i have an issue with talking to people (boys that i like) i get nervous and when they talk to me i talk back but im nervous to really talk to them about real stuff and please dont say you should start talking to them or ull regret it because i knw that but how and yea i do regret it when i dnt because they end up leaving but on the other hand unless he just doesnt want a gurl at all i dont want to let a boy know i like him and get rejected because he doesnt like me i dont like rejection
2007-11-02 11:07:16 · 15 answers · asked by kelseygurl_2011 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
open up. get loose . dont be all serious. be silly and stuff. you kno thats always fun. get good conversation started. hey, how you doin. wussup. wats new. hows life. stuff like that and that leads on to bigger conversations and you just gotta keep up ya digg?
good luck!
2007-11-02 11:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being that I myself have always been very shy and had the same problem, the best advice I can think to give you is find a forum in which you are comfortable getting to know a person and then after you do that for a while you will be comfortable talking all the time, for instance it was a lot easier for me to talk online first than to go up to a girl and start talking if I would do that I would start to shake and my stomach would begin to turn so yeah there is nothing wrong with you it's just different for shy people like us so find that thing that will make it easier for you to communicate with the opposite sex and you will be well on your way!
2007-11-02 18:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by ohioguy4jc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to over come that emotion of rejections, i would say u will have to experience it with a positive mind. meaning if u get rejected don't take it as your fault, because it is not, but take it as a learning experience so u can handle the next one in a positive way. oh! there are always more than one rejection in anything. or just do the mature thing and wait for your true love.
2007-11-02 18:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by rongar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice.
2007-11-02 18:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im shy too and its hard to change that because its part of who you are but you can start by showing interest in boys and in time they will initiate the conversation. as you get more comfortable with them you will talk to them
good luck
2007-11-02 18:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sayler M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out talking to ugly boys then move onto average looking ones then the ones you like. practice works.
2007-11-02 18:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by coffeemate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad u asked just sit down and let the guys come to u
2007-11-03 11:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by mishel_layman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn' worry about telling the guy just make friends if you are friends be friendlier than other girls, just let him know you are interested without telling him.
2007-11-02 18:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can say "no", but what's even worse is knowing that you never muscled up the courage and that there's a possibility he would say "yes." be outgoing and get to know them.
2007-11-02 18:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by Omega 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to be brave. stop being shy. theres no reason to be shy. Talk to them, you like them. secondly, its not big deal.!
2007-11-02 18:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by losersarecool56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋