How can I find out who it is? I think it's someone at work, but no one seems to like me like that. I'm friends with most of my co-workers. What are some signs in could look out for?
2007-10-29 20:16:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep mace with ya cause it sounds like you have a STALKER!!!!!
2007-10-29 20:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by ishka b 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Red Rose Cars
2016-09-27 23:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that's so sweet!
Personally, if I were in your shoes, I would make a card and express how appreciative I would be of the sweet flowers. I'd thank them for thinking of me and bringing a smile to my day with such a nice, unexpected surprise. Then I'd ask if they would like to meet some place ("How about the cafe downtown at 3 on Saturday? I hope to see you there so I can thank you again in person!") and then leave the card sealed and tucked into my door handle where I'd found the roses. If I were feeling extra special for having received such nice sentiments, I might leave my own gift for the secret admirer with the card. (Maybe a stationary set with a nice pen, or a gift card tucked inside the card, etc.)
If they don't respond to the card, I wouldn't go out of my way to try and figure out who it is. Sometimes people are more comfortable giving kind gestures when they can do so anonymously. I would rather have kind gestures than to make the person feel uneasy by sneaking around to figure out who it is. Just relish in the thought that you have people who care so much about you so as to leave you gifts of beauty!
Soooo sweet!
2007-10-29 20:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tina H. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone wanting to talk to you more often than others. Asking what you did the night before, seeing if your available to do something the weekend or when be free. Someone who laughs at your jokes even when they are horrible. The biggest is probably someone who opens up to you the most but you wouldn't expect that person to.
Don't leave your number or anything like that. That is asking for trouble find out first who it could be. Oh and the mace idea might not be so bad just to be on the safe side.
2007-10-29 20:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jai I 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I once had a guy sit in front of my workplace with a bunch of flowers for several hours even tho we had just broken up.
I would never have known he was out their
if my co-workers hadn't known the story as to why we broke up. FYI tell everybody at work the story about the mstery flower and then listen.
Perhaps they saw something interesting.
2007-10-29 20:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by darcyaf1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A stalker ??? A Halloween Joker ?? You can park your car closer so that you can see who it might be. But be wary of how to tell them to stop. Tell security to watch it. 2- Candy pushers those kids who try to make you buy from them for there need. Same goes for flower people. Ex-boyfriends,Ex- husbands. It sounds like someone is watching you and they have found a way to brighten your day but in a different way. Are you keeping the roses? Or running them over with your car. If it was me I'd change my car borrow a friends. Or have someone to drive me to work like a carpool. Hoping that it will stop.
2007-10-29 20:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Giggles66 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well when is this rose usually there...like after work?? At your house?? Anywhere??
You could have a crazy stalker following you around. Just go up to your coworkers and say in a kind of kidding way...
hey guys..who's been leaving me flowers ?????? Then watch the faces to see who looks overly nervous.......
maybe have someone watch the car for you to see if they see anyone leaving flowers.
it sounds very creepy.
2007-10-29 20:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by zanthus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm female and used to park my car in the mall to catch the bus downtown. For a while there I was receiving some lovenotes from some female who thought she was placing her notes on the car of some guy she dated. I left a note on my car for her telling her I'm not the person she was trying to reach, and she stopped leaving the notes. Why not try leaving a note on your car door first saying to reveal themselves or you will take action. Otherwise you can have someone watch the car for you, a PI keep an eye on it, or consider it a stalker if you don't know who it is.
2007-10-29 20:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm...
You got a secret admirer somewhere. If you really wanna know who it is, then watch your car and see who does it. But this is unlikely to work as your admirer will not show himself if u r watching.
So, go get one of your friends to hide and spy on your car. They can click a picture if they can risk it, but it can be dangerous as the admirer may get annoyed and may harm your friend. So get a friend who knows all your folks and can identify them. Thus they can tell you.
2007-10-29 20:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by gєтѕу 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's sooo romantic...old fashioned but still romantic..well I don't know how you'd know that but let me ask you something, do you find the rose when you leave work? or when you are on your way to work..if it's the latter then I think he's someone who know s where you live if not then he's definitly one of your coworker..if you have an office boy, let him check for you...
2007-10-29 22:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a person that does not have the BALLS to tell you straight out that they Wuv-You! Sounds kinda creepy! This person prob plays lots of head-games, seems so mysterious and shy. He needs to use his manhood and let himself be known. If I were you I'd put a note on the car that says this...."HELLO, WHO ARE YOU? THE PERSON LEAVING ROSES ON MY CAR, SPEAK UP MISTER!!!"
2007-10-29 20:21:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋