How do you know what are the correct moral choices to make after a break-up occurs? How do you know for sure that you are making the right ultimately supreme moral choices? How do you know what choices to make?
2007-10-29 15:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you don't. you're human and therefore apt to make mistakes throughout your entire life, be it before a break up or after. that's okay, as long as you learn from them and try not to make the same ones over and over.
2007-10-29 15:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by sleepycatz1972 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make choices based on the information you have at the time. You may look back and think you made a mistake, but you do not have the luxury of hindsight when making decisions. You try to get as much information and pray about it or if you are not a praying person, think about it before you make a decision.
Good luck.
2007-10-29 22:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I have broken up had NOTHING to do with morals as much as it had to do with it being the right thing to do. I know it wasn't going to be happy, it wasn't going anywhere, so why waste anyone's time. I don't know what it has to do with morals other than those who believe it does, never break up or don't get divorced.
2007-10-29 22:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information, too general. If either spouse has broken or breached their vows, either through misrepresentation, fraud, lying, cheating, abuse, etc....then it seem fairly clear cut....why should one party uphold the vows and committments if the other is not? The only exception is when children are involved, as what is in their best interests should be placed as a priority. Sometimes in order to protect them, the moral obligation is to leave, other circumstances it is to stay together.
2007-10-29 22:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if you make the right decisions until they're made. Sucks. Unfortunately we have to make hard decisions in life with no knowledge whether they will help us or hinder us. At the end of the day you try to make the decisions that you can live with.
2007-10-29 22:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know by asking what would Jesus do and if you dont know what he would look it up and you will find the right choice in the bible because that is never wrong
2007-10-30 10:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay in tune with your emotions. If something doesn't feel 100% right, then don't do it, think about it, and figure out why it doesn't seem right.
2007-10-29 22:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know for sure,,,,,,,it is not like addition....you give it your best shot.pray amd hope your choice is right....you will know maybe in 10 years
2007-10-29 22:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by richard t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont thats where were all human and make the wrong choice . my opion?
2007-10-29 22:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont, that's why it's called choices.
sorry.
2007-10-29 22:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Invictvs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋