okay, so not to sound really dumb, but my boyfriend is a fairly good looking guy and has a really great personality, we've been together six months and pretty much fell in love on the first date.
here's my problem...for the last month or so i haven't had a job, which is okay with him, that just meant he hard to work a little bit more. At first we were okay, then our relationship got tense and we broke up (were still living together and sleeping together). The other night we had a disagreement (nothing bad) and i asked him if our current sitation was "annoying" him, his response was no. That friday and saturday night he lied to me about have to work til 2 in the morning, which i beleived cause he has NEVER lied to me before. I found out early sunday morning that it was all a lie. Now (out of supposedly nowhere) he has a bunch of new friends and parties almost every night.he keeps saying he was tricked into to promising to go out. What do i need to do to get my point across that i'm ok?
2007-10-29 16:02:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is he just bull-shitting me?
he claims to still love me and wants us to get married and have kids.
is he just saying that so i'll stick around?
2007-10-29 16:19:11 · update #1
WHOA, you say you broke up, but you still live and sleep together? Ever hear the joke about a duck (if it looks like a duck.......)? Anyway, if you broke up, he can lie to you all he wants, you have broke up. Perhaps it is time to move back to mama if you can; he's lost respect for you as a person, but you still are a low-cost "lay".
2007-10-29 16:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you barely knew each other, and you moved in together? BIG mistake! sorry but from a man's point of view, you need to move out asap cause things will only get worse. honeymoon is over. if you were together maybe 2 years it would be different.
2007-10-29 23:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by ced562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋