Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

Or do you think one is more or less important than the other?

2007-10-29 16:22:11 · 14 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 16:21:50 · 3 answers · asked by that moody chick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-29 16:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every movie/show I want to watch, he thinks is stupid & gets mad. It is always what he wants to watch. The only time I get to watch what I want is when he goes to bed or is at work. The same goes for the radio. Whether we are in his car or mine, he controls the radio. I am so tired of it. All he wants to do is listen to 80's music. I like the 80's too but enough is enough. I like listening to the newer stuff too. If I manage to turn it to my station, he will slap my hand away or just get mad & turn off the radio. I love my husband, but this is so childish and its getting to the point that I just want to smack him. Please advise how I should handle this situation.

2007-10-29 16:17:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom and dad never really got married but they still had to get a divorce because they lived together for more than 6 months and supposedly my dad has custody of me but my dad has nothing to do with me what so ever and im trying to get married but im not sure who can sign for me if it can be either one of my parents or who my mom already said if she was able to she would sign for me...i would really like to know what i would have to do and places i can go for more information?????

2007-10-29 16:15:55 · 8 answers · asked by Laina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Grateful for thoughts, comments, ideas and criticism of this short piece I have written about friendship, bereavement and hope. I wrote it recently and it deals with what happened when my best friend died of Aids in 1992.
Here is the direct link to my short piece:
http://meanderingtrevor.blogspot.com/2006/08/in-his-waking-life-he-felt-steve-hadnt.html

2007-10-29 16:14:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated a man about 12 years ago who I fell head over hills in love with. We were together for about 7 years...off and on. The circumstances were never right for us to get married or to stay together for an extended period of time. But, when I was with him it was the best time of my life. About 5 years ago, I finally tried to call it quits for good. I still loved him, but I knew it would never go anywhere. I met someone else and we got married, but I still have a place in my heart for this other man. He started calling me occassionally about 2 years ago. We haven't seen each other or been together, but when we talk, he tells me that he misses me and wishes we were still together. I would never cheat on my husband, but it breaks my heart a little more each time I talk to him. I know I should change my number or not answer when he calls, but I guess deep down, I miss him too. I don't think I ever got over him. How do I get him out of my heart and mind and focus my energy on my husband?

2007-10-29 16:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I came to TX to spend time with my family. My family is old or always working. I have one "friend" who I counted on to hang out with while I was here; to share my ups and downs with and get fresh air when I need it with. Well, the entire week that I've been here, I've been sick. She's been offering things to me and she was upset that I wasn't accepting her offers, I tried to talk to her. She then told me that we shouldn't be friends because she always hurts people and she feels that I am pushing her away and I tried to convince her that I really want to be friends with her. I've been in bed sick for a week and when I first came down with this sickness, I went out and drank with her WHILE I WAS SICK! This isn't the first time she is doing this. She upsets me every time she says we shouldn't be friends. I cry and cry. I told her that I can't take it any more and I don't deserve to be treated that way. I am tired of trying to convince her to be my friend. Other than that, I have been kind

2007-10-29 16:11:27 · 2 answers · asked by Lissa 1 in Friends

2007-10-29 16:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by markymark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First of all this is completly true dont think this is a joke, honest answers please:

Ok I have been living with my gf for about two years now and we are a very open couple. A few days ago she and her sister sat me down and asked me to have sex with her sister... i know that most people wont believe this but its true.... i love her sister very much and i understand her reasons ( she wants to have sex, but feels that a random guy will make her feel unpure - she is very spritual) . they haven't done this before but they beg me 2 understand them and help them .... should i feel wierd... has anyone done anything similar or would you do such a thing...serious answers please ... i am really unsure of what to do..?

2007-10-29 16:05:55 · 98 answers · asked by Adrian D 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is going to Tickle Torture me sometime soon, and i'm super ticklish, and I want it to be living tickle hell. I have some questions, to give her the results.

1. How long should she tickle (i think 1.5 hours min.)
2. Are there any funny outfits I should wear (I'm a guy)
3. Are there any household items that help increase tickleness
4. How long should the air breaks be?
5. Should I wear an adult diaper to increase embaressment?

That's it. Thanks for your help.

2007-10-29 16:03:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girlfriend ( right now ex) has bi polar, shes done this to me before.. she said a week ago that she loves me very much and made me promise to always be by her side. Now shes saying she doesnt love me anymore. She told my friend she feels nothing. We've been on and off for three years and i love her very very much. She completely ignored me for two days straight, and it was killing me. Now today she sent me a message telling me she has Pneumonia and I asked her if she was going to be ok and she said yes i will be fine im taking pills for it. I told her that i missed her and also that i had a present for her ( i bought it before she started to behave this way) she told me to keep it, and i said why are you acting this way what about what we have, she said I just wanted to tell you i was sick, now **** off we have nothing. then she stopped talking to me again. I know she loves me, is it her bi polar. What do i do.. im thinking of leaving the state for a while..

2007-10-29 16:03:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so not to sound really dumb, but my boyfriend is a fairly good looking guy and has a really great personality, we've been together six months and pretty much fell in love on the first date.
here's my problem...for the last month or so i haven't had a job, which is okay with him, that just meant he hard to work a little bit more. At first we were okay, then our relationship got tense and we broke up (were still living together and sleeping together). The other night we had a disagreement (nothing bad) and i asked him if our current sitation was "annoying" him, his response was no. That friday and saturday night he lied to me about have to work til 2 in the morning, which i beleived cause he has NEVER lied to me before. I found out early sunday morning that it was all a lie. Now (out of supposedly nowhere) he has a bunch of new friends and parties almost every night.he keeps saying he was tricked into to promising to go out. What do i need to do to get my point across that i'm ok?

2007-10-29 16:02:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in high school sophomore
my friend is in love with this senior, football player, very tall, handsome, in a manly sorta way.

she doesn't even know his name, she wants to know if she has a gf. what should we do , iwanna help her.. .

tnx!

2007-10-29 16:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by kate_09 2 in Singles & Dating

As usually i've gotten myself into a situation i'm not really sure how to get out of. and I have to come up with an answer by wednesday. I've been talking to this guy for about 3 weeks and Saturday he started telling me that he loved me and he wanted to get married and I thought he was just playin around but he was serious. He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I was speechless I didn't no what to say and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I said ok. And thats when I made a huge mistake. I'm not ready to get married and I don't want to marry him. I don't even want a relationship with him. The next time I see him will be wednesday and I don't no what to say, i'm afraid of his reaction. He's someone I no not too make upset. the last 2 times i was with him he started acting different. I made a mistake and I can't go back. I thought about just not showing up too meet him, and just avoid him. What do I do?

2007-10-29 16:00:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if he said sorry, and that he was just angry and didnt mean it.

2007-10-29 15:59:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm suppose to get 14 days notice in writing but didn't. Would this be contempt of court as well as kidnapping?

2007-10-29 15:59:53 · 11 answers · asked by flashtl11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well i am 16 and a junior in high school and recently I bought my own macbook laptop from working. On Saturday night though i went to a party that got busted...so i got a minor for being under the influence of maijuana and alcohol they calle dmy dad who showed pissed when we got home he grounded me for 1 week took my cell phone whooped my *** and took away the laptop that is 100% mine... Do you think this punishment is fair?

2007-10-29 15:59:39 · 33 answers · asked by BEN 1 in Family

okay my new husband of only 5 months told me just a few days ago he was unhappy and that he did not know what he wanted to do he moved out only to move in with his girlfriend

2007-10-29 15:56:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we'll be starting college next fall. I know its a long way off but im just curious what people's opinions are... especially people who have experience with it. We love each other so much and even though im young I really want to give this relationship all i've got... but I have a hard time trusting guys.

Can couples stay together after highschool into college??

2007-10-29 15:54:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im talking about Mia ......Jacks daughter.... i think she is so hot and has the most amazing body..... anyone else think the same...?

2007-10-29 15:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian D 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are working very hard to get out of debt. We only have school loans and a home loan. We pay off our credit card every month and pay extra towards the college loans. I would like to try for a baby. I have recently been diagnosed with an issue that may mean I am infertile. So I would like to try now just to try naturally first.
My husband is thinking about it and he wants kids, but I think he is afraid of not having all of our financial ducks in a row, while I am afraid that waiting may mean no baby. So what should we do? I am just asking for your opinion I will definatley talk more indepth to my husband. Thanks so much

2007-10-29 15:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's ex-wife won't return his military awards and war memorbilia..she is doing it to hurt him and to maintain a contection to him, one last control I guess...but these items weren't listed in the divorce cause he assumed he could just have them but now she won't give them back, it's been a year of her saying "yeah come get them" and then she won't open the door and pretends he's there without permission (cause he won't go alone)...anyway we asked the lawyer and she said we could sue but only for the dollar worth, we want the actual awards cause they mean a lot to him....I mean these are things he earned while fighting in Operation Iraqi Freedom..does anyone know who we could get the actual items back?

2007-10-29 15:50:58 · 4 answers · asked by amber_91w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know about laws in florida.I am newly wed. and my husband owe a lots of money in the bank.He owes almost haft of the value of his house.
He wants me to pay everything the bills inside the house.which he own before i marry him.
I feel not confortable because.I knew if something happen.I will get nothing from him.If ever he decide to divorce me.I am just nervous in the future.I loved my husband but sometimes people changes.
I dont trust my mother inlaw who live with us also.I am paying the water pump who just blow up and new aircon.
i dont mind helping my husband.I am just ashame myself questioning to him about whats my right because we are not married for long time.
I want to help him but i have also to look after myself.He owe like 130,000 dollars.But he has no morgages he do not like to have equity account or mortages.His also scared to the bank will become part of it.
please help me to clear up my mind.I loved him but i have to watch out my future.. sounds selfish.?

2007-10-29 15:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by Arlene A. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i asked to use my mom's cell she gave it too me i needed to text my friend so i look on the outbox and inbox.. And there it was all the stuff i needed to know if she was really cheating on my dad..And i was right. It's with our ex-neighbor im sure this has been going on for years because before we moved to a town 5 miles away we would always go over there..she has to be stupid im 12 and i started noticing 2 years ago..I have cursed out this guys so many times its unbelievable.. Should i go to the counselor bc im sure she is cheating on my dad..Im in the 7th grade I already have enough problems jeez mom! I swear! What do I do..Im going to cry.I love my parents not so much my mom right now but yeah..Please tell me what to do..Im running out of time..Im going to die.

2007-10-29 15:49:15 · 14 answers · asked by u_wish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hes sweet sexy and he tripped on lsd for five days where i havent heard from in tell today he says he loves me and we have tripped together

2007-10-29 15:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on my school bus no one sits next to me....
i'm too quiet
it makes me sad, i wish someone wanted to sit next to me
i'm just awkward though
it really hurts when ur all alone
what do i do?
i know it's only a bus but i take these things to heart....and im srry im too scared to talk to anyone, i usually end up looking more weird... so dont suggest that

2007-10-29 15:45:39 · 18 answers · asked by =] 1 in Friends

hes a sophmore and im a 7th grader and he aparently really likes me and he put his arm around me during a movie but is it a bad thing 4 a 13year old and a 16yearold 2 go out/like each other and i want 2 no ur guyses limit of dating thx 4 answering

2007-10-29 15:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 15:43:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im geeting problem plz help me out of it lookin i wanna know name of a girl in my collage she is from other group and i i wanna speak with her what shall i speak

2007-10-29 15:42:56 · 22 answers · asked by shashank c 1 in Singles & Dating