I was at the park 5 weeks ago and i met this guy. I thought that it was love at first sight. After one week of talking we ended up dating, and I ended up head over heels in love, supposedly he felt the same. EVERY moment that I had the chance to I was talking to him. It didn't matter if it was 4am. His family seemed to really like me but out of the blue one day he said that he his mom is making him break up with me and not to call him. so I told him that if he really loved me we could work around that. So he asked me back out. Not even a week later he said that his mom found out about us again, so we broke up AGAIN. then a few days later he told me that he met somone new and was going to ask her out. but then he also said that he stil realy loveme. Now he is calling me really bad things that i dont think i am allowed to say on here. I still love him, and i know i need to get over it but he keeps talking to me so i dont know why.What is he really thinking? he said we would get married.
2007-11-02 11:11:41 · 11 answers · asked by britt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry b R but I think he is playing you to the hilt.I doubt his mother told him to break up with you since you say his family seemed to like you. More than likely he is playing you his and someone else. I know its tough as sometimes we listen to our hearts and not our heads, but maybe this time you need to put your feelings away and do the right thing
may keep you from getting hurt more than you are.also sounds like the other person is in for heartache & trouble. If you know this person you may need to go talk to them too
2007-11-02 11:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by emtp911 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is playing you. Telling you he loves you one moment but then disrespecting you behind your back the next. Guys like that are called DOGS! Your feelings for him are clouding your better judgment. The experience you had with him was obviously different from something you had with anyone else. But that experience has come and gone. Men come and go. That's the whole truth of the matter. He is clearly not ready to be in a committed relationship for so many different reason. For one, he (along with you) must be very young if his mother is allowed to tell him who he can and cannot date or talk to. Two, he is already talking to another girl, and as you said, it's only been a few days. Time to begin the healing process. It may hurt now but it will be better in the long run. And don't believe that whole marriage thing. Like I said, he is young. And he will tell you exactly what you need and want to hear in order to keep you around. That's why so many woman get stuck in unfortunate situations with men. They kept telling them that they loved them, and would do anything for them, and will marry them, and take care of them. Three or four years later, while you're taking care of his three kids, he is out partying with his new girlfriend, not even thinking about you or them. Don't be stupid. You seem like a smart girl. Don't get caught up in his lies and games.
2007-11-02 11:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by nicky3162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for it. Listen, I'm glad that you know you have to get over it. The sooner you do the better. He may be trying to keep you on the line just in case it does not work out with this new girl. Your right, when you said that if he really loved you that you could have worked it out with the parents situation. The fact that he is telling you that he loves you but he is going to go out with another girl is a sign that he does not really love you. It was just an infatuation. Let him go. Don't let him have you on the line to throw you out and reel you back in whenever he pleases
2007-11-02 11:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by tickerspam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just being a real jerk off he wants to be able to rely on you and then go out with any other girl/s he wats to. He is being a greedy but head and i doubt his mum doesnt want you two to be together he is just usin that as an excuse so that he can keep you and date other ppl at the same time. Dont be sucked into the whole your the only one for me stand up for yourself your a person with feelings he is a class A Ashole who is full of sh*t dont waste anymore time on him. go find a guy that would worship the ground you walk on that will shower you with the love and respect you deserve. well thats all good luck hun
2007-11-02 11:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to grow up and quit fantasizing.Throw away the romance novels and turn off the soap operas because it's all over but the crying.
Hurt heal and move on.Hehas met someone else and is using his mom as an excuse to dump you.
2007-11-02 11:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you, i could pass get a witness protection order against your ex and pass stay along with your modern-day bf. i understand you do no longer opt for to count on him thoroughly, yet he seems happy with this. once you do pass in, in simple terms shield the abode and do the chores and each little thing and make dinner, so while he comes abode from artwork, he will see which you're particularly grateful for what you have and in simple terms considering you could no longer help him financially on the 2d, he will see which you will help out in different approaches too. solid success!!
2016-11-10 02:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by datta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mary a guy who is in love with you and is goin out with another girl AND calling you bad things. if you really super love him and wana get married then talk to his mom. just move on. things happen.
2007-11-02 11:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl did u ever slept with him.. if not then thats probably y he left u cause he wanted a piece of naz ...and he just told u that he luv u to get in ur pants..
2007-11-02 11:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by andree h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. It's over. Move on. Make new (male) habits.
2007-11-02 11:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap him
2007-11-02 11:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Katniss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋