What if he said sorry, and that he was just angry and didnt mean it.
2007-10-29 15:59:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he has an anger problem, he might need help to get that under control.
2007-10-29 16:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That was really disrepectful, its up to you whether or not you want to proceed that issue can only be as big as you yourself make it. So if it is that big of a problem with you where you cant get over it then yes you would be justified in ending the relationship. However, if you know he is sorry and really feel that this kind of disrespect wont take place again, then you should give him another chance. As long as you let him know that that kind ofbehavior will not be tolerated again. But in the end its all about what you want and what the relationship is worth or isnt worth to you.
2007-10-29 23:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends if he meant it when he said sorry.
Spitting on his girlfriend just shows how much he doesn't respect her. If he did it once, he might do it again. I would have given him a second chance if he really meant he was sorry, but he clearly has anger management problems. That's ok, no one's perfect, but I'd try to help him out a bit. Talk out problems instead of arguing about them. It could only make him mad again.
2007-10-29 23:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by KC07 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he did it once it's likely he'd do it again.
But, at the same time, if he was sincere when he said he was sorry and promised to never do anything like that again then I guess so. Especially if he got you something after, like bought you some flowers or sent you a note or something like that to reinforce that.
It just depends on how strong y'all's attraction is for each other and if you, mentally, can take him back.
But if it was me, and my g/f did that to me and she didn't seem really apologetic about it, we'd be over.
2007-10-29 23:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends. I wouldn't dump him over just being spit on, but if he's childish and impulsive like that in general, that might be a good reason to break up.
2007-10-29 23:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First comes spit, then comes hit, then here comes you with a black eye w/ a side busted lip. All For Which he will be sorry for.
Be smart honey, in some states that an assault.
Tell him to take his sorry, and learn some manners.
Then, find you someone who respects you.
2007-10-29 23:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'd be gone before it had a chance to dry! Sorry just doesn't cut it. And if he didn't mean it, then he has an anger control issue and needs to get a grip on it before he takes it to the next level.
2007-10-30 01:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he was a real man when he got angry he wouldnt stoop to spitting on you. Real men dont do that. DUMP him asap and move on. It was spit this time... next time it may be hit!! Your wasting time on a loser!!
2007-10-30 00:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah id dump him (dump him over a bridge wit water in and concrete blocks tied to his feet) he has an anger problem and this will not be the end weather he said sorry or not this is not the end good luck and be smart about this
2007-10-29 23:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by 1401 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES!!! Dump the jerk!!! He can be angry but that is NO reason to spit on anyone!! He is showing no respect to you.
You deserve better!
2007-10-29 23:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by bo bunnis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋