theres this girl in my english class, her names kristine.
anyway i thought she liked me so i said "you have a crush on me dont you?" she didnt respond she looked at me kinda angry and didnt say much for the rest of the period.
the next day are group got together in class she was acting normal again. i asked "do you have something i can eat?" she said "nothing but gum, sorry."
well later that same day i was talking to my friend brandon and said " see that girl over there, she has a crush on me." he started making "ewww" sounds. i think she heard. when class was letting out i asked if i could have a piece of gum. she couldnt get away from me quick enough.
was i really that rude or was it more brandons falt?
2007-10-29 16:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it was lame of you to confront Kristine, you came off egotistic, as if you were all that, and 2 bags of chips, girls like a guy who are confident but not over the top, so I recomend that you get a attitude check, and apologize to the girl, I know its gonna be hard to say Im sorry, but believe me she will be impressed with the fact that you are honest and can man-up to your actions.
2007-10-29 16:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by penelope 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand just how insecure a teenage girl can feel. She might have been horribly embarrassed when you CONFRONTED her about liking you -- why did you do that? Couldn't you be a bit more tactful?
If she did hear Brandon say "Ewwww" (now THAT was rude, incredibly rude) she was probably devastated.
Either leave the poor girl alone or ask her out, but don't keep tormenting her. And next time Brandon says "Ewww" -- even if the girl is REALLY ugly, hit him. To comment on someone's appearance like that is never, ever acceptable behavior.
2007-10-30 00:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by luvrats 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just a kid without manners at all. And that can only make you closer to empty headed girls, this one is not, that's why she didn't want to not even answer you.
Put your feet on your ground and stop feeling like "the last beer can on a baseball stadium", is not polite at all, or at least if you want to make friends or anything else, your way is completely RUDE as you said.
Don't act like a jer*... unless you are really one, be a good kid, and even better be a gentleman enough not to brag about this, just imagine the same situation aplied to your person, would you feel good? No, not if you have a heart or a brain...
2007-10-29 23:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Brandon to back off.
The next time you see her, apologize for you friend. Tell her that you made the mistake of telling him how nice you think she is and he acted like a real jerk. Also, quit asking her for things. Quit asking if she likes you, if she has food, or if she has gum for you. When she gets to her desk, have a small box waiting for her. Inside should be a pack of gum with a note on top that says "Peace offering. Sorry I was such a creep" and sign it. Be a man and put yourself on the line for her.
2007-10-30 00:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you were rude.
Its high school, which means there are going to be some awkward situations. It happens. You can't take back the past, so you have to live with it. If you feel bad, apologize. I'm only a sophomore and I've already had my share of 'i wish i had said something else' moments.
good luck.
2007-10-29 23:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by newsies62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a lil rude. Even though your friend brandon was the one to say it. You would have known that, that would embarrass her. Maybe you should apoligise to her. That's a really hurtful thing from the guy she likes. Hope all goes well. =)
2007-10-30 00:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way it was rude to bring up that she likes you. she obviously didnt feel comfortable telling you if she didnt, so why did u bring it up. second of all guys are dumbasses. why would your friend SAY THAT?!??!??!??! if u like her back explain what happened and apologize for your friends stupidity. if you dont apologize anyways and let her know your not interested.
2007-10-29 23:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by carrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends fault for doing this, but if yu really wanted gum, you should have asked here at that time, and if you like hyer, ask her out no matter what anyone else thinks, but if you dont tell her strait up that you dont
2007-10-29 23:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were rude and you did it twice. It was obnoxious to assume that she has a crush on you and even worse to tell your friend that. You don't know how to act around girls.
2007-10-29 23:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It was you and your friends fault. Oh well. Sh*t happens.
2007-10-29 23:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by skrdude8389 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋