I happened to love a girl, who is very beautiful but I am not as attractive as she is. She is even taller than me. And there is racial difference between us too, she is white and I am brown. But people have told me that I am nice, polite, confident, and intelligent. Will I ever be able to have her as a friend? or atleast please tell me what must I do to impress her? I can do anything to impress her. Please advise sincerley.
2007-11-02 06:59:14 · 22 answers · asked by HB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but think again.....she is a beautiful princess but I am not, and that's true
2007-11-02 07:32:55 · update #1
I know I will probably get a lot of thumbs down for this but.....
anything is possible especially if you have money in your pocket.
2007-11-02 07:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm, so I take it this girl and you arent technically friends yet. Trust me, you dont want to get stuck in the "friend" boat. Its nearly impossible for a guy to ever remove himself from a female's "friend" list and upgrade himself to "boyfriend material". So that being said I would advise that you pay special attention to the whole first impression thing. A woman will size up a man right off the bat. So, you need to project yourself as something to be desired. I think if you do indeed have the confidence going on it will go a long way. But most importantly you have make this girl think you have some sort of common interest that you share (but dont over do it) and that you have something to offer (and dont play up your money, thats just tacky). Also, you once you have this girl hooked in conversation you need to be the one who walks away first. Go get on your phone, make a fake call, whatever...I'm tellin ya its pivotal you be the one who ends the convo...keep her wanting more...girls like what they cant have, we all do i dont care what anyone says.
ps. disregard all this "be yourself" crap..thats bs and everyone knows it...noone is themself when they first meet someone they like...noone...it is possible you may be just what this girl is looking for...and its up to you to utilize the tricks of the trade to make her realize that...you dont have to get her hooked on you necessarily, just the idea of you...plant the seed man, you reap what you sow..haha sorry so cliche
2007-11-02 07:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by xninjagrrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aer precious. I am brown my mate is white. Not that it matters, but it does..
If you are nice and gentle as you say, this will shine through. Color barrier are broken down today by the youth. You all have really shown that "color" is not a real issue when it comes to dating. If she is in your cirlce of friends then I suggest you start to "feel" her out whenever your in the same space. Do you think she see's you? Does she know you like her? If she doesn't then introduce yourself. Don't try to "impress" her per say, just be yourself...
Take your time. Things like this have a way of working out, okay? God bless you hunn and keep your head UP..:)
2007-11-02 07:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by sablelemarr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks are subjective...and one can see couples every day where one party is much more attractive than the other party.
We can't read minds or see the future, so what happens between you and this girl you are interested in, is up to you two. Get to know her, and see where things go.
2007-11-02 07:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I dated a woman who wouldn't fall into the "princess" face class so I guess it could work the other way around.
2007-11-02 07:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by oneredeemer2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course everyone is gonna tell you to be yourself.
its true.
i have the same thoughts.
i have a beautiful gf.
and many times i think im undeserving.
im not handsome, charming,funny....
you got it good with the confidence! =]
she just likes me for who i am.
thats all a person should ask of you.
just talk to her, and the words will flow.
they will be perfect, no matter how stupid you think
you sound. good luck dude. peace.
2007-11-02 07:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks arent everything. I know plenty of handsome azzholes. Just be yourself, and your beauty will come shining through.
Good Luck. . .
2007-11-02 07:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Chartise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is possible
my advice is for u to b yourself try talkin 2 her
once she gets to knows u she might like u but if she only cares about looks its not worth it she's to shallow
Best of Luck
2007-11-02 07:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean, MOST men are not as attractive as their women and I think even non heterosexuals would agree with that. Women cant be as fussy physically because hardly any of us are packing sick pack abs and super model smiles
2007-11-02 07:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are people in the world who are not really concerned about what you look like but more what your personality is, so it is definitely possible for her to like you for you but if she doesn't it doesn't mean that there won't be another person who will.
2007-11-02 07:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by madeam3 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋