suddenly they all like me?

Question

ok, so i have a boyfriend and i love him to death but now i have a problem

for the past few years i was known as the "ugly duckling"
but sence i changed alot over this past year ALOT of guys like me (im not very used to so many liking me at once)

the worst part is, most of the guys that like me ARE MY GUY FRIENDS!!! they know i have a bf but they still kinda wanna hang around me

i got littarly 9 other guys who like me,

how do i tell them i just want to stay friends (without them getting all mad at me? i dont wanna hurt their feelings)

Answer 1

Just be straight up and tell them. If they get mad at you, it's just because they want to go out with you. So, don't take it personally. It isn't your fault and you know you can't go out with them. Guys also want what they can't have. So, I also think that most of them want you now because you're taken.

Answer 2

hmmm..this is hard.
well you could just say that you want them you want to stay good friends and there is always that possibility of something other than that later on in life, and that right now you are just trying to stay with your current boyfriend. plus you could also hang out with the other boys that are friends too. unless your boyfriend doesnt like that but it shouldnt matter as long as you dont do anything with them.
if i didnt fully answer your questions just ask.
i hope that helped. bye~

Answer 3

YOU TELL THEM JUST HOW YOU WROTE IT. "I JUST WANNA STAY FRIENDS".....U HAVE A BF. THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE YOUR FRIENDS RIGHT? THEN THEY SHOULD UNDERSTAND. IT MAY HURT NOW, BUT IT WOULD HURT MORE IF YOU LEAD THEM ON.

Answer 4

lucky girl - the worlds most fun problem...

Answer 5

Wow, I wish I had your problem...