Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

LOL is that normal? I can look at my hubby and talk to him about other things and act like I didn't just have sex ? I mean we lay and cuddle for a little while but get up (if it's daytime sex) and go about our day!

2007-10-29 20:20:53 · 16 answers · asked by sara 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mum and dad are split up i live with my mum and my mum says i can get my airs peirced but my dad says no im 13

2007-10-29 20:17:29 · 11 answers · asked by tammy A 1 in Family

How can I find out who it is? I think it's someone at work, but no one seems to like me like that. I'm friends with most of my co-workers. What are some signs in could look out for?

2007-10-29 20:16:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 20:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its nothing sexual..so thats what im wondering, why?
she puts them inside her shorts, skirt ect. and kinda just sits her hands on her upper thigh. she also grabs her bum cheeks a lot. she walks around home grabbing at her bum inside her pants.. why does she do this?

2007-10-29 20:10:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she wants me to go to salon with her and get facial , pedicure and manicure

should i do it

and any idea why does she want it , do other girls do the same

2007-10-29 20:07:52 · 26 answers · asked by ajay 1 in Singles & Dating

Marriages seem to be ending before they really begin.

2007-10-29 20:04:53 · 23 answers · asked by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you say 'turn left' 'turn right' 'dont go so fast' ' slow down for heavens sake' 'am carsick with your driving' 'theres a parking slot' 'you missed the turn' 'we shall never make it at this speed'.......give me more.......!!!

2007-10-29 20:03:17 · 16 answers · asked by Kisses an Wishes 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance is a full time community college teacher who is starting business as a psychologist and has spent any and all free time the last 2.5 years studying for his license which he passed. He has a daughter whom he dotes on every other week, buying her everything and taking her anywhere her heart desires, as well as lets her have a friend with her 24/7 except on most school nights. His ex-wife is very rude. He has a mother who is elderly and incapacitated, who he must help on a regular basis and a dog that is untrained and barks so much he can never leave him. He has a house that has been under repair the last 6 years and not finished, and has used his house for an atm so there is no equity. He has credit card debt and a brand new car with huge payments. He does not help me at my house at all, is basically too tired, and wants to be pampered. I have a big, new house, paid for everything, don't work, one son full time, (dad died), do I need this?

2007-10-29 20:03:01 · 13 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

something smells rotten in the moral state of yahoo answers...Can anyone explain this to me?
I've read quite a few questions by women looking for guidance, because they have discovered their husbands penchant for regularly surfing for porn online. These are ALMOST UNIVERSALLY met with such answers as "This is perfectly normal and healthy" "All men do it, and don't you dare try to take your husbands porn away" "Men are visual creatures" etc, etc. These answerers generally justify pornography on the basis that there is no physical contact; and therefore is not considered to be a form of infidelity.
Yet I have also come across a few questions from women, who have caught their husbands engaging in some form of cybersex (ie: chatrooms, virtual sex, recieving emails from women containing naked pictures of them...etc) This time however, almost everyone answering is absolutely appalled and is oh-so-quick to call this type of behavior cheating, and entirely unacceptable...

2007-10-29 19:57:05 · 10 answers · asked by nene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This has happened numerous times. Is it my fault?

2007-10-29 19:54:13 · 25 answers · asked by DjDownload 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 19:54:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you give me specific situations for which you fought over money to the point that you filed for divorce?

What profession are you both in?
How long did you date prior to marriage?
How old were you when you first got married?
Was this your first marriage?
How long have you been married?
Were you happily married?

Please answer title question + the 6 questions. Please be thorough with at least several sentences. Please do not post "we are still married" because the question specifically asks for divorcees that seperated over money matters.

Please share a story. Use detail freely. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for your cooperation.

2007-10-29 19:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the longest time everyone in my family (including my extended family) knew what an awful man my father was (can't say whether he still is, as he's been out of the picture for years now). I spent many years defending him, right up until the end of high school when I started to come out of my 'fantasy' world so to speak. I watched my mom struggle, as a single mother of three with no help. I resented her for so long; what an absolutely horrendous and selfish thing for me to do. My heart now aches for my mom, she really is the strongest and most selfless person I have EVER met. It wasn't until I had been in my first relationship that i started bonding with my mom as a person, and not just a mother figure. We started opening up to one another after years of fighting. It felt so incredible, until I started learning of things my father did; such as, threatening to kill my mom. He beat the living daylight out of her while she was six months pregnant with the eldest child (older brother)

2007-10-29 19:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by Haunted 3 in Family

2007-10-29 19:41:51 · 23 answers · asked by sara 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so recently I was browsing my husbands myspace and I noticed that all of his "friends" were female. You know the type, the ones with the pics of them in skimpy bikinis, etc. Then I decided I had to snoop. All of his messages are along the lines of (from him to the skimpy dressed woman): "can you post more pics of yourself? The last ones were sexy". And, "hey sexy, what about some more pics? Do you like to flirt? feel free to flirt with me"
So I suppose I'm just asking for your general opinion of, do you think this is acceptable in a marriage? AND, am I wrong to be upset?

2007-10-29 19:40:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A year ago I was sexually harassed. Three of my closest friends know about this and they have been trying to convince me to file a report against this man. I'm just so afraid though that he will come back to hurt me or will send someone to hurt me. (He lives at my intersection) Are my friends right, should I tell one of my teachers? How do I get over the fear that I have?

2007-10-29 19:40:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel like i never belong no matter where im at. I barley want to eat. Im always tired. I could be doing the worlds funniest thing and im always bored what is wrong with me?

2007-10-29 19:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been fighting for the last month or so and finally ended it two weeks ago. The relationship was so passionate but at the same time...when we fight... we don't pull any punches. For that last month we were hot and cold and all over the grid. She is ignoring me now because she wants us to both heal... my question is... do I need to move on. I love her to death and I have her parents blessing for marriage. When we are together, nothing else matters...

2007-10-29 19:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by nooknook1978 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 19:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by darcyaf1 3 in Friends

Because I have!

If you've had this problem, what happened?

And what did you do about it?

Did you accidentally laugh?

2007-10-29 19:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 19:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so how much? I am not working now because I worked for her and her ex husband as a salesperson. I thought about going back to college. But I just want to work and make money.

2007-10-29 19:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by Ty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes i stumble on words, or i get plain speechless, and i am afraid of bothering her and afraid i just dont know what to do, I am also really close to her ex (I think its her ex) and I really dont know what to do most of the time, I really do like her, and I really do value friendship so i just want some advice or opinions

thanks in advance

2007-10-29 19:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by SCHWAA 2 in Singles & Dating

Just want to see the level of importance sex is.

2007-10-29 19:09:00 · 24 answers · asked by preyta rouse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend(who i have a crush on)...15 this year...she have some problem with her appendix....i only knew it today..
She was crying saying that she's afraid about surgery...
Well....as a friend...how can i help her clear away her pain..or even try to help her?

2007-10-29 19:06:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not understand the concept of annulment so I would like to have it explained to me.

1 What are the grounds for annulment?
2 How does it differ from divorce?
3 Why opt for one over the other?

Please answer as thoroughly as possible using more than sentences. Please do not answer, "I am not married so I would not know" because that would not be an answer to this question.

Please share your story. Feel free to use plenty of description. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for your cooperation.

2007-10-29 18:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I get the feeling that many girls feel entitled to have a guy they like even if the guy doesn't like them back.

2007-10-29 18:55:09 · 40 answers · asked by helper725 3 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair for a year. I am in-love with my mistress. My wife does not believe in divorce and she wants to hang in there. She is not letting go..I can leave out of guilt & obligation; but I am in love with another. My wife says I ruined her life..what to do?

2007-10-29 18:53:07 · 33 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She also had sex with 7 buddies of mine and it was videotaped. Why the hell she don't go ask them to be with her and asks me?

2007-10-29 18:52:45 · 2 answers · asked by I Speak the Truth 5 in Singles & Dating