Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

well i've made out with this boy i really lyk 10 times in 2 years because of an stupid dare game. and i just wanted to ask you if you made out with a boy 10 times does that mean we like each other,love each other and he also said i was a good kisser and once he said he lyked me..??

2007-10-29 09:44:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 09:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for 5 months, at first he didnt take it seriously, but gradually he had more feelings for me, and he said he loves me after 4 months. we even talked about he moving in with me after another 2 months. but then I found out he set up meetings with another girl from the internet, I broke up with him immediaterly. But I know I love him, and the breaking up feeling is aweful. and he kept telling me the meeting with the girl is only social, and he is commited to our relationship.
I do feel he has some integrity, but I dont know if I should talk to him about the relationship again... I dont want to do anything wrong under the pain of breaking up...

2007-10-29 09:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but he had bad breath and looked unclean. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. the next day i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny and that i should do it with some1 i luv since he has a gf . he said he was sorry/ that he hoped i didn't feel used. thing is i try to talk 2 him like nothing happend, but sometimes he acts distant

2007-10-29 09:37:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 09:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by Homeless in Phoenix 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 09:34:53 · 1 answers · asked by allison b 1 in Singles & Dating

I've tried everything, different email, password, location and to no avail. It will still say "Username taken" .. Can anyone help?

2007-10-29 09:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Singles & Dating

If not, should the spouse who wishes to have intercourse be denied this for his or her entire life?

2007-10-29 09:33:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best freinds has a HUGE crush on this guy who is up a few steps on the socail scale. She has no flirting skills. At all. Like, none. Should she just ask him straight up?

2007-10-29 09:32:39 · 7 answers · asked by Shalalala My oh My 1 in Singles & Dating

I got my cousin a job where I work a few months ago. Her and I are really close and have always have got along. We got into a little tiff that was not work related and now she won't speak to me or look at me. I have sent her an email days ago apologizing and putting the blame on us both but still nothing from her. I wasn't all at fault so I can't keep kissing her a**. However, working together is so uncomfortable now because she avoids me and wont' even look at me. Please help. Thank you.

2007-10-29 09:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Family

I really like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. The other day we had to play seven-up before a field trip and he had to pick and picked me first. Also, during the field trip he was like always near me and even when I went up to the trash he came up after me. Today at lunch I even saw him looking at me across the lunch room. He is really cute and nice. Do you think he likes me?

2007-10-29 09:29:00 · 1 answers · asked by Indie 2 in Singles & Dating

so im planning . for collage to go out of provence. how much money am i going to need to make this move sucsessful i still have quite a few years to collage. im only 15- and getting a job in the near future . i just cant stand to be around her. and im 100 commieted

2007-10-29 09:26:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she calls me Matthew, Maffu, Maffubear, Mateo, Mi Amor, . . . and more but i only really call her helena. ;[

her name is helena sofia von seminati. so far thought of Lena, like laynuh.

2007-10-29 09:22:48 · 47 answers · asked by imhiya 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a sticky situation, though it might not be an uncommon one. So, here it goes..

He and I have known each other for just about a year now, but at first it was only as acquaintances. Over the summer, we became really close as friends. He has a past history of flirting with other people, getting them to fall head over heels for him, and then ignoring them after he has lost interest, which happens between 2 days - 2 weeks, usually. He's never actually been in a relationship by standard conventions, though; it almost seemed to us(meaning other friends and I) that it was just a game for him, to see whom he could get to like him, testing out his skills or something. Recently, starting around 1.5 months ago, he began taking a liking towards me... but I have been more resistant to his flirtations than I guess 'other' girls.

2007-10-29 09:18:32 · 1 answers · asked by Cantaloupe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 09:15:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This for my lost friend Maggie from San Jose. Does anybody know her?
Hey baby, love you so much.

2007-10-29 09:13:17 · 7 answers · asked by andy-mac 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi im delaney im 14 and i have a bf (boyfriend) is it mad to have a bf cause i liek him alot we have been going out for a year and i really liek him but in a way i think my mom is starting not to like me haeving a bf why? and what do you do when they tellu they Love you but u not really sure if u wan tto tell them u love them i feel safe around him and wreid idk why is it bad? i need help with this one Big thing. My mom doesn't no about him and he is a dirffent coler and she would hate that but she doesn't get it i like him alot what shoul di do tell her or dont tell her!? ?

2007-10-29 09:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by delaneybaird13db 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 09:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by KeKe Chanelle-The Man Stealer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure how to do this i'm 19 and have never dated. i'm picky and won't date guys shorter than me, but i live in Louisiana so most guys ARE shorter than 5'10" so idk how to go about finding my mate... i want to date but don't know how to get the ball rolling on that... where i live guys like to ask but the guys i want to ask me out don't... please help me decide what to do!!!!

2007-10-29 09:12:08 · 15 answers · asked by chrissy. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with living with my fiance for over a year. Our relationship has been becoming more volatile. We have been fighting &threatening one another with leaving &hitting one another. Recently it got to the point that I spilled my heart out & he was mad over something I did (I kicked him out of our hotel room after he left me on the street by myself, drank with his friends for two hours, I then physically kicked and pushed him off the bed & told him to leave me alone). As usual he stated he didn't know if he could ever get over this and that he was over me & our relationship. he is a cruel person & will say horribly cruel things to make me "hurt as much as he is" &will yell, cuss & break things around me. After being yelled at & told "I don't care what you do" I moved out to get space. I still love him & feel counseling & healing will help us. but he has not called me. It's been a week. how much time do i give without calling & seeing where we are at? Or is it over?

2007-10-29 09:10:08 · 9 answers · asked by Mikey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I we are living apart for almost 7 month and when I was living with him he was using me because he was pushing me to pay every payment on the house 1/2 . He did not care if I have money or not.By the way everything belongs to him!!! because the house , etc is not on my name and I signed before marriage a Pre- NUPTIAL Agreement. I did because he was telling me that he had a bad experience with his ex and he does not want happend to him again because she got 1/2 of everything and I understood him and I signed not so happy but...
Ok now that we are living apart he said to me 2 days ago that _"I should pay him 1/2 of the mortgage for the 6 month we were living apart". I answer NOOO and I ask why? he answered:- a Lawyer will make you pay because we still married . I do not believe him . What do you think? We are living apart !! I was paying him 1/2 of his mortgage during our marriage but why now???

2007-10-29 09:09:55 · 26 answers · asked by mimi72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 11 years in a relationship with alot of fighting and arguing over everything we have decided that we each need some space to figure out if this relationship is meant to be. Maybe we are happier apart than together. So my question is how do you know when you've had enough space?

2007-10-29 09:08:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

went out w/this guy on and off for about 5 months. A crazy girl who I though was my friend posted some crap about him on-line. The posting was made to look like he was cheating . She didn’t even know the guy personally! I found out the posting (at the time I didn’t know this girl did it) and I told him to “hit the road”. Later I found out this girl did the posting and that all were lies. I don’t know why she did… she’s just crazy. The guy got really upset and though that one of his friends GF’s did it. So he came really hard on them. I told him that I was sorry about the whole thing, and that I force this crazy girl to take down the posting. This was a month ago. Since I feel bad about the whole thing, I would like to know if he made mends w/his friends. He hasn’t call me in a month…so, What would you think of me if I call him and ask if all was fine with the friends?

2007-10-29 09:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has been in jail for 7 yrs now and he will not give me a divorce. Is there any way I can get one with out him?

2007-10-29 09:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by MARY N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So he's blaming me for everything that has happened between us even though he's just as guilty for the way things turned out the way they did. He's ignorant and only see's my wrong doing and not his.
He lied to me over and over again about seeing another girl... I'm no angel myself, i did my wrong in the past, but he's no saint either. Somehow everything's my fault. He's selfish and insincere, doesn't care about my feelings whatsoever.

2007-10-29 09:04:39 · 5 answers · asked by Baby Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out on a first date with this man. He tricked me and brought me to a house and raped me. He then made me love him and told me that I was so different from the rest of the girls he ever met and he was so crazy of me. In the end I had no choice but to marry him. Did I committed a big sin?

I am not stupid becos it is not right for me to marry another man.

2007-10-29 09:04:19 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here it goes....
-my mother-in-law( mil) just retired and has a loads of free time.
- as she has free time she invites her family every weekend on friday night, saturday whole day and sunday whole day
- and as the house is small me and my hubby have no privacy..we both work 5 days a week and r tired and look forward to the weekends to spend together but we can't.
-bottom line we both r tired of her family coming over and disturbing our lives. my father-in-law hates that too.
plus, she just sits there and talks and i have to do all the work..cook, clean, make coffee and entertain them.
WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP THAT?
the problem is that we live in their house because they asked us too.( my hubby is a doctor and we can afford our own house!) but "they will be lonely and they r old", says my sister in law who has to interfere in everything..and when they get old doesn't want to share the responsibilty with us. So this is why just to take care of them we live with them but contribute $3000 eve

2007-10-29 09:03:43 · 13 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

but puts off the whole marriage thing? The subject was braught up the other say and he said...i would get you pregnant right now!"
But my piont was getting married LATER in the future not now.
What did he mean by that comment?

2007-10-29 09:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by CONFUSED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing a married man who I work with for exactly a year now. Two months ago, I decided to end the affair and broke it off with him telling him that I was through and would never be with him since he would not get a divorce. It was very hard because I have to see him every day and he continued to call. We have been going back and forth and dragging this out for over two months now. It's far too painful for everyone involved and doesn't seem like it is going anywhere.

He wants to remain friends until he sells the company in January and is 'able' to get a divorce. I do not think this is best and think that it is just another stall tactic to string me along until he no longer has to see me every day. I know the best thing to do is to end it but it is easier said than done.

I'm looking for some resources where I can find advice and support on how to end and get over the affair but (understandably) there isn't exactly a lot of advice available for the 'other woman'.

2007-10-29 08:57:04 · 22 answers · asked by Intoximicated Kitteh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do i keep the wedding ring until the wedding b/c she got the engagement ring.

2007-10-29 08:56:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings