Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

What is an alternative?

2007-10-29 21:46:04 · 12 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Weddings

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2007-10-29 21:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So many women I meet, who are interested in me on some level and who would go out with me, say that they are already dating someone... but they specify "but its not exclusive yet"... as though that should be well enough prompting for me to ask them out and be satisfied.

I wont share a woman. I know that sex isnt a component to the issue here... just dating.

Either youre committed or youre not. If youre the type not to commit, why would I want you? If youre the type to cheat on whoever youre currently with for me, why would I want you?

I hold women (and myself) to higher expectations.

I find most women are never single... they bounce from one man to another in desperation to be "with someone", either as a superficial social "criteria" or for their own measure of self-worth. Women cant be content to just be single... long enough for the right man to come along.

2007-10-29 21:43:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf has been with 16 men compared to my 7. I feel a little strange about that. Am I being overreactive? Is 7 just too little to think about settling down? Is 16 too many for a 30 yr old woman to be with? Thoughts?

2007-10-29 21:34:25 · 18 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for like 4 days.. Yesterday I told him through on text message that I decide not to continuting dating with him. Because I dont feel "chemistry" between me and him. And told him that we should be friend, And he asked me why I changed my mind. He was very upset because I told him week ago that Im ready for relationship and everything.. But I realized that Im not ready cause I have alot of things coming up later in my life. And plus Im too selfish with myself because I will spend my time thinking about myself and my future than focusing on my relationship and make my bf happy. I feel that its not my time to be in serious relationship. He got mad at me. It doesnt affect me at all. Am I doing right thing to tell him truth than lying to prevent from hurting his feeling?? I guess I already did but how to make him stop to be so obession with me?How can I make him stop calling me so many times and sending me on myspace???

2007-10-29 21:34:09 · 17 answers · asked by Sakae 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I believe it when he says that he still loves me. The only bad thing is he is aggressive in bed. I don't like it, but I accept it, because that's who he is and the sex is fantastic.

2007-10-29 21:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have recently had a baby and now we have her mother staying with us. We asked her to stay assuming she would stay a few days and help with household chores now that I am back at work. So far she's been with us over a week and plans to stay for two and she hasn't lifted a finger to help. In fact she's been acting like she's on holiday and treating the house like a hotel. My wife and I are sick of her but we are both too polite to tell her to leave. Any ideas on how to get her to go?

2007-10-29 21:31:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just finished reformatting my computer and now that I am online, I noticed the time in the task bar jumped ahead one hour. It is set for the Eastern time zone, and that is correct for where I am. So, anyway, I got to thinking...what is wrong? The time went AHEAD one hour on here and I know we FALL back an hour at this time of year. As you can see, I am all confused now as to what has happened. Could someone tell me please what time is it in the Eastern time zone? Were we suppose to set our clocks back already? Why is it that the time on this computer, which is set for EST, says 5:15 AM? The clocks with batteries are all 4:15 AM. What on earth?!? This is freaking me out, people. Someone help me please...I have to get my children up for school soon and cannot be late. Thankyou so much for your help...sincerely.

2007-10-29 21:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I still love him we have been seeing alot of each other. But he is with this pig in nice turms that he hates he still love me and there is alot on this to like two kids what should i do

2007-10-29 21:21:01 · 16 answers · asked by kaylee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and we're having sex. He wants me to show him my boobs, but I refuse, and have been refusing for a month now. I want to show him my boobs, but when it comes right down to it, I can't! I somehow won't let myself no matter how much I want to! I'm too self conscious! One of the reason I'm SO self conscious is because I know he likes big boobs and I definitely do NOT have big boobs. I even told him that, and that he had seen SO MANY other peoples boobs [porn, ehh], so what was the point in seeing mine? They're all better anyway. and he said that it was because they were MY boobs so they were special. Is that true? Do guys really feel that way? Do they not care when it really comes down to it? I'm just really self conscious. I don't want to be! How can I get down to just showing him!?

2007-10-29 21:18:48 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea.dee 2 in Singles & Dating

so strange my husband cheated we are getting divorce ,the thing is he has moved in with his girlfeind calling her his fiancee.he hurt me so badly,but i am moving on.our son adores him and he is so affected by his father not showing up,he calles his father and begs him to pck him up but my ex tells him he is so busy he does not even call the littel kid(5 years)??yes i envy him he has everything his soon to be bride adores him ,she gives him money and she will make him a new business..i ve known that she is like a doormate,she never complains even if he treats her like s++++ and my son adores him even when he is not arround,moved with her to a bigger house ,i think she paid the money but it is his house,ALL THE THINGS ARE TURNING IN HIS BENEFIT WHILE i work so hard in my job that surely satisfy my need and my sin s, we have small house and I AM LONELY AND AM NOT ABLE TO TRUST ANYONE

2007-10-29 21:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by mony y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 21:14:19 · 12 answers · asked by lakshmi n 1 in Singles & Dating

Im bored lol...so yeah, guys, if you could choose girl A or girl B JUST solely on their looks, and not know their personalities...who would you choose?

girl a: ROCKIN body, slender, great chest, nice curves...nice skin...but when it comes to her face she is a TOTAL butterface...bushy eyebrows, ********, horriffic acne, witches nose...

girl b: so so body, not fat, not in shape...medium build with some flaws. small chest, mabye a tiny tummy. but when it comes to her face, GORGEOUS eyes, long lashes, lovely lips, great cheekbones, just beautiful facial structure....

which would you choose?

2007-10-29 21:12:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We work different shifts so we can switch babysitting (by his choice because he wants a lot of material things), and because his mother, who has babysat her entire adult life decided she would only help her daughters out with babysitting. It is expensive, when we priced it, it would have been over $1000 a month (2 kids), but what's the point in being married when we're really not?? We see each other in passing & when we are home together, he's on the computer or watching TV. We've NEVER had a meal together as a family at the dinner table. I've voiced my concerns that I don't feel like it's a marriage, nothing changes. Should I just leave?? He refuses to go to counseling, by the way.

2007-10-29 21:08:48 · 13 answers · asked by mom of 2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i havnt had a boyfriend since year 7 i am in yr 8 and every1 around me seems 2 hav 1 last year i went out wiv a guy 4 about 2 months but he had a huge giant mole on his face and he wouldnt kiss me!!! do boys do that wen they think your uglt? or am i jus bein insicure?

2007-10-29 21:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long do you think someone should wait?

2007-10-29 21:05:26 · 13 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

My adult daughter is grown and moved away, she has two new babies, but our relationship is so strained we cant even speak! (theres alot of history there) Id like to know what to say to people (or not say) especially when im just meeting them. Im trying to get my own life and date for the first time in years, but i just dont know how to explain the situation. I dont want to lie but i dont want to get into it at all. Any suggestions?

2007-10-29 21:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by Jaden 1 in Singles & Dating

I know shy girls have emotions but its hidden compared to some outgoing girls who try to find a way to talk to the guys they like. DO shy girls stare at their crush? Do they try to avoid their crush because they are shy or scared they will do something embarrassing?

I mean theres this girl in my class, she sits in the same spot everyday and then one day I just sat in the seat right next to her and she moves all the way to the back. Sometimes I catch her staring at me. I've never wronged her before nor showed signs of stupidity. I see her around campus sometimes alone and she looks at me as I pass by. I can't tell why she is reacting like this around me.

Thanks for reading.

2007-10-29 21:02:48 · 3 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

I witnessed this guy telling his friend "I want to get with your wife". He sounded joking, but, thinking back, I remember he does come around his wife and try to get her attentions time to time. His friend was just laughing about it, but, later on he seemed little concerned. How do you take it if someone you know joke about your girl friend / wife in this way?

2007-10-29 21:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in an intimate setting of course...would you automatically notice all her flaws? Or do most guys not even notice at that moment??????Im very self concious about my body..im 5'3 and wight 110..I just always worry about stupid little things like...did i shave all the way...what if my legs are just a bit stubby...ect ect...

2007-10-29 21:01:01 · 4 answers · asked by CONFUSED 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends and i were playing football yesterday and i kept on tackleing teveryone on the other team that my friend was on. now because i kept tackleing him and everyone else hes mad and wants to knock me out tomorrow. i know he wants to knock me out cause he posted it on myspace and i sent him like 3 messages tellin him i dont want to fight and he wont answer. so should i fight him tomorrow if he throws the first punch

2007-10-29 20:59:11 · 12 answers · asked by half_lifeismylife 1 in Friends

Me and this girl have been talking on IM for a couple years and we've been trying to hang out these past years but never had the time. We only live 1 1/2 away. We have soo much in common and we have become like life long friends just by getting to know eachother by talking. Anyway, she is coming to town in couple weeks because she will be in a a choral concert. I am going to see her perform and then we are going to hang out after that. I was wondering if I should wear nice jeans and a button down shirt? Would flowers be nessurary? if so what kinds you think? I do want to make a good first impresstion! We do seem to like each other a lot as friends right now!

2007-10-29 20:57:35 · 18 answers · asked by ee 1 in Friends

2007-10-29 20:56:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is very arregunt and he never cares about me. He wants always me to work. Even when i sitdown he doesnot prefer. He didint even bought a dress for me in the past 12 years. It is very difficult to tackle him. What can i do?

2007-10-29 20:56:23 · 15 answers · asked by kavi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad's mother's side hates me and my mother. They are quasi-wealthy people. They're nuts basically insane from money. Now My grandmother spent my dad's inheritance money and will not pay it back. So that left my mom dad sister and me without a lot of money when I was growing up. My mom cleaned apartments for a while, my dad re enlisted in the army and raised us to be good honest people the opposite of his family. My dad's dad died in Vietnam and his mother became a real drinker. I hate my stepgrandfather. Ok another thing is my grand father and his brother married into the same family my great uncle divorced my great aunt because she's EVIL. \
I want nothing to do with my father's mother's side at all. They are very cruel people. They didn't care when my grandfather died and my cousins are really into drugs & alcohol. My sister & I are not. How do I do it?

2007-10-29 20:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am in a relationship with a married man with so many girlfriends, 9 to mention, all are active relationship... im the 10th woman so far. he said he loved me truly compared to the 9. im confused because i feel he is also playing with my feelings. why cant he stop his relationship with the rest? does he really loves me? or im just one of his "women". i do loved this man. i have difficulty disengaging with him.

2007-10-29 20:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by magayon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-29 20:41:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im an adult who lives at home for finaical reasons. and when my guy comes to visit me we hang out in my room a few times we have had sex in there. my parents know they said it was okay to do it just dont tell them about it.
but it makes my guy nervous to do it when my family is home.

how can i tell him to chill out about this?

we dont have money to get a motel and he dont have his own place either.

so what would you do?

2007-10-29 20:39:09 · 23 answers · asked by Babygirl20 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have been friends for a little while, and we have started to be very flirty with eachother..the other night..he called me "mamasita" ..and winked at me..what does that mean ?

2007-10-29 20:29:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok.

So, lately I've been talking to this girl. She's not like girls I'd normally go after...she's more...wild, I guess. Not slutty, wild. It's kinda hard to describe, maybe I'm just a prude. But that's besides the point.

We'll talk on the phone for a little bit, she'll say stuff like "She wishes she was in my arms" and how "I'm the light at the end of her tunnel". She's one of those MySpace scenesters too, so she makes cryptic blogs about me too.

But see, the problem is her saying she'll do stuff and she doesn't do it. She'll say she'll get on AIM, but she won't. She'll say she'll call...but she doesn't. Now this isn't like this 100% of the time, but enough to get my attention. When we do talk on the phone, we have a good time and this is progressively getting better.

So now...I'm at a fork in the road.

Do I go against my nature and play hard to get back or was she just taught to make the guy come to her and I should be calling her?

2007-10-29 20:28:38 · 5 answers · asked by Hey you...stop that ! 1 in Singles & Dating