We've been going out for like a year, and really love each other. But every time we are alone, he always tries to tickle me especially my feet. I am EXTREMLY ticklish on my feet (but no where else?), but I don't really want to be tickled. It apparantly makes me look cuter, but I don't know? Plz help me!
2007-11-02 07:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Georgia USA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him how you feel! If he loves you, he will listen!
2007-11-02 07:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by l'il xian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We've been going out for a year and really love each other?"
NO YOU DON'T!!! Why would your partner want to make you uncomfortable and unhappy by doing something so stupid to hurt you? What do you mean that it makes you look cuter? Are you serious? Look...sit him down (soon) and calmly tell him "Babe, I do NOT like it when you tickle me. I know you think I look adorable when I'm laughing...but you need to find another way to make me smile. While I'm cute on the outside...I'm really getting pissed on the inside. I know you love me, so please stop."
2007-11-02 14:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by LaiDeeLuv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he has some form of foot fetish. There is two things u can do:
If your not comfortable with it, confront him
If you are comfortable with it, but don't want to be tickled, then soak your feet in warm water with quite a bit of baby oil (it worked for me when my girlfriend did it to me)
Or just let urself go with it and enjoy urself. That's what I did and we just got engaged.
Hope everything goes well for you. Good Luck!
2007-11-02 14:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by tormento 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf from high school used to tickle me but, when he tickled me it didn't tickle it hurt.. He used too much pressure ! He's NOW my husband and NOW he knows just how/when to tickle.. It's just your bf's way of being close to you. .If you don't like to be tickled than tell him. I'm sure he'll stop..
2007-11-02 14:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been going out for a year then just ask him not to do it but make sure when you tell him it's during a serious moment and he doesn't think your joking.
2007-11-02 14:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start slapping him. not when he tickles you but at other times. when he starts getting annoyed double your efforts.
he will get soooooo sick of it the you can strike a deal.lol
2007-11-10 10:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to stop because it hurts to laugh.
2007-11-02 14:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by zomg_lol_irl_gil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he does it, urinate. And then act all embarrassed and cry. He WON'T do it again.
2007-11-02 14:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Oh it's me! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your just being spoiled here.
2007-11-02 14:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋