Should I be taking him seriously and start thinking about having unprotected sex.... i really care about him and I know he does too!!!! Were both young 22, 24 and I dont know if I want to take things that far.... to me its a big step.... Help what do you think
2007-11-02 07:37:06 · 11 answers · asked by Holly S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he really loved you and respected you he would not be asking you to do something that stupid.
It is a big step to have unprotected sex and your right to be apprehensive.
If he loves you and really wants to be with you he's respect your feelings on wanting to wait. Don't be bullied into something you are not comfortable with and may regret.
2007-11-02 13:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should NOT have unprotected sex. He is only thinking of himself,not of you. Yes, it IS a big step, and you should think of your health and your life before you think of going ahead.
Please remember that lots of guys say this, and will do anything to have unprotected sex with girls. It's dangerous and if you contract some disease it could stay with you for a lifetime (I'm thinking herpes here). Over 40% of the women in your age group have HPV, and I'll bet a lot of them got it from boyfriends who said, "oh it's OK, let's do it without a condom tonight."
It's great that you are thinking about this and I hope you make the (what I believe is the) right decision. You sound like a level-headed girl!
2007-11-02 07:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anna P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh yes, the line from hell! Unprotected is just that, not only is the main event unprotected, so is you heart, and your health. Hold on to your values, they have taken you this far! Really caring for a guy does not mean it is okay to have unprotected anything! Take good care, Chaplain Debby
2007-11-02 10:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I find his request selfish as hell. You and him are together, dont be a fool. Maybe he simply wants you pregnant or something. Take the next step when YOU are 100% ready-----------dont let him make you rush into a bad decision
2007-11-02 08:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question....Are you ready for a child? Can you handle being a parent 9 months from now.
If the answer is Yes, then please go ahead and natural selection will take care of the rest, but if you're not ready, then keep it covered.
2007-11-02 07:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would your family think?Sometimes guys wanna do that to make you completely theirs.Are you ready for that comittment?If he is then tell him to marry you and see what he says?Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
2007-11-02 07:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mex_tech78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow unprotected sex only when u want to get pregnant.
2007-11-02 11:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by dani l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please. NO GLOVE NO LOVE!!!!!
Unless you are prepared to have a child with this person OR catch an std, which no one is ready for. I'd tell him to back off, grow some balls and wear a condom!
2007-11-02 07:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG PLEASE NEVER FALL FOR A GUY WHO SAYS THAT! i have had alot of bfs and NONE has ever said that! do not do it!!!!! get tested pleaseee!!! u dont understand what kind of diaseses are out there. you can get hpv from a guy fingering u..eating you out! BE CAREFULL
2007-11-02 07:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm nooooooooooooooo!! Both of you need to get tested before you could even consider that move!!!!!!
2007-11-02 07:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by BeautifulDisaster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋