well to start with i couldnt go to the school dance but my boyfriend did. He danced with a few girls i didnt really mind. but then i found out that a girl kissed him. when he told me on the phone i just clicked on him because i was so mad n i regret tat i clicked. He told me that she kissed him n he didnt want that to happen. I forgave him but i was still sad. Then he broke up with me n said i dont want to be in a relationship right now. The next day he called me to make sure we were still cool...but he tells me that he got a girlfriend...n i was thinking i thought he didnt want to be in a relationship...n i dont kno wat to do... =[ i still have a lot of feelings 4 him i dont know why!!
2007-11-02 10:36:41 · 4 answers · asked by gumgirl1228 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still have feelings for him because you were emotionally attached.
So, let's rephrase what happened. You were away, and BF played.
He tried to get lucky with a girl that would do things to him that you weren't --- and then he says it's your fault.
RIIIGGGHHHT.
Dump him.
2007-11-09 22:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Christmas Light Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is a b*tch.
Mainly because he wasn't stable and didn't seem to show any signs of it up until he went to this school dance by himself.
For all we know (or for all I know, you might know), he went there with huge thoughts of you and only you and then met someone who he went stupid for. I don't know.
What I do know, however, is that you shouldn't waste time with this loser. He seems to think he can jump to a new girlfriend whenever he wants and expect everyone to be "cool" with it. Well, nobody is cool with it and he's just a dick.
If you hold your head up high, and he realizes how much he doesn't like his current girlfriend because she's not you, he'll probably take notice and come back. But if he does, would you take him back?
That's probably the most important thing to ask: Would you take him back?
And then, realize that you shouldn't.
2007-11-02 17:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously still have feelings for him because u never saw it coming
and to be honest you deserve waaaaaaaaaay better because he lied to you just to be with another girl and then he calls you to make sure that you guys are cool
that is seriously messed up
dont worry later on he is gonna realize that he is a huuuge jerk for lying to you and breaking up with you and then he is gonna wish he never did
it all has to do with karma
2007-11-02 18:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by hmm... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about this guy. he played you for a fool. don't give him the satisfaction of letting him know you still want him. drop him and move on.
2007-11-02 17:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋