Family & Relationships - 2 November 2007

What is something that your spouse does not know about you? And would be surprised to find out?

2007-11-02 07:00:33 · 19 answers · asked by lhallums82 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I happened to love a girl, who is very beautiful but I am not as attractive as she is. She is even taller than me. And there is racial difference between us too, she is white and I am brown. But people have told me that I am nice, polite, confident, and intelligent. Will I ever be able to have her as a friend? or atleast please tell me what must I do to impress her? I can do anything to impress her. Please advise sincerley.

2007-11-02 06:59:14 · 22 answers · asked by HB 2 in Singles & Dating

i never introduced myself yet....i caught her looking at me a couple of times.....and she caught me :) aaaaa how cute :)......please help

2007-11-02 06:58:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex & I don't have a custody order for our 2 kids, he just went & filed court papers to get it set in stone. He's requesting 50/50 everything because he refuses to help me financially w/ the kids. He lives at home w/ his parents (29 yrs.old) & they support him financially. His parents even gave him the 300 to file the court papers. He told me that if I want him to help me, that I need to give him a list of what all my bills are and where extactly all my money is going, I have an apt. for the kids so I carry all household bills & things they need. He also said that he doesn't want to hear that I'm going out w/ my friends, if I'm bearly making it, I should stay home but my friends no I'm tight & they invite me,He said I need to prove to him that I need help in order for him to want to help me, I think he's still trying to control me & doesn't want me out so that I don't possibly meet someone else. I think he's still jealous & I shouldn't have to prove all that to him right?

2007-11-02 06:56:02 · 7 answers · asked by justbeingme_ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He will take a labtop to another room and jerk off. we have a great relationship, we love each other. I dont have a problem with masturbation but if I am home why dnt we do it together or just have sex. I mean when we do have sex, it is great. I'm i just overreacting?

2007-11-02 06:53:50 · 2 answers · asked by Sexxiyfabulous 1 in Singles & Dating

thsi is whats happeing 2 me with one of my ex boyfriend. he was out of taune for 4 years. when he left i got married. now he has come backe and all the time he is calling me so h can see me for the perpes of one theing. have sex with him. he now that i am married. he tells me that he is maried 2 but i really dont bulive that cuzhe is a liyer.
why dose he look for me. is just that all he wont wit he?

2007-11-02 06:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend calls me a whore.. and she says to admit it and every one knows i am. but no one thinks i am except her. and ive done things.. most of them having no choice, and the other times i did it out of "love".. and i thought she understood that im not.. ive just gotten in bad situations. but she still calls me a whore..

2007-11-02 06:47:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i knew this guy for 10 months and we been sleeping together the whole time and he had a girlfriend for a week in a half and he cheated with her for me .and now he has another girlfriend but he still flirts with me alot when shes not around and we hand out with the same 2 best friends on weekends but he dont call or see her on weekends? so maybe you guys can tell me whats his deal?

2007-11-02 06:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by Amy S 1 in Singles & Dating

ok the the other night my bf gave me a hicky and if my parents see it im DEAD!!!
they havnt seen it yet but idk they might so i was jw how to cover it up!!! like with make up or nething else!! or like if they see it like if i can say that its sumthinelse besides a hicky..idk ive nvr had 1 b4 but please help me!

2007-11-02 06:45:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in another country at the minute learning the language and there is a German girl in my class who is a bit of a stunner. The thing is that we e-mail and chat in school etc, and it seems as if she is flirting with me...but...do I make a move and make a complete prat of myself, as I don't think she is the type of person to make the first move!!! I've thought of planning a day for us both before she leaves in December, but it's silly starting anything that'll be temporary! aghhh I don't know what to do. Any advice?

2007-11-02 06:44:27 · 7 answers · asked by fresh_prince_of_bel_fast 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-02 06:44:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every girl that knows me says im so sweet and nice, I help them out with stuff, hold doors for them those kind of things..but im afraid because i hear that nice guys finish last

2007-11-02 06:44:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please respond if you have done this...

I am trying to figure out how many bags/pounds of flat glass gems/vase gems to purchase to make my centerpieces.

Centerpieces will be shallow bowls 6-8" diam with floating candles, with the stones in the bottom.

Like this- http://www.rosemarycompany.com/media/000600-01.jpg
but with the gems in the bottom

Can anyone tell me how many gems they used (apx is fine too) per bowl?

2007-11-02 06:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Weddings

I have been married for 5 years & 2days & we arent as compatable as we use to be we fight all the time should we devorse i cant stand her every thing i do is wrong i need help what should i do

2007-11-02 06:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by alexonmaui2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 06:39:31 · 13 answers · asked by non active 2 in Family

what should I do?

2007-11-02 06:36:49 · 28 answers · asked by lovely_sexy_finer 1 in Singles & Dating

this is a repost, I need more opinions.

thanks,

2007-11-02 06:34:45 · 4 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Friends

the kids have left home, and you look at your spouse and think...who was I 25 years ago? what was I planning to do with my life, im too young to put on slippers and sit and watch TV but I owe this person too much to just walk out and start again. The marriage has been good, but we are both a little jaded and tired of each other. Any thoughts...

2007-11-02 06:34:35 · 25 answers · asked by Ernie77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So tonight I am going out with a guy for the first time, and i want to know things that are good and bad to do.. I often times either talk entirely too much, or not enough. I really like this guy, he has alot going for him and so do I, so I think we would be really good for each other. We have talked quite a bit, but i am nervous. I need some first date suggestions.. what happens physically? kiss? hold hands? what?

2007-11-02 06:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by PuRpLe HaZe 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm the sole breadwinner in the household, and my wife insists on spending every single penny I bring in. If it looks like we might have anything left over after necessities, we suddenly "need" to get something else, according to her. If I make a sound about the spending, I'm a villain. Why does she do this? It's not as if she spends her days in housework. I'm supposed to do that, as well, but I admit to not doing it. I put in 10-12 hour days at work and still we can't make ends meet. There is always something more that just "must" be bought. She will not get a job. We have a child and she refuses to put him into daycare.

Why does she do these things? How do I understand it so I can live with it?

2007-11-02 06:31:02 · 19 answers · asked by Yarpzargle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 06:30:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My on and off bf of a little over a year asked me to marry him 4 weeks ago.I said that we should talk this over more be (unoffically engaged) and see how its goes he agreed to this Last week we ent into NYC to visit some of his extended family for his grandfathers B-day party.Everything was fine they were all really nice to me .Then after we went out to a pub with his family my bf started acting very moody as usual with alcohol.We left to go to the trainstation directly but got lost .We got into a fight because i said we should ask someone for directions.He realized that he forgot his cell and wallet.So he told me to cut through central park or a park i'm not sure? and wait at the trainstation for him while he went back to get his stuff.I got even more lost because that was the wrong way i called his cell but it was off so i left a message.I had no cash on me except 10 dollars and no credit card.I got scared because 3 black guys looked like they were following me through the park..

2007-11-02 06:29:02 · 10 answers · asked by Lidya Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm aware of a situation that I don't understand and would like some input. I've seen other similar articles recently, but not quite like this.

I know a young girl (24) who had a 2 year relationship with a married guy 34 years older than her. When he wouldn't leave his wife for her, she dumped him and picked up with a divorced guy 30 years older than her who she had known for about 6 months. Within 6 weeks of getting serious with this guy, she gets engaged and was married about 9 months later. Since she got engaged and even now, she has continued to call the ex and still expresses strong feelings for him. She may call a couple of times a week to a couple times a day. Should the ex be talking to her? ... no! However, nothing will ever happen again between them. She tells everyone she is madly in love with her new husband, but if so, why call the ex? The husband is rich and treats her well. Is there some other reason she'd be calling that's not obvious?

2007-11-02 06:28:46 · 11 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have the fiancee', dress ideas, and wedding site. Now I need help thinking of a fun reception venue/decor ideas. No 50's diners, no fun drive-ins, all the decor I find is cheesy and cheap. We want more of the retro/rockabilly/50's prom and sexy/sweet appeal. Too much to ask?

Salt Lake City may be pretty limited but there HAVE to be options. Any and all ideas welcome and appreciated!

2007-11-02 06:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by Cassandra O 1 in Weddings

This girl told me that she gets 5,550.00 in child support and has like 90,000.00 in savings. She is 15 and has a 3 year old girl her ex is 26 and he owns a real estate business due to his dad dying he handed it to him. Could this be true??

2007-11-02 06:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

cyber sex? Does it really work?

2007-11-02 06:26:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I have sex with my wife, it hurts her, we use lube some times and it still hurts her like hell....
Its in the begining, after a while it gets better. I dont know if shes too small or im to big or both, but its annoying because she is never exited because of her fear that its going to hurt.
Sex has dropped drastically... I'm always the one that initiates and she does it because of me. I wish i knew why is this happening to us.

2007-11-02 06:21:39 · 26 answers · asked by alcaponepr69 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife and I had an uncontested divorce, and we have mutually agreed that I would pay her child support "under the table" and not through the system. Right now, I make about 47K a year. My ex and her husband combined make about 85K a year, and she had primary custody of my kids. I drive 80 miles one way every weekend and pick my kids up and bring them back to where I live so that I can spend time with them. I am currently paying her $960 per week for 2 kids, and the only reason I can afford this is because I was injured on a job 3 years ago and am receiving a workman's comp. settlement check every week until Dec. of this year. After this year, the child support will be coming from my paycheck. Is there a certain percentage of a paycheck that child support is derived from? Is there a way to figure out exactly how much I should be paying, without hiring a lawyer?

2007-11-02 06:20:00 · 10 answers · asked by goldenbear733 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i will tell you why because men think with their heads and not with their heart and females always think with their heart

2007-11-02 06:19:09 · 52 answers · asked by ADRIAN H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-02 06:17:35 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating