Ive been with her about a year now, she is in her thrid year of University and obviously has alot of work. I Dont get to see her often and she seems to be giving me the cold shoulder now aswell. Doesnt seem like she wants to talk to me at all and when she does, its usally me tring to speak to her and her giving one word answers and has no interest in me at all. It was about last May where she left me for another guy and then came back to me.We had a great summer together and i took her on hoilday with all the money i had just before she left for Uni. 4 weeks later, shes flirting with other guys, i think she might have done somthing already. Im worried sick that she is going to leave me any day now, with some crap excuse. The thoughts plague my mind, thats why i think im paranoid. Ive asked her already if she is interested in other guys and she says im gettin it from no where but ive been shown some things.So im at home going crazy, while she doesnt seem to give a crap anymore. (repost)
2007-11-02 01:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly, you obviously don't trust her, so why are you with her? There is no relationship without trust and respect for each other. Secondly, don't let her treat you like a mug, you'll end up more hurt in the long run, if she's treating you this badly then either speak to her about it and sort through your issues or break up. It is difficult when you've been together for a long time but its better than things staying the way they are or getting worse. At the moment she knows she can keep you dangling and you'll always forgive her, try not to be so needy and don't let her treat you like rubbish. Build some confidence and realise that if you don't have respect for yourself then she won't have any for you either.
2007-11-02 02:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Miss E ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax..Don't entertain that thought. You are just showing that you are insecure. If you lower yourself. Then she will also look down you. Instead, think of the positive things in you. Build your confidence. Build yourself. Show her your worth. Be the best person you can be. Just be always be her friend. If she can't love you now, maybe soon she will. Give yourself some space. And be ready to accept whatever happens. If she jilts you, well, the world is so big and so wide. Someday, you will meet a person who will truly care for you. Ok?
2007-11-02 02:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geezer the third year of uni is tough and takes a lot of time. You really have two choices 1) trust her and let her get on with it and support her or 2) you finish it and get on with your life!
Been in your situation and the jealousy and worry can rot your mind. I chose to trust and get on with it, got let down in the end but at least felt good about how I'd behaved and wasn't the jealous psycho boyfriend.
2007-11-02 02:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by elsputnik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your both young ..To be frank there is not to many guys and girls going to college that don't give into temptation look have fun with her ...Don't look to marry her because if she was that type she would not have cheated on you ...but she could be but don't count on it...HAVE FUN don't try to settle her down because she will leave you ... Look !!! lifes to short go find someone who doesn't make you do this...
2007-11-02 09:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth are you wasting your time with this girl stop spending money on her ask her straight out do you want to be with me or not because it doesnt feel like you do. you deserve better.
2007-11-02 01:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls, stop acting like a door mate!!
Forget her and sow your seed
2007-11-02 02:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if she is not worth your time and trouble. She used you...move on.
2007-11-02 01:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Shirley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her plenty other girls around.
2007-11-02 02:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her
2007-11-02 01:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DITCH HER
2007-11-02 02:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by surman1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋