Should I believe it when he says that he still loves me. The only bad thing is he is aggressive in bed. I don't like it, but I accept it, because that's who he is and the sex is fantastic.
2007-10-29 21:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He never cheated on me when we were together. should I just use him for sex. I mean it's great sex. should I use him for sex.
2007-10-29 21:56:55 · update #1
if you are in just for the sex, maybe the question should be, "should i believe myself in trying to convince myself that i love him?"
either way, the relationship you're having now is just lust. you should ask yourself, if he does love you, why on earth is he engaged to another woman in the first place? shouldn't it be you who's engaged to him? think woman, think!
you're just his play thing. he's doing whatever he can now, since his hands will be tied up soon and you were an easy bait. he's toying with your feelings, using your history as a couple, giving you hope that whatever the reason why you guys broke up in the first place would never happen again and promises that he'll break it off with his fiance soon but how soon, is SOON?
don't waste your time over spilled milk, honey. what's done is done. save yourself from shame before it's too late. take pity on the one who will marry him.
2007-10-29 21:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: No!
Long answer: If he still loves you, why is he going to spend the rest of his life with someone else? What you are proposing is adultery. Cheating is never a good idea! You could end up destroying what could potentially be a lifetime of happiness for two people all for "good sex." I'm quite sure you could find someone else, who is unattached, I might add, to have "good sex" with. You say he never cheated when you were together, and I question that. I suspect you just never caught him. If he's willing to cheat now, he was probably willing before. Be careful here.
2007-10-30 05:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hyacynth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im doing the same thing but ur never gonna get over him and move on if you keep seeing him! And he's not gonna leave her! Believe me! x
2007-10-30 05:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is using you for sex. He is engaged to someone else. Doesn't that tell you something? He loves her and want to screw you!!!
2007-10-30 04:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is engaged. Leave him alone. All you are is a piece to him. He dont love you.
2007-10-30 04:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were the fiance would you want him sleeping with someone else? Always put yourself into someone elses shoes when your actions affect them.
2007-10-30 04:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good god what are you thinking if he cant be faithful to her what makes you think he will be faithful to you. someone should tell the other girl better that she gets hurt before there is marriage and kids involved very messy
2007-10-30 04:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by chickybabe1371 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋