well i am now 21 and this may sound weird but i would really like to find my biological father i have never met him and i would like to if you know of a way can you please help me
2007-10-29 16:54:23 · 12 answers · asked by jamie J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom gave up for adoption when i was 5 i don't know where she is either and i have no clue what his name is please help
2007-10-29 17:06:48 · update #1
ok here is another problem i was adopted but my adopted family died when i was 7 i have no other family the last i heard was my mother lived somwhere in texas i know what her name was when i was little but i don't know if it is the same
2007-10-29 17:20:50 · update #2
Start with your mother. You will need to know the man's name.
Do you know if he is aware of you? If he does not know you, It could be a real shock, or very embarrassing if he has a family now. If he knows of you, and does not want contact, it will be difficult.
If you have his name, and possible address, you might try internet searches.
If you are adopted, the adoption agency may know of your parents. They can send your contact information to see if the father is willing to communicate with you.
Don't get your hopes too high, and don't be too disappointed if your father doesn't want to have a relationship with you.
Do you have an emotional support network, someone you can confide in, such as a church pastor, trusted teacher, very good friend? You may need someone to help.
It may take 10 years or more to find your father, so be prepared for the long haul.
Good luck.
2007-10-29 17:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by OrakTheBold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have be given,lots of information to look,But Like Every-Body Says,,You need information,an it does not matter what kind of info you have cause it may be a solid info,
It does not matter which person or gov agency that may help
you,,,but You need all an any bits of info,for these people to
help you find Your Dad,Start where you last remember the people that
had you first ,then go from there....Wish You all The Success
in your Journey of Awakening!!
2007-10-30 01:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by MANNY969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many people finding type services on the internet. If you know his first and last name, age, and general location that should make it easy for you to start out looking. Try Peoplefind.com or a similiar service.
Good luck!
2007-10-29 23:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by nunya b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if any of your other family members know anything about where he last lived, An old address, phone number, place of work, etc. These are good places to start.
2007-10-29 23:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could hire an investigator - can be expensive
or snoop using the computer
Go to: anywho.com and type in name / city, state
try also white pages on internet. Good luck - does your other know where he might be as well? be prepared to any outcome. I would find him either way
2007-10-30 00:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the best groups to help you is the SALVATION ARMY,it is known throughout the world for its resources.
Don`t be shy GIVE IT A TRY you have nothing to lose.
2007-10-29 23:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by jumping jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do public records searches inexpensively. IF you are really driven and price is worth it you can get a P.I.
2007-10-29 23:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by shallytally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best way to go if you have his name and place of birth you can go to social security department. if you have the money to spend you can also look up !@ people search.com
2007-10-29 23:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by S♥m♥i♥i♥l♥l♥e♥e♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know his name you can find him on the web..It,ll cost you about thirty bucks but it works...WE found my wifes real dad this way....
2007-10-29 23:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
google his name or the whitepages.com
2007-10-30 00:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by SIR LEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋