Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

My husband had a child 7years ago with a girl. We have my stepson 4days a week, she has him 3, Tue, Wen, Thr, not the weekends! She has to party. She has anther son by anther guy, he has custody, but she gets the kid a few days a week. That guy gives her money to help her out. She just had anther baby by anther guy, well she is still testing guys to find the Dad but she thinks she knows who it is. She is 30 & has never worked a day in her life. She feels a Mom should be home with her kids, I’m all for that if she was home with the kids! So she was never married to my hubby, we have no custody agreement, We pay for everything, she has brought us receipts for $6 before b/c she wanted to buy him something & felt we should pay. We cover all medical, school, anything and everything. In our state it’s 50/50 if we have him 50% of the time. We have him more so technically she should be paying us! BUT she has been demanding that we pay her support! What do you think we should do?

2007-10-29 15:42:17 · 22 answers · asked by eiael7 1 in Family

I think I have met a serial killer in the making.
Everything about him is cold.
EVERYTHING.

2007-10-29 15:41:38 · 9 answers · asked by carolcarolcarol80 1 in Singles & Dating

Or maybe he just want to have fun after marriage?He is not happy about divorce,what I have to do and say?

2007-10-29 15:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Miska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm grounded right now and I'm also not allowed to see my boyfriend anymore even if I'm not grounded. I never see him unless we are at school and then we can't get a moment alone. Tomorrow night I'm babysitting for the neighbor's kids and I was thinking once they go to bed at nine I can call him over and we can spend quality time together. We desperately need time alone together since it's so hard for us to get it right now and this seems like the perfect oppurnity plus there is no way anyone can find out about it. But I'm a little scared to do it, should I?

2007-10-29 15:36:39 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I read a paper at school I can't remember a word I read. It just doesnt stick to my mind. This makes me really mad because this is the reason i'm failing 3 of my classes. And also when the teacher is explaining things I don't understand what she says. Its almost like we speak different languages.

I come from a Mexican family and I grew up speaking spanish and spanish was my 1st language.

The only time I can understand things is when people explain it in spanish.
I'm soo confused i don't know who to talk to.

Should I talk to my school counselor or my nurse or what??
Please help I never had this problem before....
It 1st happened in 8th grade. Now im in 10th.

2007-10-29 15:36:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a smart, witty, funny, caring, and loyal guy. I have a great sense of humor and take jokes well. I would also do a lot for a girl if she needed anything. I would be there for her. But there's a downside. I am a heavier guy, and not exactly the best looking, hottest guy... Do girls really care about personality over looks Or do they just not like fat guys?

2007-10-29 15:36:01 · 16 answers · asked by Gator T 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is a stripper and she has been hounding me to have a sexual encounter with another woman, while she watches and participates. I think it's an excuse for to try and bring another man in bed for her. By saying " well I let you have another woman" what do you think?

2007-10-29 15:35:21 · 13 answers · asked by casey091971 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I take the kids to the park, to eat at mc donalds so they can play, camping every so often, to family and friends but i just never feel like doing anything going anywhere i do it for them but what is wrong with me? Does anybody else feel like this? I also feel like when i do get my hopes up to go enjoy something i always want to go back home, and then i want to leave when im home :(

2007-10-29 15:34:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering, once you leave your husband and there are kids involved are you able to have a good relationship with the ex for the childrens sake, like to know other peoples situation.

2007-10-29 15:30:59 · 10 answers · asked by sonsby1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is 20 years old (but looks older) so she doesn't get a lot of weird looks/comments, but her friend is 21 and seriously looks 16, and she gets them ALL THE TIME. People treat me the same way whenever I take out my nephew.

2007-10-29 15:28:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Pic #1:
http://img340.imageshack.us/img340/5862/m2cg4.jpg
somewhere in the middle:
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rate 1-10; she seems hotter otherwise, she's not very photogenic i guess. Every single one of my friends say she's hot, they'd bang her, she's an 8; i think she's a 6.5.

2007-10-29 15:26:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know what are the correct moral choices to make after a break-up occurs? How do you know for sure that you are making the right ultimately supreme moral choices? How do you know what choices to make?

2007-10-29 15:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well my mom was off her meds for the weekend so today I was with her..she called me a heffer and was like "you think you're so perfect, don't you? you think you're all that, don't you?" You know, something an enemy would say..my friends wouldn't even say that when they're mad at me..
It's just now i'm afraid to come home cause i'm afraid she'll hurt my feelins again. I already have a tough time at school.
Advice please..?
Thanks..

2007-10-29 15:26:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If not, please explain why you are not married to the love of your life. How did you miss eachother in life?

1 What profession are you both in?
2 How long did you date prior to marriage?
3 Was this your first marriage?
4 How old were you when you married?
5 How long have you been married?
6 Are you happily married?

Please answer the top part in paragraph format. Please write more than 6 sentences. Please answer the 6 questions. Please do not post answers like, "I am not married" because the question clearly indicates that you are. This question is not for everyone. I am doing a research project on love.

Please share your story with detail because I am all ears.

Thank you for your cooperation.

2007-10-29 15:21:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Basically...what would be considered premature, okay, and good.

2007-10-29 15:20:50 · 3 answers · asked by Danny 1 in Singles & Dating

ever since me and my bf broke up, i've been a mess.. i love him so much and i thought what we had was really great. now everything's starting to crash down on me. he hasn't called me, when i try to call him, he gives me a one answer and i feel like he doesn't really want to talk to me. my studies has been suffering, i'm in a nursing school and i'm almost 8months away from something i really worked hard for. and now i couldn't concentrate. i feel like i don't have the will to go on. do you think a depression pill would help me ease the pain and get on with my life?

2007-10-29 15:19:29 · 24 answers · asked by nursing student 1 in Singles & Dating

why?

2007-10-29 15:18:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or am I destined to meet another Mr Wrong?............lol

2007-10-29 15:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I'm a 14 year old guy, and I have 2 cousins, one who is my age, and one who is 12 (both girls). They both go to the same school I've gone to all my life. Lately I've become jealous of both of them for a few reasons:

They're both still going to that school, my sister and I are not.
They both do well in school, are very popular, have a lot of friends, as I am struggling in school, have very few friends, have no popularity, etc.
Their parents are still together, mine are not.

Is it wrong to be jealous of them because of their happiness whereas I am kind of struggling? I just wish I could trade lives with them or something.

2007-10-29 15:15:34 · 5 answers · asked by Adam 1 in Family

ok so i'm asking this question for my guy friend so "this girl thinks i like her, and i guess thats my fault cause i led her on and i like someone else and she likes me too but i don't know how to tell the other girl i don't like her cause shes a SUPER good friend of mine and i'm a nice guy and i really don't want to hurt her but i don't knwo what to do at all" "like she thinks i like her cause i really made it seem like i did, and now she wants to go out and **** but i really dont want to.."

and she knows him REALLY well and would never go for like some fake le or somethin. so answer fast please!!!

2007-10-29 15:10:12 · 50 answers · asked by Jess M 1 in Singles & Dating

Six years ago I had a whirlwind relationship with my now ex-boyfriend. Things progressed so quickly we ended things b/c we were both in different places in our lives at the time. He had just gotten out of a 3 yr relationship, and I had never had one prior to meeting him. I was so heatbroken when we ended things. We knew it was real, but that the timing was off. It has been about 5 yrs since things ended between us, and just recently we started talking again. He has confessed how guilty he has felt since our breakup and how much he missed having me in his life. A lot has changed in both of our lives and we are so much stronger and aware of what we want now. I have moved around the country in the last 5 years, and only just recently moved back to this area. He wants to see me and keeps wanting to make plans when we talk to do things together, movies, dinner,etc...should I take this as a sign that I should give him a second chance to see if there is still something more between us or run?

2007-10-29 15:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by notey99 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone says I should "save myself." But they never seem to say that to the guys. If girls are supposed to save themselves, and guys are supposed to be experienced, who are these guys going to get their experience with? How can you say girls should save themselves but guys shouldn't? If this is just a sexist prejudice, why should I pay any attention? Or is there more to it?

2007-10-29 15:09:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with telling things out of context to others,about other people. Growing up, I have always to tell exactly everything, with ever little detail that i have done and i'm use to telling too much info, but why do i? Here recently without thinking i've done and hurt my family and one of my friends. I'm tired of it but what is some ways i can keep my self from telling things.

2007-10-29 15:04:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

True or false?

ap·a·thy
–noun, plural -thies. 1. absence or suppression of passion, emotion, or excitement.
2. lack of interest in or concern for things that others find moving or exciting.

[Origin: 1595–1605; (< F) < L apathīa < Gk apátheia insensibility to suffering, equiv. to apathe- (s. of apaths) unfeeling (a- a-6 + pathe-, var. s. of páthos pathos) + -ia -ia]


—Synonyms 1. coolness. 2. See indifference.
—Antonyms 1. ardor, fervor.

2007-10-29 15:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by CC 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 15:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My good friend has a brother that just did 3 years in jail for burglary and he has a rap sheet a mile long for various petty crimes. My friend told me that they were going to come over yesterday and i kinda freaked out. I have a lot of expensive electronic equipment in my house like dvd players, video games, a 55 inch HD big screen tv, plus expensive musical instruments. I told my friend that he could come but i really didn't want him to bring his brother, who has never been in my house before. My friend got all bent out of shape and pissed off saying that he knows that his brother wouldn't steal from me, then he said that if his brother can't come, then he won't come either. I tried to get him to see it from my point of view, but he didn't want to hear it. Did I overreact? I just don't want a known thief in my crib, but I also didn't want to lose a close friend over it either, so what should i do? We're currently not talking at the moment.

2007-10-29 15:00:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should I lie, and disagree, or what? I mean even though I have a few extra pounds I would never say that. One reason is because it think it would make the other person feel awkward, because I know thats how I feel. Also, because I just don't see the point really. Oh, and I'm not talking about all those skinny people who say they are "fat" either! LOL

2007-10-29 14:59:44 · 61 answers · asked by Sidereality 3 in Friends

There's this guy i really like and she always flirts with him knowing i like him and claims to hate him then i come to find out she made out wit him maybe even more. I told her it was cool but deep down inside i know its not...what should i do?

2007-10-29 14:57:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

every time we go to a club my bf wants to bring someone home.... is this ODD???? do I go with the flow???? what if hes better than me? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-29 14:57:16 · 32 answers · asked by AZBOY 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I haven't been able to talk to one of my sorta-friends because he is never listening. To make things worse, he has a girlfriend who I think detests me.
K, I'm not exactly fond of not being listened to, so I end up having to wap him on the head, and lately that isn't even working. Friday night, while with his girlfriend, he was a lot more rude towards me, I lost control and tried to hyperextend his shoulder in an upright hammerlock before (thank god) being pushed by a good friend, bringing me back to my senses from my semi-consious submission holding. This has been going on for a while.
His girlfriend has made things near impossible at reconciliation. I tried giving them both Reese's Peanut Butter Cups, but they turned them down, his girlfriend saying I probably poisoned it. This was the same day as the hyperextension attempt.
This semi-friend does have his nice moments but these are far between. I've known him for 4 years now...
Seriously what should I do? =(

2007-10-29 14:55:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends