So many women I meet, who are interested in me on some level and who would go out with me, say that they are already dating someone... but they specify "but its not exclusive yet"... as though that should be well enough prompting for me to ask them out and be satisfied.
I wont share a woman. I know that sex isnt a component to the issue here... just dating.
Either youre committed or youre not. If youre the type not to commit, why would I want you? If youre the type to cheat on whoever youre currently with for me, why would I want you?
I hold women (and myself) to higher expectations.
I find most women are never single... they bounce from one man to another in desperation to be "with someone", either as a superficial social "criteria" or for their own measure of self-worth. Women cant be content to just be single... long enough for the right man to come along.
2007-10-29
21:43:39
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➔ Singles & Dating
When I go out with a woman, I am fully committed until at least the end of the date... at most whenever its obvious the relationship will fail. I will not date two women during any time span.
I dont believe in the "we arent exclusive yet" belief. Its jsut an excuse to cheat. Its an advertisement to the fact that two people have yet to establish that cheating amongst them is a no-no.
2007-10-29
21:45:10 ·
update #1
I ask women like this why they are dating the guy in the first place if they are so unsure about staying with them, committedly. Why would they?
Either declare commitment or end the relationship that is doomed to anyway.
2007-10-29
21:46:36 ·
update #2
Thats jsut how I feel about it. I hate it when I hear a woman say it. What does that really mean?
I am so turned off by it... so disgusting. I regret ever even trying to bring them into my life with that mentality of theirs.
Is "non-exclusivity" the reason why so many women are never single but always dating someone new?
2007-10-29
21:48:22 ·
update #3