.... and she flirts back. And neither of them know you like him, as you're too scared to say anything because you're insecure and worried he'll feel disgusted
2007-11-02 04:20:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You put up or shut up! If you aren't brave enough to ask him out, you can't complain when he gets it on with someone else.
2007-11-02 04:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by mark 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends how old you are. In high school this could be a problem because you see them often and this applies to younger ages as well. If you are good friends then just expect that he may be uncomfortable if you up and tell him. First tell your friend, and if she likes him too, then you may just be out of luck. They already seem interested in eachother according to you. If you step in, that could drive a wedge between the two of you and him. Thats a no win situation for you. Just feel them out, investigate. There are no take backs in life. Slow and steady wins the race,
2007-11-02 04:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by hoselay37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet, put on a brave face and ask the man of your dreams out for a drink or coffee. he won't feel disgusted. If he is any sort of decent man the least he will be is flattered. If he is not and laughs at you. consider yourself to have had a lucky escape and that the guy is an idiot and he is the one missing out and the one with the problem not you. Go get him and have fun.
2007-11-02 04:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin N 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize the only thing holding you back is yourself, and neither of them is to blame for that.
I think you should at least talk to your friend about it. If she's a good friend she'll encourage you to flirt with him and maybe even try to steer him towards you.
2007-11-02 04:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your best friend, you'll back off and let it happen between them. But if you think you have a chance with him, and it may be just because they flirt with each other, then get him aside and ask him what he thinks of you and if he's more interested in you than her. Maybe you're too shy to be flirtatious and just need to be more direct in your approach.
2007-11-02 04:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell you friend that you like the guy, if she carries on flirting with him after you have explained yourself, she is no longer worth being friends with!!!
And then i suggest you flaunt those assets girl and get flirting yourself!!
May the best girl win!
Good luck
2007-11-02 04:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend first let her know how you feel about this guy if she's really your best friend then she'll stop the flirting and maybe even help you but if she really likes him too you need to work out whats best that you either a) leave him alone and let her flirting continue to find someone who's interested in you b) stand up and get him to notice you more and build up courage for yourself andc) both leave him out for a while and concentrate on girlie nights in but first you need to talk to your friend she'd be really upset if you take him if she likes him but she'll be equally upset if she takes him then finds out
2007-11-02 04:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cringe
2007-11-02 04:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by The Rugby Player 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's only your pal. I actual have guy pals that do a similar ingredient and there married. that does no longer mean something. i'd flow on and perchance give up dazzling out with him on account which you will desire to no longer destroy the dating he already has with somebody.
2016-09-28 04:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if he's flirting with her but shooting secret looks at you that it may be you he's interested in. Watch carefully!
2007-11-02 04:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋