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blames everyone but herself and is wrecking her body, mind and her hygene
2007-11-02 11:06:35 · 10 answers · asked by JF_14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Confront her. Gather as many friends, teachers, family, church members, her kids also no matter the age, anyone who would embarass her to know that they are aware of her destruction. Gather unpaid bills, diary, schools essays about her positive self, papers from past that showed she wanted nice things out of life. Show her a photo of herself before and after the use. Have all participates tell her something they like about her and why they are dissappointed with her now yes even her kids. Hug her. Have her admitted to a long term program.
2007-11-02 11:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is pray for her. But let me tell you from experience she will eventually hit her rock bottom and want help. Whatever you do don't give her any money at all. If she wants to eat then feed her. If she wants to sleep then let her sleep for awhile. But do not under any circumstances fuel the fire by helping her get what she needs. It is really sad that she doesn't even care that she lost her children.
2007-11-03 00:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by marcy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you cant force her to get help. A person like that has to make that decsion herself. And even then, the chances of relapse are high. My advice to you is to get help for yourself and those children you will all really need it. Try alanon.
2007-11-02 18:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by weez713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You quit enabling her. Dont provide her with a place to stay, or with food, or anything to sustain her. When and if she hits bottom she will come around. However sometimes that bottom is death or prison. The smart ones dont wait that long.
Do some research on enabling addicts.
2007-11-02 18:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to want to help herself.
2007-11-02 18:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to want to help herself, you can't do it for her.
2007-11-02 18:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Paula Christine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get her straight and serious about fixing her life. one step at a time
2007-11-02 18:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for an intervention.
2007-11-02 18:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by sxctighteyedtam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant help someone that is not willing to help them selves.
2007-11-02 18:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can help her...
2007-11-02 18:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by shadow m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋