went out w/this guy on and off for about 5 months. A crazy girl who I though was my friend posted some crap about him on-line. The posting was made to look like he was cheating . She didn’t even know the guy personally! I found out the posting (at the time I didn’t know this girl did it) and I told him to “hit the road”. Later I found out this girl did the posting and that all were lies. I don’t know why she did… she’s just crazy. The guy got really upset and though that one of his friends GF’s did it. So he came really hard on them. I told him that I was sorry about the whole thing, and that I force this crazy girl to take down the posting. This was a month ago. Since I feel bad about the whole thing, I would like to know if he made mends w/his friends. He hasn’t call me in a month…so, What would you think of me if I call him and ask if all was fine with the friends?
2007-10-29 09:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can call to show concern, but you shouldn't expect much more. Don't believe everything you read, especially on a source as unreliable as the Internet. You must consider the source before taking action.
From the sounds of it, you were seeing the guy "on and off", so even if he was "cheating", why would that have been a deal breaker? It doesn't sound like you had an exclusive relationship without gaps for the five months.
When you confronted him, did you ask for his side of the story, or did you go in with your guns blazing to break things off right away? It doesn't sound like you trusted him then and he may wonder if you'd ever trust him now.
I don't see anything coming out of this relationship, but I would call him and apologize. If nothing else, it may ease some of your unresolved tension with this relationship and give you some closure.
2007-10-29 09:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by bx01z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ditched him and didnt believe him when he needed you too. some people just cant handle that or having people around like that. think about it the other way around if you where in his shoes and what you did to him. maybe its better off your not with him maybe a short note or email on how sorry you really are then see what happens.
2007-10-29 09:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nessaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to call him, then you should try. Just think if you never call him then you will never know anything. Obviousely don't overdo it. Call once, leave a message if he doesnt answer and if he doesnt respond, dont call back. That way you wont have to live with the what if's.
2007-10-29 09:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been a month, let the drama be over. Don't bother calling out of guilt.
2007-10-29 09:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called you, he doesn't want to talk to you. Let it go and move on. Stop inventing pathetic excuses to contact him.
2007-10-29 09:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to know how his friends reacted. Let it go.
2007-10-29 09:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋