Well my husband keeps wanting to have sex but I don't want to have sex because It's boring we keep doing the the same thing. I don't know if it's me or him. I seems like he keeps coming to me with about it the same way. Then went I want to have sex and I try different things to turn him on. But continues to do the same thing, We do the same stuff in the same order every time. How can I fix this? What can we do different?
2007-10-29 17:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by shadow2400 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I find that sexy and suggestive talk throughout the day gets both me and my wife in the mood as well as trying new positions...maybe toys...or role playing....just talk to your partner and tell him how you feel...remember ...Sex is 90% mental and only 10% physical !!!! Good Luck.....
2007-10-29 17:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by tooldaddy2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that maybe your husband has his own way of having sex but i do understand you when you say that the sex is getting boring hell what the **** he doing,okay how about this have your husband ever ate you out before because that wil get you hot.Or maybe you guys should try the rabbitt thats when the guy picks you up while yall are having sex in bounce you around the room boy oh boy youll like that,but anyway whatever you think will work is good just do it in a more lustive way.
2007-10-29 17:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon the best thing you can do is talk to him. Tell him exactly how you are feeling - maybe he's feeling the same way and you don't know it? Thing is - in something like this, communication is the key. If you don't communicate, something like this could really come between you and grow in to quite a big issue - maybe leading down a road you never want to go. Honestly, the best thing you can do is talk to your husband.... best of luck :)
2007-10-29 17:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate to him exactly what you wrote . Men are not mind readers and unless you really communicate to him what you want it will not happen.
Maybe you should take the bull by he hons and do something different yourself. LIke sugest you take a bath together or make a date and let him pick you up.
2007-10-29 17:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by gemeni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a club, its exciting!!!
2007-10-29 19:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋