Ok the details are like this. This is a girl I had a crush on in the 6th grade but of course never revealed it although she was always pretty friendly with me. I didint see her for another two years until the 8th grade but only briefly. Now Im nearing the end of the 10th grade, and the formal came up. One of my friends asked her through a text message to come to the formal, 4 days no reply so I asked her instead and she said yes! (over the phone)
Obviously I was so happy afterwards, but i now realise its been 2 years since Ive seen her. Ive got her myspace and everything and shes got mine, but I wanna meet her. Im thinking of asking her to the mall then to watch a movie or something, discuss things over lunch or something. Im also gonna ask her friend little things she likes so I can buy a present maybe?
Please gimme some advice, I know to act myself and everything, but please give me more indepth things. I think she had a BF already, but this is my first date lol. Help in anyway ty
2007-11-02 02:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do too much or you look needy. If you buy dinner or a movie that's probably more than enough. Or you might try asking her how she feels if you pay for both of you first, (this is a situation more likely with older women) because some do like to pay their own way, they don't want you to think they "owe" you something (and you can guess what they think you're going to want in payment). Or pick one (dinner or the movie) and ask if she has a problem if you pay for hers. Or you might offer to go dutch for both, or you pay for her for one of them and she pays for herself for the other.
The main thing here is you don't want to look cheap, while on the other hand you don't want to look like you're needy or giving her too many things at the start.
If you were going to get her something, make it something simple like a single rose. Nothing too expensive.
2007-11-02 03:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been 2 yrs since you've seen her. Think about interesting things that have happened in the last 2 years that you can tell her about. Remember to let her do at least half the talking. Find out what has happened to her in the last 2 years. Go to a web site and learn 3 clean jokes. Tell a joke if things get slow or awkward. Don't tell all 3 jokes at one time. Save them for the lulls in the conversation. A movie and a snack are great things to do.
Don't send a present just yet. It would seem like you are desperate or trying too hard. Save it for 3 to 7 days afterward, if things go well.
2007-11-02 03:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sophia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most IMPORTANT thing to do is to keep her comfortable, if your're a funny guy, use it to your advantage. But remember to make sure you listen to her and dont say the 1st thing that comes to your head think about what she'll say. Oh and girls always notice the small things like opening doors pulling out chairs, things like that. Other than that just be you and enjoy yourself
Good luck
2007-11-02 03:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Marc54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what isn't a ingredient of you, is in certainty "pretend." a woman/lady does not choose makeup, pretend hair extensions, ...they like them/opt for them. there's a distinction. organic ladies are "genuine" as a results of fact each and every little thing of them IS in certainty genuine; there is not any longer something pretend that they are featuring.
2016-11-10 01:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if this is your first date you should do something fun! Like go mini golfing or something. I know if i was going out with someone for the first time then i would want to go somewhere fun! But thats just me. Good Luck!
2007-11-02 03:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by angelove<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open doors, pull out her chair, in the movie's push the seat down for her. Just be a gentleman. You already know to be yourself, so other than that just play it cool.
2007-11-02 03:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, how cute. dont over-do it tho, its only so much u can do b4 it comes overwhelming & pushy a.k..a--2 friendly* but its good ur at this stage abd made it by urself, jus took a lil long but do what eva comes naturally. make sure wateva u do she is comfortable, its not just u n the moment.
good luck,have fun,be safe
2007-11-02 02:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by donnetta b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan your date beforehand...
"would you like to go to_________with me, on______?"
Inexpensive flowers( called"mixed bouquet") and something chocolate are usually appropriate....
Not roses .. this is a first date
2007-11-02 03:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Master be of yourself and be bold.
2007-11-02 03:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by YOA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋