Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

every time my &i are out he has to check out every chick in the bar& leaves me sitting by myself for such a long time, then i find out he's talking to these women. don't you think that is disrepectful? can't he just talk to me and be with me his girlfriend. also found phone numbers so what should i do, even though he says he loves me. i'm so confused he's been doing this for a long time. should i start looking at other men &flirt with them? leave my b/f sitting by himself for a change or should i finnd a man who knows how to treat a women? i need advice now thank you

2007-11-02 07:35:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just says, "hi, i think you're beautiful and would love to have sex, no strings attached."

2007-11-02 07:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew (Go STEELERS!) 2 in Singles & Dating

We were engaged and living together but now he wants to do his own thing bc "he never made the same mistakes as everyone else" now he wants me to move back to my home in TN and work on our life together while he parties and has the option to sleep around he says this is so he wont cheat on me he swears that he loves me and will be with me and this is his way of making sure he is totally commited to me when we get back together i trust him we still act like we are together i just figured if you loved someone you would not want to sleep with other people. either way i am moving and if he comes down there he does if not i know this was just a lie. anyone else going thru this? and if so how did it work out?

2007-11-02 07:34:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this one guy that i have met few weeks ago, and he gave me his # first. So then i called him, and we talked like every day. But at one point he stoped calling me for like 3 weeks, and he called me back and we talked..and he told me how he felt about me and that he liked me, but now he is always out hanging around with his friend, and partying, and we dont even talk an the phone for like 5 min. Its bothering me because i dont know what i shuld do?? I feel like he is not interested in me anymore. what shuld i tell him..

2007-11-02 07:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

i need some ideas for a new years party with a masquerade theme. favors, centerpiece, place card holders etc. i an arts and craft person so picture would be great. thank you

2007-11-02 07:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by sboyd_hfcc 1 in Weddings

My mother inlaw is always telling me that I am going to have to learn to let things go in order to have peace of mind. She also tells me that I have to realize that men are different. We don’t go into great detail about my relationship, but I have shared certain details with her in hopes of understanding why my husband is the way he is. I was telling her how he has no understanding and how he is never interested in taking care of business (when it comes to discussing bills and issues that have come up). I also mentioned the fact that he will wear his work boots and shoes until they’re coming apart, and that I have to go out and buy them because he refuses to. She basically said well if you want him to have new clothes and shoes, go buy it. That’s what I do for his dad. You can’t make him do it.

2007-11-02 07:29:45 · 11 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, men never seize to amaze me.

I was on the phone with my boy and somehow we started talking about sex. Now I have no idea how but the subject about this guy I had sex with all the way in March came up. Now, my boy and I were just friends in March so it's not like I cheated on him or anything and actually he had sex with someone in April. I mean we weren't together so why even bother with it. Well, he got extremely mad and blew his freakin top. He started yelling and telling me that I really don't care about him and I was just "running game", and he went on and on about how stupid he felt and how I was just a liar and that I really didn't have feelings for him. OMG,, We weren't even together and get this.........when I said "well what about you and the girl you had sex with in April"..he replied with......."I'm a man, it's different"

LOL....no, he's a jerk. so here's my question...

What in the hell is wrong with men?

2007-11-02 07:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well do you?i know i do


love
sunshine

2007-11-02 07:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

We're in high school, and we're very affectionate with each other

We hold hands in the hallway walking in between many classes, and than we kiss goodbye, usually making out very passioanately for between 10 seconds to a minute or 2, depending on time (we're almost never late for class). After school we sometimes hang out by our lockers, and kiss for awhile, or I walk her to the gym and we makeout there for 10 or 15 minutes until her track practice starts. Her team sometime jokes with her about it, but she doesn't care at all.

Did others of you see/do this level of PDA in school? Some students sometime kid around with us for needing to "come up for air". On the other hand, We're hardly on the only PDA couple in my school

2007-11-02 07:28:15 · 2 answers · asked by Heat 1 in Singles & Dating

You know the drill. A woman wants to stay a virgin. She and the guy end up marrying at 18-21 just to have sex. They usually end up divorced by 25. I'm suprised by how many men marry just for sex at that age.

2007-11-02 07:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anyone know where I can find, Redneck wedding vows on a website without having to register or pay?

2007-11-02 07:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by josh_schooley 1 in Weddings

Okay, men never seize to amaze me.

I was on the phone with my boy and somehow we started talking about sex. Now I have no idea how but the subject about this guy I had sex with all the way in March came up. Now, my boy and I were just friends in March so it's not like I cheated on him or anything and actually he had sex with someone in April. I mean we weren't together so why even bother with it. Well, he got extremely mad and blew his freakin top. He started yelling and telling me that I really don't care about him and I was just "running game", and he went on and on about how stupid he felt and how I was just a liar and that I really didn't have feelings for him. OMG,, We weren't even together and get this.........when I said "well what about you and the girl you had sex with in April"..he replied with......."I'm a man, it's different"

LOL....no, he's a jerk. so here's my question...

What in the hell is wrong with men?

2007-11-02 07:27:38 · 22 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 07:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Mouse 1 in Family

Hey i am in love i think..... see i need some one to tell me what this sounds like... love or not.....i need this preson he makes me so happy and i can't spend one sec. with out thinking about him. i alwas have to kiss him or give a hug to him before i can go to bed and i alwas have to give him a hug,kiss befor i leave for school if not i have a bad day. i sometimes get mad when he talks to other girls and i sometimes get mad when he says that a girl on the t.v. is hott or sexy. so tell what do u think. i am 17 and he is19, i am olmost 18 in a few more days. i think i want to marry him....

2007-11-02 07:24:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been going out for like a year, and really love each other. But every time we are alone, he always tries to tickle me especially my feet. I am EXTREMLY ticklish on my feet (but no where else?), but I don't really want to be tickled. It apparantly makes me look cuter, but I don't know? Plz help me!

2007-11-02 07:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Georgia USA 1 in Singles & Dating

I want respect, and don't want to be thought of as "easy" or "over-eager". Guys- what advice can you give a girl?

2007-11-02 07:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by becky0682 2 in Singles & Dating

I found a naked picture of a friend of ours on my husband's phone, that he took. When I asked him about it, he explained that she'd lost in pool bet, and that was her 'payment'. Does anyone find this okay at all? (She's openly had a thing for him since we all met)

2007-11-02 07:20:17 · 30 answers · asked by Amy C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to the ladies: how would you react if your husband put his head on your boobie and slept there for the entire night whenever he had a bad day at work or had a bad dream or whatever?

2007-11-02 07:19:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife told me the other day that she loves me, but she also said she was not in love with me anymore. I have never cheated or even been tempted, i make sure to stay away from those situations. She says she doesn't know what she wants. We have been together for almost 9 years. i love her very much and don't want to lose her to what ever is going on inside of her. she says it is not me and that i am doing everything right. i am so lost. i can't imagine her not being there with me. we have no kids. she said her feelings changed about 6 months ago. i can't think of anything i did to change the way she would feel about me.

2007-11-02 07:17:05 · 48 answers · asked by king mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today I decided to ask my best friend *kate who she fancied. She got a bit embarassed and said she didn't want to say, especially not to me. I was really curious by then so i kept pestering. She said the person was in our maths class. I suggested a few boys and she suddenly snapped: what makes you think its a boy?

I laughed nervously but carried on. But after a while I realised she meant it, she fancied a girl. I went through all the girls in our maths class, every single one apart from myself.
It sought of dawned on me then, and i realised she'd be hinting all day. She fancied me!
And she said it straight out this time: I fancy you. Then she re-called loads of incidents that i thought had been innocent like sleepovers, or hugs. I'm really confused. I love her to bits, shes my best mate. But i dont like her in that way. I don't know what to do! Turns out shes liked me for three years!! Please help

2007-11-02 07:13:47 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

My brother is a truck driver. Only home every other weekend. Wife out of the blue wants a divorce. He does a credit report and finds out she forged his name to several credit cards, ran up about 60K in debt, forged and cleaned out his life insurance policy, and also (she was filing seperately) had a 25K IRS tax lean against house. She's didn't file her taxes a year or two.

His divorce lawyer doesn't seem too versed in bankruptcy law. Here's the situation: Court ordered her to assume about $47,000 of the $60,000 in credit card debt. When house is sold, they both clear about $50K a piece. IRS gets about 30K of hers. Credit card companies are threatening garnishing his wages. She is "hiding" from them. If he charges her with credit fraud she'll lose her nursing job (can't have a felony as a nurse) and he'd get custody of the kid. He doesn't want to do that but may have no choice. How can he get them off his back since she's signed a court order saying she's responsible? Bankruptcy? Etc

2007-11-02 07:12:16 · 18 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This money is actually solely under his name. In actuality it was not a gift.. it is actually his parents money that they do not want under their name.. hiding it from the IRA...

Is the money fair game?? I do not want it.. but he is fighting me for other things so I want to know where I stand.

2007-11-02 07:11:25 · 19 answers · asked by Miami_Babe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

His private phone conversation should not have been made available to the public to start with. I personally don't think he said anything that bad. He was just trying to protect his son. Why are people making such a big deal about this?

2007-11-02 07:10:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she loves to talk on the phone and i dont have the patience with them like she does.....plus its pretty funny watching her

2007-11-02 07:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Bridemaid bitches.

2007-11-02 07:09:16 · 30 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

Brief rundown: I am 28, B/f is 29 and we've been together for a bit over 2 years & now have a 3month old daughter.
A few weeks ago we had an argument over the baby. I think he does not want her around, or only when it is convenient or she is happy. He is wishy-washy and I told him he needed to start helping more with her. (She is collicky, mind you) At one point during our argument he said, "If you don't like it there's the door." So, I called his bluff, packed a few things for myself and my child and went to my sister's. Once he realized I wasn't kidding, he begged me to stay. I had to leave to make a point that I would not put up with his disrespect.
Now...a couple of days ago, he left his email open...so...I peaked a little:) and found an email he sent to some chic on a porno personals website. The subject line was "True Love". He said he was looking for true love and someone to spend good times with. Now he is talking about buying me an engagement ring. What do I do?

2007-11-02 07:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 07:06:17 · 5 answers · asked by Mouse 1 in Singles & Dating

of a failed love relationship?

2007-11-02 07:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

( just wondering......thinking about upping my style)

2007-11-02 07:05:26 · 4 answers · asked by stud15 1 in Singles & Dating

I met that man, and he proposed marriage to me. He said that he was looking for a woman who would accept him as a house husband, because at 34 he was tired of living with his parents. He asked me, too, what is that exactly I did for my living, and if I could afford a good computer, connected to the Internet, a playstation and plasma TV with at least 200 cable channels. He said that he did not mind to wait till I come home from work to cook im dinner and clean and wash, and that as he loved children, he wouldn't mind a couple, but I'd better hire a nanny.
I refused, because he looked very well fed by his parents (he doesn't work), and I did not feel that I could provide the same standard of eating for him. I told him so, and he said that I would regret it afterwards, because he was a very nice man, and said he was willing to give me a second chance. He
said he would even go without the playstation, if I let him use my cards to subscribe to games on-line.

2007-11-02 07:01:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating