I've been dating a guy for 3 weeks and we've known eachother for 6 weeks. He is EVERYTHING I could ever dream of. Is it love or is it too soon? How long does it take to fall in love?
2007-10-29 16:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Soo Hurt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once I found HER not very long at all WE are still finding lots of neat things out about EACH other
I hope I can show HER alot more soon, and I think SHE wants to Show ME alot too...hmmmm
I can't wait till that day...
2007-10-29 16:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It differs for everyone. First I would ask how old are you and how many people have you dated in the last 10 years? I would say that it is still LUST but I might be wrong. You are the only one who can truly answer that question. You might be a little young still though. I would take my time and date for a while before declaring love for someone you've only known 6 weeks. You might find a few quirks in the next few months that you do not like about this person give it time you are young I take it. You have your whole life ahead of you !!!
GOOD LUCK !!!
2007-10-30 00:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Joe A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a "Set" time limit for falling in love babe! Sometimes it can take a long while and the feeling have to grow! Other times love can hit you like a ton of brick falling on your head and it all happens so fast that it leaves you dazed and confused...yet still feeling totally amazed!!! I have had both kinds in my life...and this time...it hit me hard and fast!!! LOL I am SO completely in love with HIM⥠and it has only been a few short months! All I can say is that when it truly happens you will know...and without a doubt in your mind!!! Good luck hon!!! =D
2007-10-30 00:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every other person has their time. Some people fall in love quick, while others take time before they finally realize their feelings. Depends on your personality and willingness to admit it (of which those two can tie into eachother)
And as for your situation, I think that it's alright for you to have feelings for him as long as you don't jump into things too quick, like getting married when you've only been dating for 3 months, for example. Tell him how you feel.
2007-10-29 23:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by angel_hb09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To fall in love almost no time at all, but to continue as much as you really know the person, that's another thing.
Usually, still a lot of people play the game of showing "only the best" when dating, but sometimes you date people that is not afraid to be known as they really are, not only "sweet times, also real times".
when in love, is normal to be blind to all facts, but sometimes actually is good to try to keep the feet on earth to avoid heartbreaking.
;) Be in love of LIFE ;)
2007-10-29 23:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dragonheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a day, sometimes it takes a lifetime. There is no exact formula for the time it takes to love a person. Time will tell if it's something lasting, so just enjoy those feelings for now.
2007-10-29 23:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Violet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not the same for everyone. You can tell you are in love when:
1. He is all you can ever think about.
2. You laugh at all his jokes even if they aren't funny
3. You smile every time you think about him
4. When you are with your friends and you'd rather be with him
5. When you are sad you wish he was with you
I hope I helped
â¥.blondy
2007-10-29 23:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♥.blondy4eva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think love has an amount of time in order to obtain it. It just happens spontaniousely. If you feel it, there's no confusion about it. Because you all ready know when you fall inlove. If you feel it, then you are haha :]
2007-10-29 23:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by BbyCakes ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is when youcare for them with your life,
when you say that persons name by acciedent when your talking with your boss or teacher,
when you hug each other you never want to let go just in case some thing happens to them,
love is a very powerfull thing no one knows went what only where and why!
2007-10-30 14:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't do it! It is a sham! I'm there w/ ya honey and it hurts. Just another disappointment.
2007-10-29 23:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by carolcarolcarol80 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋