I have a friend who has been my good friend for years and it happens we take all the same classes and we spend tons of time together because its just unavioidable.
Stupid people keep going on about us being in a gay relationship and that we are more than friends. Its reeally getting to me because we get this constantly. Its really irritating that people are like this.
What can I do to get over these stupid rumors? LOL its just annoying me!!
2007-11-02 13:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by Chris1990nz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh and by the way, I just got out of a relationship with my ex girlfriend, and now he has a girlfriend...yet it continues! :S
2007-11-02 13:31:00 · update #1
do you really care what other (obviously stupid) people think? im assuming that your fairly young because most people my age (27) would just laugh it off and not worry what others think. your best bet would probably be to act like you dont care what they think, dont react to anything anyone else has to say because if you do, they will see it as a sign of weakness and keep harrassing you about it. other than that, there is not much you can do other than to avoid these particular narrow minded people. im sorry i cant be of more help but basically, if you act like you dont care about what they have to say, these bullies will eventually get bored and pick on someone else. hang in there buddy :-)
2007-11-02 13:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by jaskatia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chris, is your avatar winking at me? (he said jokingly). That's kind of a strange problem. I have a friend that is gay, we hang out and no one has said a thing to either one of us. Neither of us have even heard rumors. It may be that you guy's have different mannerisms. ex. the way you walk, hand jester's, the way you both talk.
Simple solution if you know your not, "no worries". if you have a gay curiosity, it may show more that you think it appears!
2007-11-02 13:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing to do is to do nothing at all. People are going to say and think what they want no matter what you do. When you get into a relationship they will say something negative about that. So don't even worry about them. Life is too short to worry about negative people. Take my advise !!!KILL THEM WITH SILENCE!!!
2007-11-02 13:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend and show those others you aren't gay or just go along with their stuff for laughs. Who cares what those fruit baskets think!
2007-11-02 13:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm skeptical, considering I do not forget a lady I realize, rather sensible, who advised me, "Men feel approximately matters, females feel approximately persons." I believe she intended persons and psychology.
2016-09-05 08:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Well, just ignore them. Karma would get them back!
There just being so imature...
And people will always gossip about anyone no matter what.
2007-11-02 13:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♫K♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, you have a best friend. who cares what those pinheads think. if you act like it bothers you, they're not gonna stop bugging you. you answered your own question when you wrote, "stupid people".
2007-11-02 13:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Joyce S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People become small minded when they don't make good use of their time.
2007-11-02 13:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Grace777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is just to ignore it or tell them off...!!!
2007-11-02 13:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by *_*CoUrTnEy*_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋