Roommate trouble... please tell me what you think?!!?

Question

this is a repost, I need more opinions.

thanks,

The head roommate at my house kinda runs the show, he tells people to clean up their **** all the time, while leaving his own messes out. He's so high most of the time it's amazing he can talk, he ignors everyone else, and he and another roommate seem to get along much better and they always make fun of me for whatever they can find (the way I enter rooms yesterday). I really don't care about that stuff, but this little bastard is such a trip I can't tell if he's just being him or if he hates me.

When we were drunk wednesday I told him we should go up to a-basin this weekend, he said wait till more mountains open. Yesterday he found out keystone opens today and txt me, I said are you going? He said ya, but never invited me, and even told the other roommate he was pissed that the other roommate couldn't go in front of me.

What do you guys think, is this guy just a general *** or does he hate me?
(i'm 20, both of the other guys are 24) I know it's not much to go on.

Answer 1

just leave him alone. it seems like he is a cocky dude and he needs to be put in his place. if it was me, i would curse his *** out one good time to let him know where i am coming from. it seems like you are submittive and afraid to use your voice. people like him needs to be told once and for all. if you are paying your rent like he is he has no right to tell anyone else what to do if he don't do it. as far as him being high all the time just let him know that when he talks to you make sure he is sober and level headed because the other roommates thinks that these things are funny and they are not funny. i always go by this saying NO FOOL NO FUN but there are a lot of serious moments that needs to be dealt with. just sit him down just you and him either while nobody is there or in one of your rooms and just let him know how you feel about things.

Answer 2

Seems like you need a new roommate.
Do you give him a reason to walk all over you? Maybe he (they) think you are just an easy target because you don't do or say anything to defend yourself. Guys like that are typically low-life (hypocritical when they order you to do something they wouldn't do themselves, pushing you around, caring less about others or their opinions, thinking they are high and mighty, "holier than thou" attitude, getting high/drunk all the time, etc..) and probably aren't worth rooming with. You wanna room with someone you have something in common with and someone you can get along with. Not someone who couldn't even hang with you outside the house.
The guy doesn't seem to care one bit for you - God knows for what reason. And you seem like a decent, nice guy who doesn't deserve to be treated as such. I'd say either move out or kick 'em out. If there's more of them there, I would move out, if I was you. If you're on a lease and your name is on it, ride it out and avoid the guy until you can move out.

Answer 3

You need new roommates. Before you move out i think you should confront them just to get it off your chest. They are four years older than you so naturally that's most Likely why they pick on you, that and you let them. May your not a roommate person. I hope i helped

Answer 4

he just likes order. my guess is that hes an only child. or maybe the youngest... he likes to have stuff his way and as his roomate you should respect that. i know and understand that thats hard but if its too hard, FIND ANOTHER PLACE TO LIVE. or talk to him. tell him how annoying it is and that you didnt move in so that he could act like your mother.
he doesnt hate you.

good luck.
macy.