So tonight I am going out with a guy for the first time, and i want to know things that are good and bad to do.. I often times either talk entirely too much, or not enough. I really like this guy, he has alot going for him and so do I, so I think we would be really good for each other. We have talked quite a bit, but i am nervous. I need some first date suggestions.. what happens physically? kiss? hold hands? what?
2007-11-02 06:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by PuRpLe HaZe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself you sound like a level headed young lady.
2007-11-02 06:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joyous Dawn in the morning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls somehow control what should happen between them and boys. Unless they make a bad mistake or ... which is rare, really. Think, it's somehow the boy, which should be (more) nervous. About the Physical. It's TOTALLY up to you.
And for suggestion, be YOURSELF (tired of hearing it, I know. But you must hear it more!), Really. Don't tell any lie. Don't try to show something that you are not.
And (sorry for being so ...) ... (as my opinion) ... (I have to say) ... (if you don't want to have ONLY physical ...) don't plan for a physical happening (at least more than hands) on first dateS. And (even) if the boy suggests so,you can even consider about being with him again. Kiss is the last step for firsts (you & his first dates) and about sleep and ... I think I shouldn't talk about it Because surely you know what it (touch on first dates) means and how it is? (NO if you ask me)
Realy sorry as a boy to talk so with a girl but I just wanted to be a bit of help.
Sorry. Sorry. Sorry.
2007-11-02 14:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Eric Gump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. If you want to go ahead. Don't be afraid. The girl has the upper hand in the physical department. The guy doesn't want to push too much or make you uncomfortable. Guys will always be down for some sex. Don't talk too much. That's annoying.
2007-11-02 13:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That entirely depends on how you guys connect. I think kissing is cool on the first date, but I would not have much respect for a woman that sleeps with a guy on the first date.
Just my opinion.
2007-11-02 13:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Dak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things take it's course. Be yourself. If you know you tend to talk a lot - that's ok. Just remember to listen to him when it's his turn. Things will fall in to place if there meant to happen. Dont stress out. If he likes you then you'll probably have another date with him. Just remember - BE YOURSELF!
2007-11-02 13:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if you feel like holding hand or you want a kiss and he doesn't make the move. you make the move to let him know what's ok and what's not. that's the problem i have. i don't want to over step my bounderies and all women are differant so it's hard to make the right chose.
2007-11-02 13:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep talking, if he knows what he's doing thats what he wants and he'll shut up and pretend to listen.
Physically I would say thank him and give him a hug if it goes well. I wouldn't kiss him, but it's up to you, use your judgement.
2007-11-02 13:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must provide some more info... age, location, date is where, etc. Set the scene will help a lot.
2007-11-02 13:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by GA-Seagull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself honey! and go with the flow,your natural instincts will tell you what to do. have a great date.
2007-11-02 13:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by jaz_998@yahoo.com.uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax dont put him on a pedal stool
go in it confident and take charge
2007-11-02 13:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋