is she testing me?

Question

my girlfriend ( right now ex) has bi polar, shes done this to me before.. she said a week ago that she loves me very much and made me promise to always be by her side. Now shes saying she doesnt love me anymore. She told my friend she feels nothing. We've been on and off for three years and i love her very very much. She completely ignored me for two days straight, and it was killing me. Now today she sent me a message telling me she has Pneumonia and I asked her if she was going to be ok and she said yes i will be fine im taking pills for it. I told her that i missed her and also that i had a present for her ( i bought it before she started to behave this way) she told me to keep it, and i said why are you acting this way what about what we have, she said I just wanted to tell you i was sick, now **** off we have nothing. then she stopped talking to me again. I know she loves me, is it her bi polar. What do i do.. im thinking of leaving the state for a while..

She told my friend who lives in another state maybe i should go there because she doesnt want to see me anymore. I was thinking of going there to give her taste of her own medicine in hopes she'll realize what shes doing and come back to her senses... i dont know i love her and wish shed stop being this way. I admit since this has happened i have been txting her phone far too much almost on the obssessive side and i know that needs to stop but i love her and thats how nuts its making me. What should i do? I do want her back

Answer 1

Yea you said in the additional, that you both don't and do love her, I feel your pain. But lets be competelly rational here, you need to grasp something, or give up. Bi-polar has CAUSE'S the reason's I say this is because it means there some very deep tramtic history there, or we have a person thats been WAY to spoiled in the wrong direction. What this means for you? YOU BETTER LOVE HER HARD TO THE F'IN CORE, or run, ruuuunnnnn!!!!! No doubt buddy, because what she needs is alot of things, most of all is a man that isn't going to give up, typical of bi-polar disorders is not saying the truth, not knowing your own motives, and being general confused and extremely depressed. Think of it like this, she'll see a goal (mania, is the opposite of the depression) and obsesse about as a cure for what's truly tearing her apart, that fails..... depression, and that goes on till she finds something else. Apparently the mania that was exciting her towards you, failed, something stopped here, here feelings of good hopes with you fall flat. Now its your job to take control and give her some stablities with those hopes, are go..... simple as that. Don't get all confused about that love, I know sooooo many different feelings, but time well heal it, if you learn from this if not that, fight for her, ether way take it hard-2-the-core......