My sister in law is very actractive and is always flirting with me. My wife says that she has always been a flirt and does not think nothing about it. My sister in law came up to me recently and wispered in my ear that she would like to have sex with me and that she would keep things quiet. I didn't really respond but looked at her with a supprised smile. She told me to think about it. Unfortunately that is all that I have thought about. I'm not sure if I can trust her and think that perhaps that she and my wife may be pulling a prank on me. But then again she may not be kidding. Should I take the oppertunity and go for it, or should I pass. I'll feel that I will be dammed either way, A. if I go for it I may feel guilty for the rest of my life, and B. if I don't then I may later feel bad that I missed my chance. I'm not getting any younger and I know that as you get older these kind of things dont' come around as much.
2007-11-02 07:52:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, it would take allot of patience to read down to my post, but here I go.
If you want to do it, GO FOR IT. There really is nothing holding you back other than yourself... In case it really is a prank remember to talk to her in a playful voice and remember not to stress it too much.
If you sweep her off her feet she'll probably keep the secret... and for a reason.
Most people would say brushing this off your mind is the "right" thing to do. So be it, the very fact that you posted the question just means you want to do it and just want someone to say "good idea", "yeah it would work" or "SWEET!!!".
Here is my response: go for it.
you now have an excuse.
2007-11-03 14:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Joe P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have PCOS and was able to conceive really fast by taking metformin. A co-worker got pregnant about a month before me and knowing that I was going to start trying but didn't know if I could, she was afraid to tell me. I really wish she hadn't felt that way. I would have been so excited for her and not jealous at all. When I told my boss I was pregnant she told me that my friend was too. So my advice. Just tell your family like you planned to. You can't worry about everyone else and their feelings too much. This is your first baby and how exciting for you! Plus, you don't know that she will have trouble. I know so many people with PCOS that haven't had any problems. And as far as yours being the first grandchild. You are the daughter of the grandparents and she is the daughter in law. So I don't see where it should be that big of a deal. If she is jealous or anything, that is something she has to deal with. Kudos to you for taking the time to care. And you can very gently tell her about it later after the excitement dies down.
2016-03-19 03:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have sex with your wife's sister???
I wouldn't trust her as far as i could throw her. Do you really think that your wife would stoop so low as to work with her sister to see if you would cheat. Does she have any reason to be suspicious of you?
I would take your sister in law to the side and tell her that your only feeling towards her are as your wife's sister and that the way she is carrying on makes you feel uncomfortable and to stop it.
If you are thinking of cheating then I'd be thinking about whether you still want to be in your marriage or not. How would you feel if it was the other way about and your wife was considering or did cheat on you??
Do the right thing.
2007-11-02 13:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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It's definitely a tricky situation, but I just want to tell you that yours sister-in-law shouldn't feel hopeless! I have PCOS, and I had a healthy baby girl three months ago. My husband and I went off birth control, and didn't chart or anything, just had unprotected sex. It took about two years (we had actually just bought a basal temperature thermometer to start charting when I got pregnant.) My mom also has PCOS, and she has six healthy children. I know she used fertility drugs like clomid for a few of my siblings, but she didn't need IVF or anything like that. So your sister-in-law should know that while it's definitely more difficult to concieve with PCOS, because we ovulate less frequently, it's not only very possible, but it also happens all the time. My heart is with both of you! Good luck!
2016-04-11 06:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a dick for even questioning the matter. Did you say "I'm not getting any younger and I know that as you get older these kind of things dont' come around as much."? What kind of crap is that?! You have a wife! Maybe you should think about that a bit more rather than getting a little piece of ***. If you have sex with her then you are trashy..1-because you cheated and 2-..because its with your IN LAW. People like you with no morals or heart piss me off to no end.
2007-11-02 08:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has the potential to go wrong *so* many ways.
If it was me, I'd stay clear of the bimbo. I wouldn't even let myself be alone with her in the same room or same house. She sounds like trouble. If it is a test, your wife will kill you if you say you want to go for it. If it's not a test, all the sister has to do is get mad at you, and tell her sister. Either you're divorced, or you're dancing on the end of her string for the rest of your life.
Leave her alone. She's a tramp.
2007-11-02 07:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-19 00:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Cecila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT do it. You're being so selfish. So what if you're getting older? You're married! Would you really be so gross as to have sex with your wife's SISTER? Gross!!!
It shouldn't matter if she's a flirt or not... there is no reason for you to think twice about this! The answer is NO, do not do it. Imagine how hurt your poor wife would be if she found out. :( I feel sorry for her that she has such a crappy sister and husband who would actually consider what you're doing.
2007-11-02 08:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by prestigieuxlavie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing you should be thinking about is a divorce. You obviously aren't committed to your wife or you wouldn't even be toying with the idea. Prank or not on their part, the right thing to do would be tell your wife. As for missing out on an opportunity...well then why did you say "I do" in the first place. Seems to me you have some growing up to do and marriage may not be the thing for you.
2007-11-02 08:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by gatorgal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY way you could indulge in this fantasy and get away with it without losing your wife would be to see if you could make it a threesome with your wife and her sister. Nothing else has even a ghost of a chance. I am not saying that your wife will like the idea of sharing you with her sister, she probably will not. But if you are determined to go ahead, that's the only way.
2007-11-03 01:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋