what should I do?
2007-11-02 06:36:49 · 28 answers · asked by lovely_sexy_finer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him and go out with the other person.
2007-11-02 06:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by misbotta 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow, you really need to figure out what is more important to you, the guy that you already have a bod with or a new guy? You should at least be fair to your boyfriend and let him know what is going on, even though that will most likely ruin your relationship with him. How would you feel if it the shoes were on ther foot, probably not that great?
2007-11-02 06:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by gotbeerimez69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your boyfriend and tell him the situation.
(Trust me, there is nothing worse than having him find out on his own and then not trusting you later)
Tell you boyfriend, and if he is worth keeping will be evident by his reaction to the news. If he really loves you than he will be forgiving and of course he will be pissed, but it still is the right thing 2 do.
And besides, all you are doing now will end up hurting both ur BF and the other guy that you have a crush on
2007-11-04 11:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by BIG TIM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about who you like the most. Do you really love your boyfriend? Do you want to be with him?
Why did you started to like this other boy? Did your bf did something to make you look for someone else or like someone else?
I mean it's a decision you have to make. If you really love your bf then you'll stay with him.
2007-11-02 06:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by SleepingBeauty =) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are those feelings? Lust? If you don't love your boyfriend anymore and want the other guy, its time to part ways with your boyfriend. Its better to break up than to cheat.
2007-11-02 06:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♫Tweedle Dee♪♫ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so damned flighty and figure out what you want to do. If you"have feelings" for someone else you obviously don't care for your boyfriend. If you did, you wouldn't "have feelings" for someone else.
Do this guy a favor and dump him and don't drag him through the mud while you "figure out" your feelings.
FP
2007-11-02 06:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take time for yourself and dont worry about where things are going. Fate needs the wheel. Just dont lead someone on with feelings that are false. It will come around to haunt your future.
2007-11-02 06:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by New Nana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should get a sheet of paper and write down all the good qualites about both and all the bad qualities about both. who ever has the most bad qualities is the one you need to leave alone. (You should do this if you don't know who who treats you the best).
2007-11-02 06:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sexybrowneyes7553 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you thinking about this person all the time? Are you interested in dating this other person? If it is affecting your current relationship then you owe your bf a favor, and should end it with him. It's not fair to him, and you're just wasting his and your own time.
2007-11-02 06:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ambi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how strong your feelings are for this other person. Need more info though on the situation. Just based on what you said alone its hard to give advise.
2007-11-02 06:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to decide who YOU are.
Are you the kind of person who is going to cheat on their boyfriend. Or, one that stays true to their commitment?
What I have noticed in life is that pretty much everyone's eyes wander a bit. We all lust after others- especially ones we cannot have. But, how you act upon it is what makes your character.
2007-11-02 06:39:38 · answer #11 · answered by Morey000 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋