Sometimes I get the feeling that many girls feel entitled to have a guy they like even if the guy doesn't like them back.
2007-10-29 18:55:09 · 40 answers · asked by helper725 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Unitied Nations Human Rights Commisson has set up a charter of basic human rights. One such right is the right to say "No thanks" without retribution or punishment.
Despite the impression that many girls give, this right extends to both genders.
2007-10-29 18:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally fine for a guy not to be interested in a girl if he's not attracted to her. However, "rejecting" her sounds somewhat harsh. I'm sure that's not the way you meant it to sound, but just know that it's best to let the girl down gently. I agree with the others who said that you shouldn't lead a girl on. It's always best to be honest. And don't feel guilty for not being attracted to someone. Looks shouldn't be what a relationship is based on, but there NEEDS to be some sort of attraction between the two people. I hope this helped. God Bless =)
2007-10-30 05:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kori spelled backwards is Irok 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay for a guy to reject a girl. Look at all the girls who reject guys even if the guy just says hi or how's it going.
Reject ugly ladies whenever you want, the choice is yours.
It is the way of life, if you don't like them then don't bother with them.
2007-10-29 18:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course, but it should be done in a very nice way. Don't purposely hurt anyones feelings. If someone likes you, it is an awesome compliment to you! However, if you are in no way attracted to them, don't get their hopes up and act like there is a possibility that you may want to get involved with them. Be honest, but do it in as nice a way as possible. This is one of those rare times it is ok to tell a little white lie. Good luck to you!!!
2007-10-29 18:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ghost Rider Leather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's okay because attraction is what mainly links people together in the first place the common reason to talk to someone is attraction. So don't feel reget be only so true to yourself first then to other it will get you a long way.
2007-10-29 19:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by honest1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw shouldn't feel that way. I mean everyone has the right to turn someone down they don't feel is compatibile to them. But I say do it in as nice a way as possible. Not in a dissing or humilating way in front of your friends. I mean that is just not classy or tasteful. Also it saves your car from getting keyed or you being stalked. So keep it nice unless you have to go to the police for a restraining order.
2007-10-29 19:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're very right. Women have the tendancy to think that just because you've gone out with them they own you.
Some women can attach themselves very quickly into a relashionship and fall in love even ifs its all only from one side.
Women can be too emotional in too short a period of time.
It you don't feel the same attraction tell her as soon as possible and don't put it off. Its best to be honest.
2007-10-29 19:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's shallow for women to reject bald guys. Happy now?
2016-05-26 01:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its ok. There is no reason for anyone, guy or girl, to ever fell obligated to like someone or go out with them. If you are not interested just nicely tell them so. Try to do it in a respectful and understanding way, not in front of other people and tell her plainly and firmly, "ya know, I just don't think of you that way, I hope you understand"
2007-10-29 18:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. It is much better than leading them on. Cuz that will only cauze problems. Be honest with your feelings. And tell those girls to get their noses out of the air and quit acting like their sh1t dont stink.
2007-10-29 18:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋