Well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and we're having sex. He wants me to show him my boobs, but I refuse, and have been refusing for a month now. I want to show him my boobs, but when it comes right down to it, I can't! I somehow won't let myself no matter how much I want to! I'm too self conscious! One of the reason I'm SO self conscious is because I know he likes big boobs and I definitely do NOT have big boobs. I even told him that, and that he had seen SO MANY other peoples boobs [porn, ehh], so what was the point in seeing mine? They're all better anyway. and he said that it was because they were MY boobs so they were special. Is that true? Do guys really feel that way? Do they not care when it really comes down to it? I'm just really self conscious. I don't want to be! How can I get down to just showing him!?
2007-10-29 21:18:48 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea.dee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just relax.. you're his girlfriend, that means he chose u coz he wants u... he wants u for whoever u are.. it's not the size of the boobs, it's who's boobs he's lookin at, and he wants yours.. so be confident. once you've shown him, you'll feel alot comfortable later on
2007-10-29 21:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are your boobs small?
Maybe that's why you are reluctant about showing them to him.
How do you both have sex without getting stark naked?
If he really is in love with you, he won't care nuts about the size of your boobs. Anyways, he might even want to suck it to make the sex more fun.
Good luck!!!
2007-10-30 04:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him your boobs. My God, you're already having sex. Do you do it with your clothes on? If he really cares for you then the size of your breasts shouldn't matter to him. In fact, you've already hinted that it's not important to him. He wants to see YOUR boobs, not some fantasy woman's silicone wonders. Show him your boobs.
2007-10-30 04:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
I would like to make one suggestion.
If you don't want to show your boy friend your body then he can't force you.
If your bf has interest in bigger body size then you can tell him your too shy or you just don't want to.
You may be special to your bf as a friend or girl friend but that doesn't mean he can ask you to do as he wants, you have the right to control your choices for your body.
If you want to show him your body its your call but thats your choice as i wrote above.
Do let me know if i helped out.
Take care.
furqani@yahoo.com
2007-10-30 04:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Furqan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 'having sex' and he hasn't seen your boobs??????!!!!!!!!
What sort of sex do you have???
I would imagine it is better to show someone your boobs than have sex....if you had to make a choice...and all he has to do is take you to a nude or topless beach.
I think you should have a serious talk with your mother...or a teacher or social worker...
2007-10-30 04:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Maggi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be self-conscious about your chest baby.
I saw a girl today who was as flat as an ironing board
but she had a super-cute face and I'd be VERY happy
if she was my girl!
2007-10-30 04:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off slow... give him a peek in a dimly lit room.. perhaps while having sex. As time goes by you can show more & more. Just tell him to be greatful for now & stop talking about it. How would he feel if you asked him to see his butthole?
2007-10-30 04:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no! he is just using you! wake up girl... i know this because i did what your boyfriend did to you by asking you to show your boobs... but i have never experienced having sex before... well, after i asked my girl to show her boobs to me, she went crazy in front of me and then we fought and we broke up... then i realized that i was not respecting my girl...
2007-10-30 04:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by kivier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh you have sex, but don't show your boobs? my ex girl had boobs the size of a penny... i didn't care at all.
2007-10-30 04:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by シ Pete 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your having sex and he hasnt seen your boobs??????
what ?
he wants to seee yours cause your his girlfriend
to a guy boobs are boobs
no matter what size
he likes them now...........and even more after you show him !
2007-10-30 04:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋