Hey. Internet. Can you please help me with a woman?

Question

Ok.

So, lately I've been talking to this girl. She's not like girls I'd normally go after...she's more...wild, I guess. Not slutty, wild. It's kinda hard to describe, maybe I'm just a prude. But that's besides the point.

We'll talk on the phone for a little bit, she'll say stuff like "She wishes she was in my arms" and how "I'm the light at the end of her tunnel". She's one of those MySpace scenesters too, so she makes cryptic blogs about me too.

But see, the problem is her saying she'll do stuff and she doesn't do it. She'll say she'll get on AIM, but she won't. She'll say she'll call...but she doesn't. Now this isn't like this 100% of the time, but enough to get my attention. When we do talk on the phone, we have a good time and this is progressively getting better.

So now...I'm at a fork in the road.

Do I go against my nature and play hard to get back or was she just taught to make the guy come to her and I should be calling her?

Answer 1

She could have gotten busy. Don't jump to conclusions.

Answer 2

Do you have a link of what you look like? (Leo d - perhaps?)

Or maybe her mind is cluttered with other problems that sometimes she is so worried about that even tho she heard what you said and really does care for you that she.....

Ummm btw....u don't mention how many times u have gone to her house and asked her out to dinner or bringing her favorite flower - or just writing her a love poem or even best yet just hanging out in real time - ? ! ? Have you done this yet?

Answer 3

She sounds like a flake to me. Drop her like a bad habit

Answer 4

if you think you guys are going to turn into something serious then I would suggest you talk to her about it so she can explain why she says things and doesn't do them. maybe then she will try harder to keep her word.

Answer 5

i think she's just irresponsible or forgets. but i suggest you call her