one night, my crush and I got kinda drunk and flirted(more so me, he does this thing where he has 2 drinks and then "pretends" to be drunk) he kept tryin 2 subtlely touch me. our friends encouraged us because they knew I liked him and when i said he doesnt like me they all said i think he does. The people there that night meddled in the situation, pestering him about me afterwards and called him oblivious. my friend who is close with him (and is NOT lying) said "he said he doesnt have feelings 4 for, the pestering didnt help a huge amount." Im shocked he doesnt like me because after that night when I randomly left he left me 2 voicemails, one saying "hope u got back 2 your room OK, ill IM you tomorrow" and he did IM me right away the next morning, and he asked me questions. he was sober while doing these things. He didn’t tell his friends he did this and my friends response to this was “hes stupid trust me, didn’t mean anything by it.” He has been told Ive liked him since last year.
2007-11-02 02:24:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
on the day of our band competition my crush found out what my friend told me. his bff apparently was mad that my friend told me, "he had no place 2 do that" but I dont know how my crush felt about the situation. That day, he was standing near me once, and he wasn’t looking my way, I was trying to ignore him but he walked by and said hi. Later that night when I hung out with ppl he walked into the room said “hey every1” and then “hey” 2 me. He still says hi 2 me when passing me on campus. Am I reading too much into this? He is doing this because he wants no hard feelings/Wants to be friends? I cant tell if he is being friendly or may like me and not want to admit it. I dont really see him alot because Im so busy. If he doesnt like me, why did he leave me those messages? He doesnt do that with his other friends that get drunk.
2007-11-02 02:25:51 · update #1
All this probably doesn't mean much to him. What I would be more concerned about is the regular drunkenness that seems to be fueling your social life. It seems to me that you all need to grow in maturity before you develop any serious relationships.
2007-11-02 02:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to have sex with you. hes affectionate with you but tells his friends he doesnt have feelings for you. guys are actually pretty simple. they just dont want you to know it
2007-11-02 02:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by dont touch me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am taking that you are a young person. im sure even he dosent know for sure. just be his friend. date other guys. enjoy life
2007-11-02 02:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by rgn_gray 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*YAWN!!!!*
Didn't you post this already last week?? Is this the ONLY "Exciting" thing in your life at this time?
2007-11-02 02:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋