want sex.he dnt have any other extra maritail affair also. what shud i do

2007-11-02 11:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What should the non-custodial parent do? We live 3000 miels away and only get to see daughter during school breaks/holidays

2007-11-02 11:21:47 · 11 answers · asked by JustAGirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I dont get it why do guys say they don't like you and just want to be friends first and now he keeps staring at me and asking me questions like, "what scene are we in in the play?" because we were doing a play in history today. What does it mean when they reject you but now they stare at you alot?

2007-11-02 11:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i heard that girls like to have cyber sex on the computer with strangers is that tue about you?

i am trying to prove to my friend that that is not true!

2007-11-02 11:21:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 11:17:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would be the best wedding theme , im getting married around christmas this year and i was wondering if u have any ideas .. i could use some :)

2007-11-02 11:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by ~*~NeSsA~*~ 2 in Weddings

I was at the park 5 weeks ago and i met this guy. I thought that it was love at first sight. After one week of talking we ended up dating, and I ended up head over heels in love, supposedly he felt the same. EVERY moment that I had the chance to I was talking to him. It didn't matter if it was 4am. His family seemed to really like me but out of the blue one day he said that he his mom is making him break up with me and not to call him. so I told him that if he really loved me we could work around that. So he asked me back out. Not even a week later he said that his mom found out about us again, so we broke up AGAIN. then a few days later he told me that he met somone new and was going to ask her out. but then he also said that he stil realy loveme. Now he is calling me really bad things that i dont think i am allowed to say on here. I still love him, and i know i need to get over it but he keeps talking to me so i dont know why.What is he really thinking? he said we would get married.

2007-11-02 11:11:41 · 11 answers · asked by britt 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 44, I'm 39 been living together 1 year. His kids call me mom.

2007-11-02 11:08:11 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa G 2 in Singles & Dating

i have an issue with talking to people (boys that i like) i get nervous and when they talk to me i talk back but im nervous to really talk to them about real stuff and please dont say you should start talking to them or ull regret it because i knw that but how and yea i do regret it when i dnt because they end up leaving but on the other hand unless he just doesnt want a gurl at all i dont want to let a boy know i like him and get rejected because he doesnt like me i dont like rejection

2007-11-02 11:07:16 · 15 answers · asked by kelseygurl_2011 3 in Singles & Dating

ps
blames everyone but herself and is wrecking her body, mind and her hygene

2007-11-02 11:06:35 · 10 answers · asked by JF_14 3 in Family

::i posted this already, got a few good answers, but not that many:::why would a guy constantly try to flatter you when he knows you're taken. this guy tells me all the time my guy is lucky to have me, that he likes to look at me, cant stop thinking about me, and that he hope he's not "scaring" me off. he follows me around or is nearby somewhere. ive only seen him a couple time though, but everytime i do see him he acts kinda persistant and wont stop complimenting me. and he wants to know what days i come by(he didnt tell me why he wanted to know).
what do you think his motives are for the way he acts? perve? lonely? obsessed? does he think all his flattery is going to get him into my pants?

2007-11-02 11:06:06 · 23 answers · asked by HerR 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like, we are like best friends for like the past 3 years. He always talks very sexually and perverted to me jokingly. He sits with me on the bus and hangs out with me. I just can't find a way to tell him that I like him. And at the same time, I'd be coming out, and that is like making it much worse. I don't know who to tell because all my friends would end up telling all my other friends. I really need help, what do I do? People have told me I need to come out first, but I have no idea how, or to. Well, As far as I know, he is not gay. And the way he talks perverted to me I'm fine with, I find it funny most of the time. All of our friends joke around that we are going out but I fake a smile & laugh. And I trust almost all my friends too, just not with big secrets because thy always end up getting around pretty quick. I really don't want to ruin the relationship I have with my friend or it will be awkward. I really need some help with this, it is tearing me up inside

2007-11-02 11:03:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for 6 years, 3yrs ago he was confused of what he wanted and we broke up, he also started having feelings for a co-worker, were still together left that in the past but now he works in a call center n i hear he flirts n talks to alot of girls!! but i feel like he is taking baby steps in our relationship! by the way hes 22

2007-11-02 11:02:43 · 36 answers · asked by ggirrll85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so- i went on this date with a guy that works in the same building as i do- different companies, but the same building. Well, when i got to his apt, he was completely wasted, and kept talking about how this girl i work with wants him to take her out.. .. after sitting there listening to that, and being completely uncomfortable, i just got up and left. Well, like 2 weeks later, he calls me and tells me how sorry he is- and that he wants to take me to dinner to make it up to me, and that he should have never drank before i even got there and he wants to show me the real him... mind you- he did end up taking that girl out and it didnt work, i cant help but feel that im just 2nd best. What do yall think? Should i let him take me out? It is a free dinner and you never know, or should i just forget about it?

2007-11-02 11:02:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Am from mexico and she is from france, we want to get married in england because we live there, what documentation she needs as a french and I as a mexican to present to the home office to start the process without any problems?

2007-11-02 11:02:06 · 4 answers · asked by mario g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 11:01:48 · 10 answers · asked by Pamela P 1 in Singles & Dating

when my bf leaves im usually wearing a shirt and my boy shorts. and he tells me that he will open the door and he wont let me. why wont he let me do that?

2007-11-02 10:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my husband for 8 yrs, he thinks his money is his and my money also is his. he puts his family and needs before mine he works alot of hours, and when he is not at work he chooses to spend more time with his friends than his wife. he only hears what he wants to hear and not the word no until he gets his own way. he dosen't help me with stressfull situations. untill i have had enough and then when he trys to help it's too late i am allready upset, why dont he care? or listen to me when i am trying to help the realtionship? is he not trying? please give me some advice.

2007-11-02 10:55:55 · 15 answers · asked by Kenndo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 10:51:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i shouldn't laugh but its weird thats all i can do. or be mad but thats not good.

me and my ex go to the same college and see each other quite often, (though i try to avoid her, mainly because i want her back but don't want to smother her) so tend to see each other in the day between monday to friday. outside of those hours she only works on a saturday where as i now work every evening except monday and tuesday and all weekend. so when im at work she and her friends are always out with my friends to, i get back from work and want to go out with my friends but i know she'll be there. if im honest i dont want to see her, i do want her back, but not being with her has turned from being upset/sad to angry.

what should i do about my friends? go with them even if she is there, or get new better ones?

2007-11-02 10:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by James G 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad is rude to my mom. My mom drives everyone crazy and doesn't work. They are consantly fighting and sometimes i talk to my best freind about how great it would be if they just got divorced. Is this normal?

2007-11-02 10:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kathy-rin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im really in love with my boyfriend and he is really in love with me.... we want to live with each other like 5 months after he turns 17 next nov... ill be 18... weve been together 1 year on nov 8.... we really want this.... he wants to get married when hes between 18 and 20.... serious answers only plz thanx....

2007-11-02 10:44:00 · 6 answers · asked by ♫♪Expecting #1!! ♫♪ :} ♥june 15, 2011♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

and my husband has been dropping hints that i need to lose some weight but mind you that when we first married he was the one overweight he says my weight is not a problem to him but all the clothes he buys me are to little and he has offered me a membership to the local gym should I be upset or could I just be overdoing it.

2007-11-02 10:43:52 · 21 answers · asked by shirkeya s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys want to BANG all their female friends -- if the offer was there? or just some....why can't they see them as just friends.

2007-11-02 10:40:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating