hes a sophmore and im a 7th grader and he aparently really likes me and he put his arm around me during a movie but is it a bad thing 4 a 13year old and a 16yearold 2 go out/like each other and i want 2 no ur guyses limit of dating thx 4 answering
2007-10-29 15:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
16 is very much different than 13. The older you get , The more sophisticated and knowledgeable you become. There is a huge difference between these ages and you are not as likely to be able to handle yourself with a guy that age.
2007-10-29 16:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 13, you're not old enough to make any kind of mature decisions like that. At 16, he's getting close to being an adult. He would be taking advantage of a child pretty much. That's not an insult to you, it's just a basic fact about youth.
In my opinion, no one has any right to get into a relationship until they're ready to be married. Otherwise, this dating/breakup scene is just practicing for divorce.
I'm 30, I know I'm not emotionally ready, so I haven't dated anyone. I'm enjoying the freedom of being single. I don't have anyone tying me down, if I want to up and move to Africa, I can do it. Enjoy being single, get to know yourself, examine your life, prepare yourself to be a good wife some day. You need to be happy with yourself, or a man will never make you happy.
2007-10-29 22:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it may be a little to old. hes in highschool and ur still in middle school! its kinda weird. i mean i really like this seventh grader (im in eighth) but i'm afraid to tell him because hes younger than me. But it also depends on ur parents , are they allowing u to datee?. u should go out /w someone in the range 6-9th grade range. it would seem a 10th grader could find someone in the range of this age not a seventh grader. it just seems hes old enough to take advantage of u . u guys are at two completly different places in ur lives right now. i would only date 8 -10 garders MAYBE seventh (i think i'm gonna make an exception ;] ) .... hope i helped :]]
2007-10-30 16:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk im 13 and went out with a almost 16 year old. but idk it seems a little to old, we broke up caz there jerks and not on our lvl, and also u know what high school is a diffrent world than middle and he can do things behind ur back without u knowing.
2007-10-29 22:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's weird and he's too old he will be nothing but trouble.
2007-10-29 22:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋