Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

IM 18 AND HE'S 31.WE TALK A LOT UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER THAN ANY GUY I'VE MET.BUT IM JUST AFRAID IT MIGHT JST BE A FLING ITS BEEN GOING ON FOR 2MNTHS NW.SO CAN IT BE?

2007-10-29 08:56:45 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we were together he acted like a 2yr old. now he says he has changed. I want to believe him, but i'm also worried about having a man around my 9 month old son. I'm a single parent, but i don't want to be alone. please help!

2007-10-29 08:56:01 · 13 answers · asked by lickumlolly6360 1 in Singles & Dating

sex before you got married, do you regret it?
I did with my fiance before we were engaged and I have no regrets whatsoever, because I now have a gorgeous baby boy.

2007-10-29 08:55:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It can be anything(:

2007-10-29 08:54:59 · 1 answers · asked by Solejunkie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been crazy about this guy for a yr now but he lives in another country and I don't see any hope for us at all. I'm trying my best to go out and date other guys where I live but it's just no use...I come home from a date and log in hoping the guy I'm really in love with has logged on or contacted me to tell me he can visit.

This has been going on for a mth now. I'm feeling that I just cant get over him...like its the love of my life...what should I do..I haven't told him about my feelings for fear of being rejected. I'm in a really difficult bind and can't break out of it! I compare every other guy to him and they dont even come close.

2007-10-29 08:54:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best island to have a wedding at?

Not in Oahu please!!!! My HTB and I are planning our honeymoon there (we're island hopping) so we get some, ahem, alone time.

Thanks for your input :)

2007-10-29 08:52:57 · 14 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

My fiance's ex wife is not invited to our wedding, any ideas on how we can tell his 7 y/o daughter that mommy is not invited to the event. She really wants her mom to be there, but mom is a total b*tch to me and doesn't want me around b/c she is jealous of the daughters feelings towards me. HELP!!!! We really want to handle this the right way.

2007-10-29 08:51:55 · 11 answers · asked by 1st_timemama 2 in Weddings

I am friends with this guy, and he's very sweet, but I don't know if I want to date him. He also briefly dated a friend of mine, who is the jealous type. I am worried that she will be upset if I go out with him, since he was he first guy to actually ask her out. This was some months ago, and I am sure they are not dating anymore.

I can't decide if I like him, or if I want to stay just friends. Since guys rarely ask me out, I have very little experience with dating. I got so used to hanging out that I didn't think twice about a friendly hug, but now I feel a bit nervous. What do I do? If I back out I will feel like I led him on.

I feel so silly, after all I am twenty one. But I think that not dating in high school or college much has stunted my social growth a bit, since I am honestly confused.

2007-10-29 08:49:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are in our 50's and both married twice before. We have been engaged 4 years, and together for 5 years. Whenever I wish to talk to him about things that concern us, he responds "now is not the right time" or " I don't want to talk about that right now." The only times we sit and discuss things out honestly is online. He won't talk to me in person face to face about anything. He doesn't show affection much, so don't know if this is a part of it. He likes hiding behind walls of the internet it seems when we talk. I wonder what our marriage is going to be like when we no longer use the net to communicate?
Anyone else in such a relationship where they wont' talk to you in person? We can spend the whole weekend together or take a 2 hour trip somewhere, and not speak hardly at all to one another even though I attempt to make conversation. He will talk to me for hours on line, though. What gives????

2007-10-29 08:49:34 · 10 answers · asked by gailrussell2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about those who complain about how much the dinner costs and they only take u out once a week? The bill came out to $20.

2007-10-29 08:49:20 · 20 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

if my bf cheated on his other gilrfriends b4...does dat mean hell cheat on me too?!?!?!?!?

2007-10-29 08:48:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is in 6th grade and goes to a privet school. She has best friends in the public school and at her school. Most of the people at the middle school who are her friends have boyfriends. Well today she went roller skating and the guy she liked went up to anouther girl with hair shorter then his and asked her if she would couple skate with him. She tried to keep her "cool", but the girl who he asked kept on tellign her about it, when she was right there. My siter is beutiful, the only thing is she is allergic to somthing and it makes her face break out in a rash. Its not that bad or anything. Its goign away, but she thinks thats why she doesn't have a boyfriend. Do you think thats what it is. Here is anouther thing she says the guy flirts with her, but she pretended liek she had no intrest in him, so I guess he backed away. Which is kinda her fault. WEll here is the question. WHY DOESN'T SHE HAVE A BOYFRIEND??? i MEAN JUST TAKE A GUESS. sHE IS VERY NICE AND PRETTY!

2007-10-29 08:47:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and if you want to do things with him it is a PITA , how would you feel.
He never compliments you, never finds time to do things with you but will do it with people from work in a heart beat .

Always changes the things you do and never agrees with you. Leaves the tv on a show that he knows i don't like (even when I ask him nicely) and that is the first time I sat own all day. Then a show comes on that we actually laughed at together and he gets up and leaves and rearranges all my stuff that I had organized without telling to me about it at all.
I am feeling pretty non-existant and wondering ...How would you feel && what would you think???? I neve felt so alone and hated. I mean when he goes in the hottub its' "im going in the hottub, I'm going to bed. Not --You wanta go in the hot tub? When are you going to bed, do you want to go to bed??

2007-10-29 08:45:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was supposed to be in my friend's wedding, but just found out I'm pregnant. I would be about 8 months pregnant. She really wants me to be in it...and says she doesn't care that I'll be a big cow (my words) but I just think I'd ruin the entire look.

Advice please....

2007-10-29 08:42:25 · 40 answers · asked by Mrs.GailJohnsonbae 3 in Weddings

She still talks to this guy that she was with for four years.

2007-10-29 08:40:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm filling out a form for invitations and need to know when the proper day for an RSVP should be. The wedding is December 15.

2007-10-29 08:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by justpeachee22 5 in Weddings

My spouse is an admitting speed user but in his own defense says atleast he provides for his family and he says he doen't spend $ on the drug. His family sees no problem with his habit because he provides for us. my main prob is he goes to work and then when he gets home from his job he either crashes out till it time to get up for work or he leaves to go hang with his friends till midnight or later...barely any family time do we get with him. We have 2 boys ages 7 & 9 . When I confront him about his actions he tells me that he wants to hang with his friends because he's been at work all day. how do I help him see he's hurting us and missing important parts of his childrens lives.....I feel he needs to grow up.

2007-10-29 08:37:24 · 20 answers · asked by tabitha_wrd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it your current husband or someone else? What made him soooo good?

2007-10-29 08:37:04 · 18 answers · asked by Smooth Lyrics II 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to turn 21 in less than a week and I've never gotten a chance to kiss a girl or ask one out. I don't think I'm ugly, but I have trouble talking to girls I like. I don't think it's my looks: I weigh 158, stand 5' 9'' and have fairly muscular arms. I can talk to girls, but I can get nervous, especially around a girl in my college class, that I like. What is the main problem here? Please don't tell me I'm young because there are teenagers who go out with girls and I become upset when I see guys with girls and I never have anyone. Can I talk to a girl without making it seem weird, even if she really doesn't know me? Is the situation hopeless? My motive is not to have sex or take advantage of people, I just want to be happy in a relationship. Here is a picture of me to show you I'm not lying (Facebook profile). Please help, I can't take being alone for much longer.

http://tiu.facebook.com/profile.php?id=119400589

2007-10-29 08:36:20 · 13 answers · asked by --- 3 in Singles & Dating

If your fiance (a guy) broke up with you (the woman), should the woman keep the ring (worth appx. $13,000) and why?

2007-10-29 08:34:58 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that the rich girl (her name is Megan) has alot of friends and not the poor boy (his name is Rolando)? I personally think that Rolando treats his friends alot better and he cares for his friends alot more, plus he does worry about the little things they do and he tries to look out for them, plus he also gets wound up and hyperactive quite easily

As for Megan she is more easygoing, laid back and doesn't worry out of the little things, however she is kind of snobby and stuck up and is a bit big headed, Megan is only friends with the wealthy people and her lifestyle hasn't changed since high school

Rolando has a learning disability and Megan doesn't, personally I do believe that Rolando is a better friend for his friends than Megan ever was but alot of times people snub Rolando off cause of his learning disability and how wound up and hyperactive he gets, of course there are alot of people who doesn't like Megan cause of how snobby and stuck up she is.

2007-10-29 08:33:22 · 9 answers · asked by Fell In Love 7 in Friends

i was in a relationship, my ex bf was controlling and jealous, making false accusations, which gave me emotional stress.
i am now happy , not stressed anymore.

2007-10-29 08:31:01 · 26 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You can say any 1 thing about men you want. The fact could be anything. It could be "Men like to eat" or "Nice men finish last", or whatever. Just say one thing, no explanations!

2007-10-29 08:29:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married women answer only would love to hear your comments

2007-10-29 08:26:16 · 14 answers · asked by bright 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a quite person and likes to listen to people success or frustrations. Most of the time i listen than talking. I just keep on observing and keeping things that i know to myself all the time. I don't like to brag about anything about me. But it seems that whenever I do something or acheive things that my friends were not expecting I can do it seems like they are not happy for me. And it always happens like this. it just like people can't just be happy for my "success". I don't know if they are jealous or undermining my capabilities so when i do something that they dont expect they are not happy for me.. Or maybe im wrong I don't know...

2007-10-29 08:25:29 · 12 answers · asked by sydney 1 in Friends

that after a few years of marriage almost everything about your partner gets boring and the sex gets bad and you almost can't stand them and wonder why you married them in the first place?

2007-10-29 08:25:25 · 33 answers · asked by Esa Chica 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for eight years,since i was in high school.he was an angel while i cheated on him an destroyed his self esteem.after forgiving me for 100th time, we got married,and i got pregnant.theni found out that throughout my pregnancy he had been talking to a girl who he had gone out with for a month before getting back together with me.they both say they were just friends and that he has nevr cheated,but then he showed me a letter fromher saying that" she wished he would stop loving me and break up with me b/c i ruined her relationship with him and she still loves him." he cut all ties with her.do you think he cheated.Since then i am really depressed,severely, and he says that if i dont let it go hes gonna break up with me.he emphazises that he was never unfaithful and would never be.am i overreacting?

2007-10-29 08:23:07 · 18 answers · asked by bittersweet84 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 08:21:35 · 32 answers · asked by shaie 1 in Singles & Dating

dating again???

2007-10-29 08:19:22 · 27 answers · asked by Raven 2 in Singles & Dating

And the reason is why is he think that you aborted your frist child.

2007-10-29 08:19:14 · 17 answers · asked by charm 1 in Marriage & Divorce