One time I was writing my friend a private email about him while he was sleeping on the bed (stupid I know). I got up to use the bathroom and saw he had gotten up and was reading the email.
He kept ignoring the fact I was mad my privacy had been invaded and was like, "Well why did you write what you wrote".
Another time I wanted to go to my friend's bday party instead of driving two hours to VA to visit him (which I've done the last two weeks in a row).
Again he won't admit it's shady to get mad about that. He kept saying, "But the army is going to station me in Nebraska in December. You should want to spend as much time as possible with me while you can".
2007-11-02 02:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a sneak and control freak lose him.
2007-11-02 02:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just feels jealous that you prefer spending more time with your friends than him at the moment. About the email, maybe he was just nervous about ou writing it while he was asleep, and took the opprutunity to make sure it wasn't anything against him.
But I do think you should try to spend more time with him. After all, if he's going in the army, it's best that you savour every last moment with him. Assure him that you love him, and nothing will ever change that.Tell him that he shouldn't have to surf through your email in order to trust you -- that isn't what a relationship is about.
But you know, I'd feel jealous too if I had a boyfriend and he'd rather see his friends than me when I'd be going away for a while. Just try to see things from his point of view and act on that! ^___^
Good luck! ^___^
2007-11-02 09:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by China Cup 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not your imagination. It's possible he's being clingy because he's nervous about going away or whatever the Army is transferring him to do, but you're entitled to a life and opinions of your own. Talk to him about it. If he ignores your concerns and tries to blame you for his behavior again, say goodbye and wish him well in Nebraska.
2007-11-02 09:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by MM 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend might be just a bit insecure. The first situation, reading the e-mail, may have been just out of curiosity, but the fact that he wants to spend so much time with you before he leaves makes me wonder if he is just insecure. This can develop into jealous rages eventually. Might want to be cautious with this relationship.
2007-11-02 09:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by typerchic34 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something wrong with you, not him.
The guy is going to be stationed in Nebraska...in December, that time span isn't really that far away if you think about it.
If I were your boyfriend and you were practically avoiding me and choosing not to see me, I would just cut you off and call you a loss...not such a big loss either. That's pretty messed up that you're not making an effort to go see him before he leaves in December. What kind of g/f are you?
I think if you really cared about your b/f and your relationship in general, then you would be going out of your way to see him and to spend as much time with him as you could.
......figure it out.
2007-11-02 09:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey... how can you complain about your privacy when you were gushing private things about him to a friend? Where's HIS privacy? I would be po'd at you over that, and probably would have a hard time trusting you.
It's natural for him to be disappointed that you chose a birthday party over him.
In general, I think you're not giving him enough credit.
2007-11-02 09:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
If you're an adult then I can see where he's coming from..
I've dated military men in the past & every second counts..
Maybe he's dedicated to this relationship more than you are.
Sorry to say I'm on his side.
2007-11-02 09:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Hard at work *wink* NOT! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is underhanded and a control freak, put your foot on his butt and kick hard!
2007-11-02 09:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend he is quite normal in his reactions I think he will be better off without you to annoy him with your self centered rubbish ~~
2007-11-02 09:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think this may mean that you might be breaking up!
2007-11-02 09:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by iknowiamshort01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋