Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

So, everytime I talk to this girl on the phone or in person, at the end of every conversation, she keeps saying, "I love you", or "I love you, honey." What could this possibly mean? Could she be interested in me? Or is it just being nice and saying without even knowing that you said it, like saying, "Have a nice day." Thanks for your answers

2007-10-29 17:12:12 · 5 answers · asked by Bella N 1 in Singles & Dating

We met last August and this morning I woke up having no feelings for this person anymore. I've totally and completely lost interest. This has been a wake up call for me. I now realize how shallow I am but it's never too late to change. I've learned my lesson. I should give others a change eventhough I feel no attraction for them the 1st time I see them.

2007-10-29 17:12:09 · 1 answers · asked by 91407 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a big crush on this girl in b-school. She asked me for career advice, I helped & noticed she was flirtatious. She mentioned her BF (diff city), but asked me to dinner (perhaps as thanks for my help). At dinner, she was definitely flirty but gave mixed signals. Later, she sent me a postcard from spring break. I emailed her asking her to dinner. She never replied, ignored me for 2 wks, made up a lame excuse to back out, but didn't suggest an alternate date. I figured she's playing me, so stopped contact. 2 wks later, she asked me to dinner (I refused thinking she's a a player). That week, at a party, I was dancing with another girl and she looked visibly jealous. A month later, I gave in, said hi, we flirted. 2 days later, at a party, she asked me to dance, we rubbed up on the dance flr. She was VERY flirty but next day again she talks about BF (mixed signals). I saw online photos from a party, she looks innocent yet mischievous, pretty, can get any guy. I feel like I blew it. Help

2007-10-29 17:11:45 · 19 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I avoid doing when she comes near me, talks to me or walks by me that will give away the fact that I like her? What things that I do give it away that I like her? If she finds out I like her, what signs should I look for that shows if she approves or disapproves?

2007-10-29 17:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are getting a divorce, & Im 12 and one half. I live with my dad, & the only girl out of 2 other kids. I really want to live with my mom, because my dad makes rude comments about my body & how im growing & he says "Its not my fault you dont have new friends" (we moved to a new place and I didnt feel like inviting anyone over). I feel like all he wants to do is push me down! Im crieing right now just typing this. He even banned me from seeing ANY OF MY FAMILY (outside of ours). I felt totally cut off and alone. One day, my mom called (and he absolutely HATES my mom), & I was so thrilled that she called. But he found out that i talked to her and he HIT ME, OVER AND OVER HARD. So hard I fell to the ground. I got bruises, but this was all 3-4 months ago and I feel stupid not calling 911 or taking pictures of it. He favors my baby brother and that the only reason he's trying to FORCE me into choosing him for custody since its like half my choice. What do I do?! Im so confused!

2007-10-29 17:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah I know there's a lot more to a relationship than a person's appearance but this one guy supposivly likes of my friends . The problem is that her self-esteem is pretty low and she think he's too hot for her. We keep trying to convince that she's not but she won't believe us.
What do you think?
&& please be honest

(him)http://i220.photobucket.com/albums/dd123/summerlover_xx/l_dabfc19949ac623c6636dbbf6a959e24.jpg

(her)http://i220.photobucket.com/albums/dd123/summerlover_xx/632345ca.jpg

2007-10-29 17:07:55 · 30 answers · asked by ♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm a double major at a University where I attend as an honors student. My entire life I've slaved over my grades and tried to work hard at school so that I can have a good career to provide for my younger sibling and parents. Needless to say romance has not been a priority in my life. I am very multi talented, being a writer, ball room dancer, runner and philosopher among other things. Recently, however, I have been hit on. A lot. This has never happened before. I come from a very rural background and I am now living in a much more urban environment. Is this normal? I didn't think guys liked women who were intelligent....

2007-10-29 17:04:41 · 39 answers · asked by WisconsinChik 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my husband keeps wanting to have sex but I don't want to have sex because It's boring we keep doing the the same thing. I don't know if it's me or him. I seems like he keeps coming to me with about it the same way. Then went I want to have sex and I try different things to turn him on. But continues to do the same thing, We do the same stuff in the same order every time. How can I fix this? What can we do different?

2007-10-29 17:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by shadow2400 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i am now 21 and this may sound weird but i would really like to find my biological father i have never met him and i would like to if you know of a way can you please help me

2007-10-29 16:54:23 · 12 answers · asked by jamie J 2 in Family

Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change. The courage to change the things I can. And the wisdom to know the difference.

2007-10-29 16:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright. I'd like to explain a bit. First of all, I'm 18, an honors freshman in college and I have never been 'on a date' persay, before. This guy I've known for about two months now whom I consider a good friend, recently asked me out to dinner. I'd like to know what to wear. Typically, I wear jeans, tshirt, a nice top with tennis shoes maybe a hoodie. I love to get dressed up though, but I want to keep this casual. I love skirts and heels, but i'm afraid that'd be a bit much. Guys: What would you want? My style follows my smarts, I'm very intelligent and consider myself more of a classic than a trend setter. Any suggestions that will make him think wow, without seeming too out of the ordinary?

2007-10-29 16:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by WisconsinChik 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 16:50:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it's "your hand in mine" by explosions in the sky. We both really like that it has no words and is purely instramental, but we both still feel so much emotion towards each other when listening to it. What do you think?

2007-10-29 16:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you look for in a girl...

1. brown eyes or blue eyes
2. pale skin or tan (not fake tan) skin
3. freckles or no freckles
4. brown hair, black hair, red hair, or blonde hair
5. dyed (but still realistic-looking) or natural hair
6. tall (over 5'7) or short (under 5'3)
7. skinny or sorta chubby
8. long hair or short hair
9. shy or very talkative
10. lots of makeup and pretty, or no makeup at all and not-so-pretty

thanks :]

2007-10-29 16:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by May 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl in my english class, her names kristine.
anyway i thought she liked me so i said "you have a crush on me dont you?" she didnt respond she looked at me kinda angry and didnt say much for the rest of the period.

the next day are group got together in class she was acting normal again. i asked "do you have something i can eat?" she said "nothing but gum, sorry."
well later that same day i was talking to my friend brandon and said " see that girl over there, she has a crush on me." he started making "ewww" sounds. i think she heard. when class was letting out i asked if i could have a piece of gum. she couldnt get away from me quick enough.

was i really that rude or was it more brandons falt?

2007-10-29 16:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 16:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this guy...honestly, he's great. But good grief! He's had a personals ad up and running for 4 years now. Previously had a girlfriend he DID NOT meet on-line. Dumped her. And has been in search of ever since. He is on-line at least twice a day, searching and responding to e-mails. And I know he's met a number of girls on there. But what do you think the problem is? What is he looking for or not finding that is taking him this long? Anyone else out there who has or had an ad running that long? Don't you think that's strange??

2007-10-29 16:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy for 3 weeks and we've known eachother for 6 weeks. He is EVERYTHING I could ever dream of. Is it love or is it too soon? How long does it take to fall in love?

2007-10-29 16:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Soo Hurt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 16:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by cynthia g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 16:36:52 · 5 answers · asked by cynthia g 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

Any sugestions on how to politely and tactfully approach the the subject of paying for your own dresses & shoes with my bridesmaids? I know that this is basically the done thing, and although I am getting them made as inexpensively as possible I feel kinda stingy!!

If money wasn't an issue i'd buy them myself, but you know how it is.. :os

I feel awful asking them since they are doing ME the honer of being my 'attendants'!

(and PS Is it customary for the groomsmen to pay for their own suit hire?)

2007-10-29 16:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok, so i have a boyfriend and i love him to death but now i have a problem

for the past few years i was known as the "ugly duckling"
but sence i changed alot over this past year ALOT of guys like me (im not very used to so many liking me at once)

the worst part is, most of the guys that like me ARE MY GUY FRIENDS!!! they know i have a bf but they still kinda wanna hang around me

i got littarly 9 other guys who like me,

how do i tell them i just want to stay friends (without them getting all mad at me? i dont wanna hurt their feelings)

2007-10-29 16:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by crimson_escence 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-29 16:32:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf of 5 years broke up about 3 weeks ago because of some big mistakes he made while at school. He cried and begged for me back for over a week asking me to have his children and marry him, when i made the decison to work it out he turned around and said he didnt deserve me and he just wants to go out be a guy and live the single life. NOW he has a GF!! wtf. and shes soooo nasty, and not even cute at all. I was soo good to him and i wanted to work it out. How can you can a guy move on so fast after 5 years, esp if he loved me as much as he said? how can i get him back, he dissappeared on me, i love him. :(

2007-10-29 16:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 1/2 years. I got married when I was 21. I don't really know if I love him. He is a wonderful guy who cooks, cleans and even irons. We never arque either. I just don't feel passion for him. I don't even remember if I ever have.I don't know if I can be unhappy for 50 years. I don't want to hurt him. I made a mistake and can't take it back. Please don't be rude! Serious answers only. Thanks

2007-10-29 16:30:50 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a guy tells a girl that he wouldn't have backed out of a fight if she weren't there?

2007-10-29 16:30:42 · 9 answers · asked by makemedance32 1 in Singles & Dating

Do they think about how much it will hurt their spouse?

2007-10-29 16:28:56 · 17 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is going to sound weird but how would you go about subtly trying to get a guy to notice you're ticklish? i just want him to know and see if he uses it as a chance to flirt :P

2007-10-29 16:24:32 · 2 answers · asked by 1 2 in Singles & Dating

do you want to date a model or a real-people's girl?

2007-10-29 16:23:04 · 6 answers · asked by ginger_spic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a deep attraction for this man, who has been a friend for more than a year, he cares for me as a friend and I do mention my husband ( he had met my husband) in front of him too. I just want to keep our relationship as friendship. But recently this attraction grew on my part, and I found myself wanting to be close to him, missing him (it's only recently that we don't get to see each other everyday as we were co-workers), but at the same time i do not want to. My husband is aware of my attraction for him and he knows i'm not acting on my attraction. Any of you have this experience too? How do you deal with it?

2007-10-29 16:22:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce